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Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine
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  • Dear Shandy

    The Traitors New Blood: Episodes 3-4 Recap & Review - Ep 493

    2026-09-25 | 1h 2 mins.
    Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors New Blood on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episodes 3 & 4.

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    Time stamps...
    0:00 - Housekeeping
    0:50 - Episode 3
    23:35 - Episode 4
    59:22 - Best Dressed

    If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com

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  • Dear Shandy

    Q&A! Backing Out As Maid Of Honor & Is It OK To Flirt While Married? - Ep 492

    2026-09-24 | 1h 24 mins.
    It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions!

    You're dating a guy but can't tell if the pit in your stomach is dread or butterflies... is it your anxiety or the infamous Ick? You regret agreeing to being your childhood friend's Maid Of Honor. Is it ever OK to back out of the role? You're a devoted daughter but your dreams extend beyond your duty. Between the crushing guilt and the desire to break free, which one wins? You're a mom of two young men and worry about their dating prospects—Shandy weighs in on your worries! Finally, you're married with kids but find yourself enjoying flirty banter with a co-worker. Is a workplace crush harmless fun or playing with fire? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!

    Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.

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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Housekeeping
    4:50 - Q1: Is It My Anxiety Or Am I Just Not That Into Him?
    12:56 - Q2: I Regret Agreeing To Be My Friend’s Maid Of Honor—Can I Back Out?
    38:36 - Q3: I’m Living The Life My Dad Wants For Me—How Do I Break Free?
    52:47 - Q4: I’m Worried My Sons’ Girlfriends Aren’t Right For Them—Shandy’s Thoughts?
    1:07:43 - Q5: I’m Married With Kids, But… Can I Still Flirt At Work?

    If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com

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  • Dear Shandy

    The Traitors New Blood: Episodes 1-2 Recap & Review - Ep 491

    2026-09-19 | 43 mins.
    Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors New Blood on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episodes 1 & 2.

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    Time stamps...
    0:00 - Housekeeping
    2:06 - Episode 1
    18:26 - Episode 2
    39:53 - Who Shandy Has Their Eye On

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    If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com

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  • Dear Shandy

    Caller 📞 Sessions! "I Dated Him For 6 Months... But We Never Met" - Ep 490

    2026-09-17 | 54 mins.
    It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by lovely caller Dani who has been dating a guy for 6 months. Except... she's never actually met him?? Was he never interested enough to progress things further, or was she too guarded? Listen on for the Shandy take!

    Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions!

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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Welcome To Caller Dani!
    47:28 - Shandy Debrief

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  • Dear Shandy

    Q&A! Confessing To Cheating A Decade Later & Crushing On Your BFF's Boyfriend - Ep 489

    2026-09-10 | 1h 20 mins.
    It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions!

    You're happily married with kids but you carry a secret from a decade ago, before starting a family. Is it worth rocking the boat to tell the truth all these years later? If you like your coworker but hate how she ALWAYS cuts you off, what's the best way to fix her social faux-pas? Your mother-in-law keeps cornering you to trauma dump—how do you draw the line between devoted daughter-in-law and de facto therapist? And what to do when you can't stop crushing on your best friend's dashing boyfriend? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!

    Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.

    A special thank you to our sponsors...
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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Housekeeping
    1:48 - Q1: My Coworker Always Cuts Me Off—How Do I Handle This?
    11:30 - Q2: It Has Been 10 Years Since I Cheated—To Confess Or Not To Confess?
    37:35 - Q3: I Have A Crush On My Best Friend’s Boyfriend—Help!
    58:53 - Q4: My Mother-In-Law Treats Me Like Her Therapist—Help!

    If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com

    Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy

    Follow us!
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    Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt
    Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine
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About Dear Shandy
Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine—aka "Shandy"—combine dating advice and reality show recaps for a fun analysis of modern romance.Sharleen and Andy are two former commitment-phobes who have now been married for over a decade. They don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the tough dating lessons by living them—and they have the stories to prove it!Have a relationship quandary or Am-I-The-Asshole question? Get no-holds-barred, non-judgmental advice in their fan-favorite Q&A episodes and Caller sessions.As an iconic former Bachelor contestant, Sharleen brings her insider knowledge (combined with Andy's hilarious commentary) to deliver what are hands-down the best Reality TV recaps in the business. They interview reality TV (or reality-adjacent) couples in double-date style episodes called Love Fests. New episodes drop every Thursday, and during TV seasons, twice a week.Email your questions to: dearshandy@gmail.com
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