Parenting The Adlerian Way

Alex Kopelman’s book focuses on how our children are born with an authentic self that gets socialized out of them. Through messages they hear from parents, classrooms, culture and beyond, children start to hide parts of themselves as a way to belong and survive. However, Alex also states that the change needs to begin with parents, or at least in a parallel process of dropping many of the “oughts and shoulds” of parenthood too. Listen in to learn more about the distinction he makes between just allowing a child to run wild and undisciplined versus encouraging them to be authentic while also learning how to get along with others.
Check out Alex's new book, For Real: Helping Children Remain Their Authentic Selves in a Limiting World.
Website: authenticityworks.org
Book site: forrealbook.org
LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/alexander-kopelman-701547
Instagram: www.instagram.com/childrensartsguild
Facebook: www.facebook.com/childrensartsguild

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Meet Jeff Hittner! He is an executive coach and leadership expert working with CEOs and Fortune 500 companies on three continents. His journey into fatherhood made him change his definition of being a dad. He also made a conscious decision to use his team-building and leadership skills in his parenting approaches so he could be the best version of himself as a father. Now he has founded “Ambitious Dads” which shows fathers in the workplace how they can become better leaders by becoming better dads! We discuss the “Dad Gap” and how Dads often win at work and fail at home. He offers a new definition of success and the path for Dads to get there.
You can learn more about Jeff Hittner by checking out his website:
www.amitiousdads.com
And on social media accounts:
Substack https://ambitiousdads.substack.com
IG @ambitiousdads
Linkedin https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffhittner/

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Thank you to FeedSpot for selecting “Parenting the Adlerian Way” as the #1 parenting podcast in Canada two years in a row!
Do you have a parenting question for me? Send it to hello@alysonschafer.com and I’ll answer (anonymously) on an upcoming Q&A podcast.
Sign up for my monthly newsletter at www.alysonschafer.com and receive my “Responsibilities By Age” pdf.
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Q1. My 4 year old is trapping people with his legs and being a barnacle on my leg.

Q2. My daughter is playing me against my ex-wife in asking for money and I feel played.

Q3. Should I use phone tracking for my daughter who is in first year uni?

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Do you have a parenting question for me? Send it to hello@alysonschafer.com and I’ll answer (anonymously) on an upcoming Q&A podcast.

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If you are raising boys, you need to listen to this episode. Dr Leonard Sax and I discuss the new content added to the latest edition of his book “Boys Adrift”. We discussed why boys fall behind their sisters in school and what parents and teachers can do about it. I also learned about the very real and scary reality of endocrine disruptors and how male testosterone levels are dropping which impacts many things, including motivation. He also gives some shocking information from his research where he had discussions with adolescent boys about pornography consumption and having AI girlfriends. Did you know that 39% of boys age 13 -17 have made deepfake porn of a classmate without her permission? Again, this is vital information for parents of boys. Please listen in and share.

You can learn more about Dr Leonard Sax and his latest edition of Boys Adrift as well as his other parenting books here:
https://www.leonardsax.com/books/boys-adrift/

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Thank you to FeedSpot for selecting “Parenting the Adlerian Way” as the #1 parenting podcast in Canada two years in a row!

Do you have a parenting question for me? Send it to hello@alysonschafer.com and I’ll answer (anonymously) on an upcoming Q&A podcast.

Sign up for my monthly newsletter at www.alysonschafer.com and receive my “Responsibilities By Age” pdf.
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We all know connection is the basis of a relationship but what does it mean and how do we get it? Listen in! Valerie learned Adlerian parenting from me, and I learned about the Enneagram from her. She brings both together in order to gain a deeper understanding of what it means to really connect with our children, and she discusses her formula “Presence + Self Awareness + Self Compassion = Connection”. Valerie breaks it it all down and you get to hear about me as an example of being an Enneagram 2 - “The Helper” - and how that helps me as well as how it can be my saboteur!

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Thank you to FeedSpot for selecting “Parenting the Adlerian Way” as the #1 parenting podcast in Canada two years in a row!

Do you have a parenting question for me? Send it to hello@alysonschafer.com and I’ll answer (anonymously) on an upcoming Q&A podcast.

Sign up for my monthly newsletter at www.alysonschafer.com and receive my “Responsibilities By Age” pdf.
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