hot pursuit by AsianBossGirl

it's fine, i'm fine, but (we're not fine)! in this episode, the hot pursuit girls talk about the art of passive aggression, the tone that says way more than your words, and how to catch yourself when you’re serving up a little too much shade. they unpack why we sometimes struggle to say what we really mean, what it’s like being a direct communicator, and why learning to be honest and kind, with yourself and with others, is essential.

0:00 knives out for game time

14:05 how do you define passive aggression?

23:14 what diffuses passive aggression?

27:58 mads experiencing the world as a direct communicator

35:15 catching yourself in the act

48:12 what is the real root of passive aggression?

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THE HOT PURSUIT PODCAST:

Hosted and written by: Jennifer Han, Emily Lin, and Madelyn Ong

Produced by: Hot Pursuit Media and AsianBossGirl

Edited by: Josh Jang

Theme song composed by: Shawn Halim

Art by: Kelsey Cordutsky

Motion Graphics by: Matt Ebling
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do we marry for the bank account or the butterflies? in this episode, the hot pursuit girls debate a simple but juicy question: money or love? aka, how much does financial stability really matter, can love grow over time, and is your partner’s character ultimately worth way more than their net worth?

0:00 he’s a 10 but…

18:17 first time love vs. money was a true dilemma

31:19 the case for money (and character)

42:55 the case for love

49:29 what do you prioritize more now in this stage of life?

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Connect with us @thehotpursuitpod on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube.

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THE HOT PURSUIT PODCAST:

Hosted and written by: Jennifer Han, Emily Lin, and Madelyn Ong

Produced by: Hot Pursuit Media and AsianBossGirl

Edited by: Josh Jang

Theme song composed by: Shawn Halim

Art by: Kelsey Cordutsky

Motion Graphics by: Matt Ebling
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what makes female friendship in your 30s so special? in this episode, the hot pursuit girls talk about what it means to be the kind of friend who shows up and the joys of building deep connection with the ones who are the real ones. they share about the ways friendships evolve and deepen in your 30s, and how the friendships you choose, and keep choosing, become more magical over time.

0:00 friendship faux pas: victim or perpetrator?

16:26 what does being a good friend look like?

24:20 the thrill of friend crushes

35:28 the kaleidoscope of friendship types

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Connect with us @thehotpursuitpod on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube.

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THE HOT PURSUIT PODCAST:

Hosted and written by: Jennifer Han, Emily Lin, and Madelyn Ong

Produced by: Hot Pursuit Media and AsianBossGirl

Edited by: Josh Jang OR Sutton Dreher of Adler Grey Videography

Theme song composed by: Shawn Halim

Art by: Kelsey Cordutsky

Motion Graphics by: Matt Ebling
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what happens when you graduate & suddenly realize you have no idea what you’re doing with your life? in this episode, the girls talk about entering adult life in your 20s and figuring out who you are when the roadmap disappears. they discuss the importance of chasing your dreams, while also remembering that feeling a little (or...VERY) lost along the way is not a failure - it’s a normal part of growing up and continuing to find your way at any age.

0:00 the post-grad slump can be so scary

10:42 how the post grad slump challenges your identity

27:23 does it ever get better?!

37:16 are slumps just a normal part of life?

CONNECT WITH US

Connect with us @thehotpursuitpod on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube.

Email us at ⁠hello@thehotpursuitpod.com⁠.

Learn more at ⁠thehotpursuitpod.com⁠.

THE HOT PURSUIT PODCAST:

Hosted and written by: Jennifer Han, Emily Lin, and Madelyn Ong

Produced by: Hot Pursuit Media and AsianBossGirl

Edited by: Josh Jang

Theme song composed by: Shawn Halim

Art by: Kelsey Cordutsky

Motion Graphics by: Matt Ebling
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are you secure, anxious, avoidant... or just a little toxic? welcome to season 4 of hot pursuit!! in this episode, jen, em, and madelyn dive into all things attachment styles: from the red flags of each type, the attachment styles they're most drawn to in dating, and how we've each fared in the never-ending quest to become secure.

0:00 welcome to season 4!

7:30 red flag or not?

19:27 what attachment style are you attracted to?

33:58 how do we become secure?

38:03 how to combat your own toxicity

CONNECT WITH US

Connect with us @thehotpursuitpod on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube.

Email us at ⁠hello@thehotpursuitpod.com⁠.

Learn more at ⁠thehotpursuitpod.com⁠.

THE HOT PURSUIT PODCAST:

Hosted and written by: Jennifer Han, Emily Lin, and Madelyn Ong

Produced by: Hot Pursuit Media and AsianBossGirl

Edited by: Josh Jang

Theme song composed by: Shawn Halim

Art by: Kelsey Cordutsky

Motion Graphics by: Matt Ebling
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices