I was a broke, university dropout, at 18 I built an industry leading social media marketing company, and at 27 I resigned as CEO. At 28 I co-founded Flight Stor...
The Body Language Expert: Stop Using This, It’s Making People Dislike You, So Are These Subtle Mistakes! Your Resting Face Matters & How To Fix It!
What if you were told that there is a secret language that makes up 98% of your communication? Impacting your work, socialising, and romantic life
Vanessa Van Edwards is the founder of ‘Science of People’, which gives people science-backed skills to improve communication and leadership. She is also the bestselling author of ‘Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People’ and ‘Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication’.
In this conversation, Vanessa and Steven discuss topics such as, why your resting face matters, the 3 science-backed tricks for confidence, the best gestures for building trust, and how to spot a liar fast.
00:00 Intro
01:45 The Crucial Role of Cues for Success
03:16 I'm a Recovered Awkward Person
05:07 What's an Ambivert?
07:00 One Word That Can Change the Way People Think
09:11 The Most Fundamental Skill to Invest In
12:13 The Resting B*tch Face Effect
15:33 Do Not Fake Smile!
18:00 The 97 Cues to Be Warm and Competent
21:15 The Formula to a Perfect Conversation
24:09 Science Reveals Why Some People Are Extremely Popular
28:06 Message People Telling Them This...
32:53 The Luck Experiment
34:36 Being Around Successful People Is Contagious
41:26 The Importance of Hand Gestures
43:10 Hand Tricks to Be Liked
53:46 The Scientific Formula to Be More Charismatic
56:19 The Danger Zone of Being Too Warm or Competent
58:16 The Power Cues
1:07:26 How to Spot a Liar
1:14:54 If You've Been Told You're Intimidating, Do This
1:18:09 Don't Let Anyone Use This With You
1:21:16 The 6 Questions to Connect With Someone
1:33:52 Leaning Too Much Towards Someone...
1:38:34 How to Greet Someone
1:49:13 How to Master Messaging
1:54:12 Personal Branding
1:58:32 Improve Your Dating Life With These Tips
2:03:58 Body Language and Brain Connection
2:06:05 Are You Awkward? Watch This
2:09:45 How to Get Someone to Approach You
2:14:39 How to Make Friends as an Adult
2:18:28 AirPods Are Killing Friendships
2:21:48 Ads
2:22:39 How to Spot a Liar (Repeat Topic)
2:28:36 Toxic Relationships
2:31:06 How to Start a Conversation With a Stranger
2:35:32 How to Get Started With All This Knowledge
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Moment 190: Everything You Definitely Don’t Know About Marketing (But Should), From 4 World Leading Experts!
Why is marketing so important for businesses? In this episode, we've picked the highlights from our conversations with Josh Kaufman, Scott Galloway, Rory Sutherland, Whitney Wolf Herd to bring you the TL;DR on how to succeed at marketing your business.
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Orgasm Queen: Do This For 20 Minutes Before Having Sex & Have Sex With Them Like When You First Met! I Never Orgasmed Until He Tried This!
From sexless to sizzling, Susan Bratton shares the sexual secrets to ignite intimacy and make it last.
Susan Bratton is a renowned relationship and intimacy expert. She is the CEO of ‘The 20’ and ‘Personal Life Media’ and the bestselling author of 34 books including, ‘Relationship Magic’, ‘Revive Her Drive’, and ‘Sexual Soulmates: The Six Essentials for Connected Sex’.
In this conversation, Susan and Steven discuss topics such as, how to fix a sexless marriage, how cheating can save your sex life, the best way to last longer in bed, and how to get unlimited orgasms.
00:00 Intro
02:04 What Do You Do and Why Do You Do It?
02:36 Advice for Someone Struggling With Their Sex Life
04:57 Common Questions From Women
05:35 Common Questions From Men
06:27 Quality vs. Quantity
06:41 Susan's Journey to Becoming a Sexpert
08:35 Lessons Learned From Sexual Trauma
09:52 What Is Dissociation?
12:38 Susan’s Personal Issues With Sex Life
15:49 Are You Giving Mercy Sex?
17:34 How Did You Fix Your Trauma?
20:34 Identifying Problems in a Relationship
21:41 Sex Injustice and Trauma
24:15 Affair in Susan's Marriage
28:46 Non-Monogamy
31:20 How to Talk About Sex With Your Partner
34:02 How Did You Become Polyamorous?
36:20 First Audience Question
42:07 Body Image Issues
43:01 Reconnecting With Your Partner: Two Techniques
46:47 Comparisons With Other People
48:53 Removing Pressure Around Sex
50:30 Erotic Playdates
54:25 Dealing With a Partner Who Mocks Sexual Fantasies
57:04 Managing Opposite Sex Communication in Relationships
59:23 Safety + Novelty = Desire
01:01:53 Early Ejaculation
01:07:26 What’s the Most Effective Sex Toy?
01:09:36 The Pulse Queen
01:10:11 The Vibe
01:13:45 Types of Orgasms
01:19:23 Third Audience Question
01:20:13 How to Have an Expanded Orgasm With a Partner
01:20:33 Women’s Favorite Sex Toy
01:22:17 The Pleasure Protocol
01:25:55 Fourth Audience Question
01:27:35 Ads
01:28:40 Menopause vs. Libido
01:29:12 Libido, Desire, and Arousal
01:29:59 Testosterone Levels and Libido Decrease
01:31:10 When Sex Becomes Routine
01:35:37 Pornography and Masturbation
01:40:05 STI Testing
01:42:35 Knowing When to Walk Away From a Partner
01:47:25 Question From the Previous Guest
01:48:11 Question for Steven
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Brian Keating: I’m Spending $200 Million To Explore Why We Exist! How God Fits Into Science Finally Explained, Is God Real?
Could understanding the mystery of the Big Bang and how the Universe came into creation mean that we can finally know for sure if there is a creator?
Professor Brian Keating is a cosmologist and experimental physicist at the University of California San Diego. He is the host of the ‘Into The Impossible’ podcast and author of the books, ‘Losing The Nobel Prize’ and ‘Into The Impossible: Think Like A Nobel Prize Winner’.
In this conversation, Brian and Steven discuss topics such as, how the discovery of the telescope changed the world, the link between our blood and the stars, the origins of the universe, and the scientific debate on God’s existence.
(00:00) Intro
(02:15) What Mission Are You On?
(03:08) What Are Some Of The Most Controversial Questions You Set Out To Answer?
(05:44) How Does God Tie Into The Creation Of The Universe Through A Scientific Lens?
(08:26) $200 Million Project – Move Earlier
(11:45) Meteor And 4-Billion-Year-Old Comet
(15:38) Capturing The Origin Of The Universe
(19:15) What Do You Suspect Is The Origin Of The Universe?
(21:47) What Is The Most Compelling Evidence Of A God?
(30:53) What Practices Help You Move Away From Being An Atheist?
(39:09) Are We Searching For The Wrong Thing When It Comes To God?
(41:30) If I Pray To This God, Will They Hear Me?
(49:41) If It Was Proven God Wasn’t Real, How Would Your Life Change?
(53:48) What Is The Simulation Theory?
(01:02:42) Do Aliens Exist?
(01:17:45) What Is The Probability We’re Alone?
(01:24:31) Ads
(01:25:31) Star Signs And Horoscopes
(01:27:51) How Is Astrology Different From Religion?
(01:30:07) What Is The Meaning Of Life?
(01:32:43) What Was The Meaning Of Your Life Before Kids?
(01:34:18) Do The Greats Feel Like Imposters?
(01:40:13) The Importance Of Always Experimenting
(01:41:09) Would You Ever Trade The Lack Of Privacy And Fame For Something Else?
(01:43:25) The Last Guest’s Question
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Moment 189: This Is The Real Reason You Can't Change Your Life: Doctor Alok Kanojia
In this moment, world-leading men’s mental health coach and psychiatrist, Dr K discusses the ways people try and fail to put trauma behind them as well as the REAL way to overcome it.
Most people who have a history of trauma will try and overcompensate in the way they build their future lives. For instance, people can try to overcome the trauma of bullying by becoming invisible or becoming successful to overcoming past shame. However, no matter what people do to adapt to the historic trauma, it still remains in the mind. This can be seen in peoples responses to events that trigger memories of their past trauma.
Instead of this overcompensation, Dr K says that you need to dismantle your worldview by slowing down the mind and paying attention to your thoughts and feelings. He believes that this awareness is a superpower that everyone is ignoring, as the more aware you are in the present moment, the more your problems fade away.
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I was a broke, university dropout, at 18 I built an industry leading social media marketing company, and at 27 I resigned as CEO. At 28 I co-founded Flight Story – a marketing and communications company, and thirdweb - a software platform, making it easy to build web3 applications. I then launched private equity fund, Flight Fund, to accelerate the next generation of European unicorns. During this time I decided to launch 'The Diary Of A CEO' podcast with the simple mission of providing an unfiltered journey into the remarkable stories and untold dimensions of the world’s most influential people, experts and thinkers. Thank you for listening.
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