"Bullying Made School A Living Hell" Megan Barton-Hanson, Nadiya Hussain & Calum Scott Open Up
In honour of Anti-Bullying Week, we sit down with Nadiya Hussain, Megan Barton-Hanson, and Calum Scott to discuss their personal experiences with bullying and the profound impact it’s had on their lives. From childhood trauma to online harassment, these three open up about the struggles they faced and how they found strength in their vulnerability.
We're Talking Bullying.
(00:00) Intro
(00:39) Nadiya's experience of bullying growing up
(07:54) Megan's experience of bullying at school
(12:21) Love Better Tour Ad
(13:38) Calum's experience of coming out and the subsequent bullying
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The Shame That Silenced Me For 30 Years: Strictly’s Ore Oduba “I’m Sharing This To Save My Children”
Strictly Come Dancing winner Ore Oduba opens up about addiction for the first time - and the secret he’s carried for over 30 years.Content warning: This episode includes discussion of suicide and addiction.
In this powerful and deeply moving conversation, Ore shares how he was first exposed at just nine years old - and the lifelong impact it had on his identity, confidence, and relationships. He also reflects on the emotional scars of growing up in fear, the silence he carried into adulthood, and the private battles behind his public success.
Ore shares:
◽ Why he lived in fear of his father for years
◽ How his upbringing shaped his confidence, his career - and his silence
◽ The grief of losing his father and sister in such a short space of time
◽ How he felt like he was dying inside - while living what looked like a “perfect” life
◽ How Strictly Come Dancing became his awakening
◽ Why the West End reignited his joy and love for performing
◽ Why he struggled to open up, even to those closest to him
◽ How he’s learning to rewrite the story for himself, and for his children
Ore Oduba, We Need To Talk.
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(00:00) Intro
(03:03) Growing Up in Dorset
(06:11) Black Identity in 1990s Dorset
(11:18) Childhood and Family Dynamics
(14:08) Did Ore Feel Loved?
(16:35) Early Love for Performing
(20:48) Starting Out in TV Presenting
(28:17) Ore on Newsround
(32:38) Handling Media Scrutiny
(34:22) Winning Strictly Come Dancing
(45:22) Life After Strictly
(47:41) Hiding Behind a Facade
(53:43) Relationship With His Brother
(1:03:30) Losing His Sister
(1:07:47) Mental Health and Identity
(1:12:35) Learning of His Father’s Death
(1:15:32) Ore’s 30-Year Addiction Struggle
(1:32:43) Adult Content Use Among Young People
(1:45:05) Message From Strictly’s Joanne Clifton
(1:47:25) Childhood Photo Surprise
(1:51:33) Most Memorable Moment
(1:55:33) Paul’s Takeaways
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Teacher Shamed Me For Wearing Nail Varnish! YUNGBLUD from Doncaster to Record Deal
YUNGBLUD’s journey from growing up in Doncaster to securing a major record deal with Interscope Records is a story of defying expectations and embracing individuality. In this conversation, the boundary-pushing artist opens up about overcoming childhood struggles, breaking through perceptions, and how his unique style and unapologetic approach led to his big break in the music industry.
This rare glimpse into YUNGBLUD's rise to fame reveals the challenges he’s faced and the lessons he’s learned about staying true to himself in a world that’s always trying to define him.
We’re Talking YUNGBLUD.
(00:00) Intro
(00:41) Growing Up in Doncaster: Yungblud’s Early Years
(03:29) People’s Perceptions of Yungblud: From Childhood to Adulthood
(12:26) Love Better Tour Announcement
(13:23) How Yungblud Was Signed to Interscope Records
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Former CIA Spy Reveals How To Read Anyone
How do CIA spies detect lies, build trust fast, and navigate high-stakes relationships? Former covert officer Andrew Bustamante reveals how the tools he used in espionage can transform your personal life - from how you read people to how you love them.
