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Dear Shandy

Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine
Dear Shandy
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  • Dear Shandy

    Love Is Blind UK S3: FINALE - Episodes 9 & 10 Recap & Review - Ep 487

    2026-08-26 | 1h 6 mins.
    Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the grand Finale, aka Episodes 9 & 10.

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    Time stamps...
    0:00 - Housekeeping
    2:20 - Episode 9
    29:53 - Episode 10
    58:00 - Shandy’s Reunion Predictions
    1:02:04 - Who We Would Go For

    If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com

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  • Dear Shandy

    Love Is Blind UK S3: Episodes 5-8 Recap & Review - Ep 486

    2026-08-24 | 1h 45 mins.
    Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the first half of Batch 1, aka Episodes 5-8.

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    Time stamps...
    0:00 - Housekeeping
    2:34 - Episode 5
    20:57 - Episode 6
    56:50 - Episode 7
    1:14:42 - Episode 8
    1:33:02 - Shandy’s Predictions
    1:40:21 - Who We Would Go For

    If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com

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    Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com

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  • Dear Shandy

    Love Is Blind UK S3: Episodes 1-4 Recap & Review - Ep 485

    2026-08-19 | 1h 15 mins.
    Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Is Blind UK, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down the first half of Batch 1, aka Episodes 1-4.

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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Housekeeping
    3:31 - Episode 1
    22:42 - Episode 2
    37:16 - Episode 3
    57:11 - Episode 4
    1:04:41 - Ibiza
    1:09:54 - Shandy’s Predictions
    1:12:52 - Who We Would Go For

    If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com

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    Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com

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    Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion
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  • Dear Shandy

    Q&A! Your Argumentative Boyfriend & Wedding Guests Who Don't Give Gifts - Ep 484

    2026-08-13 | 1h 9 mins.
    It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions!

    You're excited to move in with your boyfriend, however, the geographical and financial benefits are impossible to ignore—is your judgment being clouded by the perks? You're a Gandy and your girlfriend looks young... TOO young. Is your self-consciousness warranted? Your wedding guest came but didn't send a gift—is it acceptable to ask about the gift, and if not, do you still need to write a Thank You card? Your social life has taken a hard hit by your post-COVID anxiety—what is Shandy's advice? Finally, you love your boyfriend but your parents do not—whose side should you choose? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!

    Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.

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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Housekeeping
    3:55 - Q1: Are The Perks Of Moving In With My Boyfriend Clouding My Judgment?
    17:57 - Q2: My Girlfriend Looks Super Young & It Makes Me Self Conscious—Help!
    21:50 - Q3: My Guest Attended But Didn’t Give Us A Wedding Gift—Is It OK To Ask About It?
    33:43 - Q4: My Social Anxiety Has Reduced My Friend Circle To Non-Existent—Help!
    52:02 - Q5: My Opinionated Boyfriend Is Rubbing My Parents Wrong—Help!

    If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com

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  • Dear Shandy

    LOVE FEST! The Ultimatum's Luke Wesselhoff & Monica Payne Talk Growth & Goofiness - Ep 483

    2026-08-06 | 1h 22 mins.
    It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Shandy is excited to be joined in-studio by Monica Payne and Luke Wesselhoff from Season 4 of Netflix's The Ultimatum!

    Today Luke and Monica give us a peek behind The Ultimatum curtain: what didn't we see on the show, and just how accurate (or inaccurate) was their edit? We talk growth on and off the show, navigating the public's assumptions, their high school personas, their first kiss, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a Newlyweds Game that proves these two go waaaay back! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!

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    TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@lukeboxxx

    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Welcome Monica & Luke!
    1:30 - What We Didn’t See On The Show
    6:56 - Luke’s Journey
    13:36 - Monica’s Journey
    19:33 - Would They Be Engaged Today Without ‘The Ultimatum’
    23:37 - Why They Went On The Show
    32:00 - The Intimidation Of David/Luke’s Confidence
    42:16 - High School/First Kiss
    51:53 - Monica’s “Professionalism”
    57:19 - Conflict Resolution
    1:06:06 - The Newlyweds Game

    If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com

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    Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com

    More Andy
    Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine

    Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion
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About Dear Shandy
Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine—aka "Shandy"—combine dating advice and reality show recaps for a fun analysis of modern romance.Sharleen and Andy are two former commitment-phobes who have now been married for over a decade. They don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the tough dating lessons by living them. Get no-holds-barred, non-judgmental & honest advice from two people who actually have what you want: a fun, blissful partnership.As an iconic former Bachelor contestant, Sharleen brings her insider knowledge (combined with Andy's hilarious commentary) to deliver what are hands-down the best Reality TV recaps in the business. They interview reality TV (or reality-adjacent) couples in double-date style episodes called Love Fests. New episodes drop every Thursday, and during TV seasons, twice a week.
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