Everything's Perfect

• Everything’s Perfect… Except College

  In this revealing episode of Everything’s Perfect, hosts Autumn Calabrese and Donald Stamper dive headfirst into the realities of the college experience and student loan debt—two topics that continue to affect millions of Americans. In the first few minutes, they raise the central question: Is college really worth it? And is the cost—emotionally, physically, and financially—justified?Autumn shares a deeply personal story of her time at Webster University, a performing arts college where her passion for jazz dance clashed with a faculty obsessed with ballet. From being refused graduation despite years of commitment to suffering a debilitating back injury due to overexertion, her college experience left emotional scars that took years to unravel. Donald brings a powerful contrast to the table. Having been homeschooled and spending a short stint at community college, he describes how the rigidity of the academic system failed to accommodate his creative pursuits. Choosing real-world experience over lecture halls, Donald traveled, worked on cruise ships, explored multiple industries, and discovered his passions by living life—without the burden of student loan debt.Together, the hosts examine the outdated structures still dominating higher education—general education requirements, impractical course loads, and a lack of real-world prep. They advocate for teaching life skills like taxes, budgeting, content creation, marketing, and even coding—things today’s digital world actually demands.They also address the societal pressure to attend college by age 18. Is it realistic to expect teenagers—whose frontal lobes aren’t even fully developed—to make lifelong financial decisions about their futures? Autumn and Donald argue for a rethinking of the timeline. Whether through trade schools, alternative certifications, or learning-by-doing, they encourage listeners to prioritize self-awareness and readiness over defaulting to the traditional path.If you’ve ever questioned your own education choices—or wondered what advice to give your children—this episode delivers raw honesty, practical advice, and plenty of laughs. Whether you’re buried in student loans or simply curious about different paths to success, you’ll find validation, perspective, and inspiration.Topics Covered:[0:00–1:20] – Intro & Episode Theme[1:20–4:00] – Their College Stories[4:00–7:00] – Tough College Experiences[7:00–10:00] – Is College Even Worth It?[10:00–13:00] – Alternatives to College[13:00–16:00] – College Pressure at 18[16:00–20:00] – Real-Life Skills School Doesn’t Teach[20:00–25:00] – Dealing with Debt & Doubt[25:00–32:00] – Dom’s Path Without College[42:00–47:00] – Final Thoughts & AdviceThe college experience and student loan debt are complex realities—but as Autumn and Donald prove, they’re not the only way forward.Autumn and Donald recently announce a new three-month challenge centered around the 21 Day Fix program. With community workouts, playlists, live Zooms, and giveaways, this challenge is designed for those who want consistency and fun—not perfection—this summer. It will be $50/month and you can sign up here: https://everythings-perfect.mn.co/plans/1539731?bundle_token=e48e7dcc3758a4fd50f93372323b04de

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• Everything’s Perfect…Except What Happened with BODi

  In this emotionally raw episode of Everything’s Perfect, hosts Autumn Calabrese and Donald Stamper unpack the collapse of the BODi partner network and the transition from MLM to affiliate marketing. The unexpected shutdown of the BODi partner network and the company’s shift from MLM to affiliate marketing shook the fitness coaching world... and Autumn is finally ready to talk about it.For the first time publicly, Autumn opens up about what really happened behind the scenes, including the devastating timing: the announcement came just two hours after she wrapped filming her most ambitious program yet, Belle Vitale. The episode details the emotional, financial, and professional consequences of the decision, which impacted coaches and trainers alike.Even in the heartbreak, the duo finds hope. Autumn and Donald discuss the current affiliate program now operating through Social Ladder, how it compares to the old system, and how former partners can still make an income. They also share plans for future workouts, live events, and creative opportunities beyond BODi.With wisdom, grace, and transparency, Autumn shows why her mission to help people lead healthy, fulfilling lives hasn’t changed—just the platform. This episode is a must-listen for anyone impacted by the change or curious about the future of fitness entrepreneurship.Topics00:00 – Party Recovery & Turning 40  01:40 – What Happened to BODi?  03:30 – Belle Vitale Wrapped, Then Chaos  07:18 – Legal Limits & No Warning  10:00 – Layoffs, Backlash & Online Hate  15:00 – Why BODi Had to End MLM  20:30 – Blame, Growth & Moving On  27:00 – Copycats & Test Group Fallout  33:00 – Lost Friendships & No Gossip  41:00 – Affiliate Program & What’s NextAutumn and Donald recently announce a new three-month challenge centered around the 21 Day Fix program. With community workouts, playlists, live Zooms, and giveaways, this challenge is designed for those who want consistency and fun—not perfection—this summer. It will be $50/month and you can sign up here: https://everythings-perfect.mn.co/plans/1539731?bundle_token=e48e7dcc3758a4fd50f93372323b04deHow to sign up to be a BODi affiliate: If you don’t have a BODi account:1.) go to BODipreviews.com and create a free account using your email addresspassword requirements: must contain a lowercase letter, an uppercase letter, 8-20 characters, one number and no spaces.2.) go to BODi.com and click on “the BODi Experience”. Once in, you will get a pop-up to enroll as an affiliate. (Just make sure you use the same email that we used for impact) call or text if you have any complicationsORIf you already have a BODi account, go toBODi.comLog inBODi ExperienceYou should see a pop -up to enroll as an affiliate

