I’ve never had an injury that was serious enough to be what I would
think of as “life changing” but some people have. It’s a pretty
deep idea to think about.
I
came across this post online recently. Here’s what this woman
wrote:
I
experienced a life changing injury 6 months ago, which has left me
very physically disabled and in excruciating pain 24/7. I am waiting
for scans in the next month, after being refused medical care in the
country where I was injured, but it is likely there is very little to
be done to fix this. I am also trying physical therapy to get better,
but so far with no results and just increased pain. The situation is
making me severely depressed, and I really need to find some
acceptance for what happened, and my life moving forward. I am in
therapy already for some other stuff, but not able to come to
acceptance for this injury yet.
I'm
stuck feeling despair and anger, and like I'm only a burden for the
people around me, including my partner. I can't work, nor participate
in fun activities that requires anything other than sitting, and even
that I cannot do for long. I can't go for walks, sex is painful,
almost all my hobbies are no longer possible. I barely sleep because
of the pain, so I'm always sleep deprived as well. I have to be
medicated for pain through the day and night to even be able to talk
or move. If I try to skip a day, I cannot function.
I
really would like to feel that life is worth living even with chronic
severe pain and physical disabilities I never imagined having to deal
with. I spend so much energy and tears on feeling upset about the
situation, and it's interfering with me at least feeling as okay as I
possibly can. I need to find radical acceptance, but I feel so heart
broken when I try. I don't know what to do.
I
can just hear the despair in her words. She wrote that in an online
forum 5 years ago, so I would love to know how she’s doing today.
But I don’t.
My
guest today is Patrick, and he knows what it’s like to have an
accident that results in a life-changing injury. He was young and
athletic, and he loved to go surfing and run ultramarathons. But then
one day he broke his neck, and he had no idea what the rest of his
life was going to look like.
If
you’d like to contact Patrick -
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/bodiezepha415/
Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/patrick.yalon
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