Come Together with Erin + Abe Lichy

Abe sits down with Jason Zeffir — pop culture creator, debut novelist, and now podcaster — to talk about building an audience from scratch, what it actually takes to grow on Instagram, and why his literary agents eventually had to go. Jason’s book, Zombies of the Upper East Side, is part divorce story, part zombie apocalypse, and apparently the agents weren’t sure about the zombie part. They also get into the double standard around unlikable female characters, reality TV escapism vs. the void, The Swan documentary (yes, Terry Dubrow was there), and Jason’s new podcast Slay Replay, which is a Buffy rewatch and also kind of everything else.

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The new RHONY season has begun and Erin and Abe are finally talking about it. They clear up the headlines (disputes, not debts — there’s a real difference), react to the Jessel moments, and discuss what it’s actually like watching yourself on TV months after filming. Also on the agenda: Mezcalum updates, Lioness is a must-watch, and they’re heading to Paris for Fashion Week — including a Celine Dion concert that Abe was once dragged to and definitely, absolutely cried at.

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Brooke Taylor — career coach and author of Healing the Success Wound — comes on to talk about the thing high-achieving women don't want to admit: that the drive to do more, be more, and accomplish more is sometimes a wound dressed up as ambition. She breaks down the five types of unfulfilled achievers (Erin immediately claims "work hard, play hard" and "grinder," which tracks), why dopamine hits in the anticipation of success and not the success itself, and what it actually looks like to want things without making your whole identity contingent on getting them.
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September was a lot. Erin's been running around nonstop, Abe's been holding down the fort, and Levi got himself on a yacht. They kick things off with the Stassi Schroeder show — what Abe related to about Beau, why a man suffering on camera is actually not that complicated, and the five-second editing format that might be changing reality TV forever. Then it's audience questions: spacing out your kids, night nurses (and why Erin didn't get one until baby four), sleep training without the cry-it-out guilt, keeping the spark alive when you have four kids and approximately zero time, and whether the spark even has to be there all the time. Spoiler: it doesn't.
Also, go outside. Get off the apps.

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Erin's out. Abe's in charge. What could go wrong.
This week Abe takes your questions solo — and doesn't sugarcoat a single answer. Should your spouse come before your kids? Yes. Is it okay to go to bed angry? Also yes. Is a little jealousy healthy? Absolutely. Are men actually simple creatures? Mostly, but they need more hugs than they'll ever admit.

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