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• Everything's Perfect... Except Dating

  Dating after divorce and dating in your 40s can be a wild, emotional, and often hilarious ride—and that’s exactly what co-hosts Autumn Calabrese and Donald Stamper unpack in this laugh-out-loud, painfully relatable episode of Everything’s Perfect. Yes, we’re saying it twice for the ones in the back: dating after divorce and dating in your 40s is the main dish on today’s plate, and this is a feast you don’t want to miss.From cringe-worthy first dates and uncomfortable dating app encounters to shocking “ick” moments and unexpected dealbreakers, this episode delivers an honest deep-dive into modern dating culture for grown-ups. Autumn opens up about what it's like navigating romantic relationships as a divorced mom raising a son, while Donald recounts colorful stories from gay dating apps and memorable LA date nights—including one particularly unforgettable encounter involving a “Christmas Room” in July and a surprise Lady Gaga ticket saga.Listeners will laugh, gasp, and maybe even wince along with the hosts as they reflect on red flags like angry drunks and ghosters, and share their thoughts on toxic green flags (you know—the kinds that seem attractive but spell future trouble). They also explore what it means to date with intention, how to set boundaries, and why respecting your own happiness is key to any lasting relationship.This episode doesn’t shy away from the messy parts—there’s poop talk (yes, that kind), stories of unfortunate wardrobe choices, and even a horrifying motel memory featuring a dead cat. But it’s all wrapped in humor and heart, with the hosts emphasizing the importance of loving yourself first before expecting someone else to love you well.Autumn offers insight into what it's like dating with kids and managing expectations around family introductions, while Donald reveals how his own empathy sometimes leads to “savior dating”—the desire to fix or rescue a partner. The duo also delve into the psychological effects of dating apps, swiping culture, and the dopamine highs that can interfere with forming real connections.Whether you're single and swiping, back on the scene after a breakup, or in a committed relationship trying to figure out what your past patterns meant, this conversation is loaded with laughs and wisdom. Autumn and Donald remind us that while everything might not be perfect, embracing your imperfections (and your ridiculous dating stories) makes the journey all the more worth it.Plus, they want to hear from you! Got your own dating disaster or dilemma? Email the show at [email protected] or find them on social at @EverythingsPerfectOfficial.If you’ve ever muttered, “What the hell am I doing on this date?”—this one’s for you.0:37 - Podcast Kickoff + Listener Review  2:28 - Why Dating in Your 40s Is a Whole New Game  3:07 - Donald’s “Christmas Room” Date Story  9:22 - Autumn’s Disaster Date via Dating Agency  14:36 - Donald’s Dead Cat Motel Experience  20:01 - Dating With Kids & Family Dynamics  23:10 - Red Flags & Toxic Green Flags  32:41 - “The Ick” Moments  36:21 - Staying Too Long + “Mr. Surprise”  52:05 - Dating App Culture & Final Advice  Autumn and Donald recently announce a new three-month challenge centered around the 21 Day Fix program. With community workouts, playlists, live Zooms, and giveaways, this challenge is designed for those who want consistency and fun—not perfection—this summer. It will be $50/month and you can sign up here: https://everythings-perfect.mn.co/plans/1539731?bundle_token=e48e7dcc3758a4fd50f93372323b04de