From growing up in a turbulent family, to commanding U.S. nuclear missiles at 24, to being recruited into the CIA, Andrew’s story is a journey through power, secrecy, love, and identity. But beneath the training lies a deeper lesson: the same psychological skills designed for national security became the ones that saved his marriage and founded Everyday Spy, an online education platform that provides people with useful spy skills for everyday life.
As Andrew says: The CIA’s real superpower isn’t guns or gadgets - it’s learning how to systematise natural curiosity. In this conversation, he shares how those skills can change the way you connect, communicate, and build trust in everyday life.
You’ll learn:
◽How to tell if someone is lying
◽Why he cut off his girlfriend, friends, and family for the chance to join the CIA
◽The CIA method for building instant emotional trust
◽How to recognise when a relationship is starting to decline - and how to fix it
◽The hardest conversation of his life (and what it taught him about love)
◽His take on Jeffrey Epstein and possible CIA connections
◽How easy it really is to launch a nuclear missile - and what that reveals about power
Part life story, part relationship masterclass, and part psychological thriller, this episode will change how you see honesty, loyalty, and the hidden motivations that shape every relationship.
Andrew Bustamante. We Need To Talk.
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(00:00) Intro
(02:13) How Can You Tell If Someone Is Lying?
(05:27) Is Every Relationship Transactional?
(19:42) Andrew's Checklist for Profiling Someone
(24:12) Was Jeffrey Epstein a Government Asset?
(29:13) Shopify Ad
(30:16) Love Better Tour Ad
(31:14) Andrew's Upbringing in Pennsylvania and Mixed-Race Heritage
(33:45) Andrew's Relationship With His Biological Father
(37:48) Andrew's Journey to the CIA
(39:47) Life at a Military Academy
(46:51) Andrew's Time as a Nuclear Missile Officer
(50:21) Nuclear Proliferation
(52:58) How Andrew Became a CIA Agent
(1:12:21) Romantic Relationships Within the CIA
(1:16:22) How Andrew Met His Wife During His Time at the CIA
(1:21:44) Why Andrew Proposed to His Wife
(1:26:55) Why Andrew Decided to Leave the CIA
(1:32:09) Getting a Job After Being in the CIA
(1:39:18) Is 'Sexpionage' a Real Method of Spying?
(1:41:59) A Skill Andrew Learned in the CIA That Applies to Everyone
(1:45:11) What Andrew Thinks the Future of the World Looks Like
(1:46:46) What Is the Biggest Threat to the World?
(1:47:59) What Is Andrew's Identity Today?
(1:51:51) Most Memorable Conversation
(1:56:06) Paul's Takeaways
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"I Was Minimising My Blackness" | We're Talking Black History Month
In honour of Black History Month, we sit down with Jordan Stevens, Jamelia, and Estelle who share their personal stories of navigating life as Black and mixed-race individuals in Britain.
From embracing their cultural roots to overcoming challenges in predominantly white spaces, they discuss what it means to belong, to be seen, and to celebrate Blackness in all its diversity. Their stories remind us that Black history is not just a month - it’s an ongoing journey of resilience, pride and connection.
We're Talking Black History
(00:00) Intro(00:50) Jordan Shares His Experience of Being Mixed-Race in Brighton(03:58) Differences in Perspectives on Race Between the USA and UK(04:37) Jordan Discusses His Identity and Navigating Different Social Spaces(08:23) Jamelia’s Upbringing in Birmingham(09:11) The Significance of 1981 in UK History(10:07) Jamelia’s Parents and Their Rastafarian Beliefs(16:45) Love Better Tour Ad(17:48) Estelle’s Childhood in Hammersmith(20:10) The Importance of Estelle’s Grandmother to Her Family
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The most powerful conversations are the ones we usually avoid. Hosted by Paul C. Brunson, We Need To Talk is a show that empowers people to have the conversations they avoid by creating a safe, supportive, and insightful space that encourages vulnerability, self-discovery, and real-world connection.
From breakups to breakthroughs, conflict to connection, we go beyond the headlines to uncover the human experiences and relationships that define us.
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