啤啤說書：廣東話讀書會

2023 年 11 月，查理·蒙格（Charlie Munger）過身，差一個月夠一百歲。

佢係巴菲特嘅拍檔亦師亦友、波克夏副董事長。

而《蒙格之道》收錄嘅，就係佢 90 到 98 歲——人生最後十年——每年喺 Daily Journal 股東會，面對真實問題嘅即興回答：冇修飾、冇包裝，一個乜都見過嘅智者嘅真心話。

同《窮查理的普通常識》唔同，呢本主打「晚年蒙格」對投資、人生、幸福同逆境嘅反思。

今集先送你佢一個習慣：做決定時，除咗問「點樣成功」，多問一句「點樣會搞砸」——然後唔好做嗰啲嘢。
🎙️ 啤啤說書——真人睇書，真人講書

《富爸爸窮爸爸》賣咗四千萬本，撼動咗你對「錢、工作、資產」嘅睇法——但佢留低咗三條冇答完嘅問題。

呢一集免費專題，我用 7 本書幫你答返：由「識諗錢」（資產 vs 負債、指數基金、持續買進）、到「點解明知都做唔到」（致富心態、納瓦爾寶典），再到「有錢之後點」（人生的5種財富、別把你的錢留到死）。

呢七本書，全部我已經喺早餐會拆咗全集，歡迎加入早餐會收聽。

《富爸爸窮爸爸》上集：https://youtu.be/hGeD2QJP3CU?si=AK5-otOVJ_D7jUYd《富爸爸窮爸爸》下集：https://youtu.be/XDY1VvaG-80?si=lUMWLadi2NTwBIWC《約翰柏格投資常識》：https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLXyJm-wwJADEvzX68uZTpdVDutMFLklUP《持續買進》：https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLXyJm-wwJADHstz_eW-a9twEpKZFYPrb0《I Will Teach You To Be Rich》：https://youtu.be/QEqJMiOkKAs《致富心態》：https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLXyJm-wwJADFx8X2hQqL_vJL9Hrtg-Psc《納瓦爾寶典》：https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLXyJm-wwJADGkxQlNxBfoCDnJ0UNMJQFT《人生的五種財富》：https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLXyJm-wwJADFBaq1QThmFwQ_D0xc8KL8j《別把你的錢留到死》：https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLXyJm-wwJADGZC80IYRVna-xFGqG199aD

🎙️ 啤啤說書——真人睇書，真人講書

半夜三點瞓唔著，同自己講嗰啲最狠嘅說話——呢種「內耗」，其實有個名，叫「小對話」。

呢一集，我用作者伊森·克洛斯（Ethan Kross）自己嘅故事開場，同你講清楚呢本書講咩，仲會送你一個今晚就用得著嘅工具：當你好亂嗰陣，唔好用「我」，改用自己個名同自己講。
🎙️ 啤啤說書——真人睇書，真人講書

資料來源：

Acton, E. (n.d.). *How to respond to urgent requests to save time and energy*. https://www.erinacton.com/how-to-respond-to-urgent-requests/

American Psychological Association. (2023, December). *Just say no to that invitation*. https://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/2023/12/say-no-invitation

Columbia University Irving Medical Center. (n.d.). *Ever-so-slight delay improves decision-making accuracy*. https://www.cuimc.columbia.edu/news/ever-so-slight-delay-improves-decision-making-accuracy

Gazipura, A. (2017). *Not nice: Stop people pleasing, staying silent, and feeling guilty… and start speaking up, saying no, asking boldly, and unapologetically being yourself*. B. C. Allen Publishing.

The Good Trade. (n.d.). *How to offer a genuine apology (and why you should)*. https://www.thegoodtrade.com/features/genuine-apology/

Herrando, C., & Constantinides, E. (2021). Emotional contagion: A brief overview and future directions. *Frontiers in Psychology, 12*, 712606. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8322226/

Mylett, E. (2022). *The power of one more: The ultimate guide to happiness and success*. Wiley.

The New York Times. (2025, August 6). *How "fawning" is ruining your relationships*. https://www.nytimes.com/2025/08/06/well/fawning-book.html

The New Yorker. (2026, January 19). *How to recover from caring too much*. https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2026/01/19/fawning-ingrid-clayton-book-review-are-you-mad-at-me-meg-josephson

North Bay Counselling. (n.d.). *From apologizing to appreciating: A shift toward gratitude and authenticity*. https://www.northbaycounselling.com/from-apologizing-to-appreciating-a-shift-toward-gratitude-and-authenticity/

NPR. (2020, September 15). *How to say "no" and stop being a people pleaser*. https://www.npr.org/2020/09/15/913207918/how-to-say-no-for-the-people-pleaser-who-always-says-yes

Psych Central. (n.d.). *Why you over-apologize and how to stop*. https://psychcentral.com/lib/why-you-cant-stop-apologizing-even-when-youre-clearly-not-at-fault

Psyche. (n.d.). *How to say no*. https://psyche.co/guides/how-to-stop-people-pleasing-by-learning-to-say-no

Psyche. (n.d.). *When we experience FOMO, what are we really afraid of?* https://psyche.co/ideas/when-we-experience-fomo-what-are-we-really-afraid-of

Psychology Today. (2025, May). *Too many apologies: Why it happens and what to do about it*. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/practical-tools-for-nurturing-relationships/202505/too-many-apologies-why-it-happens-and-what

Psychology Today. (2025, June). *Why we catastrophize in our relationships, and how to stop*. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/decisions-that-matter/202506/why-we-catastrophize-in-our-relationships-and-how-to-stop

Psychology Today. (2025, December). *How strategic pauses improve decisions in life transitions*. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/how-to-make-better-choices/202512/how-strategic-pauses-improve-decisions-in-life-transitions

Shortform. (n.d.). *Micro-habits: 5 ways to stop people-pleasing*. https://www.shortform.com

Smith, V. (2022, January 23). *7 types of (unnecessary) apologies*. https://vickismithlpc.com/2022/01/23/7-types-of-unnecessary-apologies/

Women's Health. (n.d.). *"Am I people pleasing myself into an early grave?" The true cost of the good girl health tax*. https://www.womenshealthmag.com/uk/collective/long-reads/a45203441/people-pleasing-making-me-sick/

YouGov. (n.d.). *Women are more likely than men to say they're a people-pleaser, and many dislike being seen as one*. https://yougov.com/en-us/articles/43498-women-more-likely-men-people-pleasing-poll

你有沒有試過：明明少吃了煎炸、戒了宵夜，肚腩卻不肯消；或者體檢報告年年紅一兩項？

日本名醫栗原毅在《內臟脂肪消除術》裡點破一件事——你可能一直在跟錯的敵人打仗。

真正讓你囤積內臟脂肪的，不是脂肪，也不是你緊盯的卡路里，而是「醣」。

而消除它的方法簡單到不可思議：微減醣——每餐，少吃一口飯。
（本集為一般健康資訊，不代替醫療建議。）
🎙️ 啤啤說書——真人睇書，真人講書