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• Everything’s Perfect… Except Aging

  In this episode of Everything’s Perfect, hosts Autumn Calabrese and Donald Stamper dive deep into what it truly means to be aging gracefully in a world dominated by unrealistic beauty standards. With aging gracefully and beauty standards on everyone’s mind, this candid and hilarious conversation exposes both the pressures and freedoms that come with growing older — particularly in front of the camera.From Kris Jenner’s viral facelift to the evolution of skincare routines, this episode pulls no punches. Autumn, who is approaching 45, and Donald, about to turn 40, unpack their personal experiences with aging, their anti-aging routines, and the complicated relationships they have with cosmetic enhancements. The duo addresses Botox, breast augmentation, lip fillers, and even Donald’s wild trip to Tijuana for CoolSculpting — all with humor, honesty, and a judgment-free approach.They tackle societal double standards, like how men are praised as "silver foxes" while women feel pressure to remain forever youthful. The discussion highlights the internalized beauty expectations that come with being public figures, the impact of social media, and how deeply personal the decision to pursue cosmetic procedures can be. They reflect on confidence, self-love, and how beauty is often wrongly equated with youth.But it’s not all about injectables and facelifts. Autumn and Donald emphasize the importance of nutrition, hydration, sleep, posture, and internal health as key aspects of aging well. With memorable insights like “your skin is your biggest detox organ” and “aging is a gift — the alternative is death,” they remind listeners that true beauty comes from taking care of yourself inside and out.Whether you’ve had work done or not, this episode invites you to rethink what it means to age, love your face, and let go of judgment — both for yourself and others. This isn’t a how-to manual on anti-aging; it’s an open, vibrant conversation for anyone navigating the tricky terrain of growing older in a beauty-obsessed culture.Tune in for one of the most raw, funny, and affirming episodes of Everything’s Perfect yet — because aging might not be perfect, but the way you handle it can be.

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• Everything’s Perfect… Except Our Childhood

  Childhood trauma and healing childhood wounds are central themes in this raw and revealing episode of Everything’s Perfect, hosted by Autumn Calabrese and Donald Stamper. If you've ever wondered how your childhood trauma might still affect you today or if healing childhood wounds is even possible, this episode will offer you both validation and tools to begin that journey.Autumn and Donald open the conversation lightheartedly—with tech issues, glass-related kitchen injuries, and five-star listener shoutouts—but quickly dive into the heart of today’s discussion: their childhoods. From growing up in blue-collar neighborhoods in Ohio to facing emotional, physical, and cultural challenges, both hosts share deeply personal stories that shaped who they are today.Donald talks about being homeschooled in a religious household and the confusion and emotional complexity of being a queer child in an environment that didn't have the tools to understand him. He recounts memories of joyful hikes and post-sledding hot chocolate, but also addresses the emotional toll of parental yelling and corporal punishment. Despite the difficulties, he reflects on how love and chaos often coexisted in his home—and how both contributed to who he is today.Autumn, raised by a single father after her parents’ divorce, offers a parallel experience filled with early work responsibilities, strict rules, and a house above her family’s Italian restaurant. She describes the lasting effects of a volatile household, including moments of fear, guilt, and being thrust into adult-like duties at a young age. But she also speaks with pride about the grit, independence, and work ethic those years instilled in her.Together, the hosts unpack what it means to reflect without resentment, forgive without forgetting, and use personal history as a roadmap to becoming better—not bitter. They both emphasize how healing is not about rewriting the past, but understanding it. With humor, honesty, and deep empathy, they remind listeners that no one comes out of childhood untouched—and that’s okay.Whether you're deep in your healing journey or just starting to unpack your past, this episode will meet you where you are. It’s not just a look back—it’s an invitation forward.

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