Relationships are for heroes.
Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Steph...
Have you ever deeply fallen for someone only to feel them gradually fading away? It feels awful. You panic. You overthink every text message. You worry that losing this person could mean losing your chance at a real connection, or your dream of a relationship with someone truly special. I’ve found there are 3 common mistakes people make when they get into this panic mindset, and in today’s new video, I’ll show you the best strategy to give yourself the maximum chance of salvaging the relationship (or help you move on to find the RIGHT person for you). --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
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290: The 3 Boxes Men Put Women In (And How to Get Out of Them)
In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, and Audrey dive into the “box theory”—the idea that people get placed into one of three boxes when dating: "Want to date," "Just for fun," or "Not interested." But is it really that simple? And can you change boxes over time? We break down the psychology behind first impressions in dating, whether it's possible to shift from casual to committed, and what really makes someone decide we’re ‘relationship material’. Topics Covered: What is the “3 Box Theory” of dating Can someone change the box they’re in—or are they stuck? Signs you’re being kept in the “casual” box and how to respond Why first impressions aren’t always final in attraction Emotional connection vs. chemistry: how to tell the difference Dating consistency, standards, and sexual boundaries How to communicate your relationship intentions without fear ►► Subscribe to my Brand New Love Life Podcast channel → @LoveLifePodcast ►► Ask Matthew AI for personalized advice: AskMH.com ►► Free training to go from casual to committed: GetCommitment.com ►► Join the Love Life Club: JoinLoveLife.com ►► Email us your thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com
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(Matt Monday): What Makes Men Ready for Commitment | Ft. Lewis Howes
Why do so many people struggle with the idea of commitment—even when they want love? What fears do you have to confront? And what does it really take to feel ready? In this conversation, I interview newly-married bestselling author and entrepreneur Lewis Howes about managing the “storms” of life, avoiding the self-doubt trap, and what it means to give your heart fully to a relationship. But we don’t stop there. We also get into money—why it’s so emotionally charged, and how unhealed financial wounds can quietly sabotage your dating life. There’s a lot of raw honesty in this conversation, and I hope it meets you where you are. --- ▼ Connect With Lewis Howes ▼ Get Lewis's NEW Book → http://lewishowes.com/moneyiga Website → http://lewishowes.com/ Instagram → @lewishowes TikTok → @lewishowes X → @lewishowes --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at → http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com
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(Rewind): How to Make Them CHASE YOU Without “Playing It Cool”
We’ve all been told that we should never come on too strong, and that playing it cool is the best way to get someone interested. But how much interest is the right amount to show in the early days of dating? If we show too much interest, we worry we’ll lose all our “power,” but if we show too little, they may not even realize we’re interested. In today’s Rewind episode, I share 5 tips on how to approach this in the early stages of dating so you can not only show the right amount of interest, but also encourage the same in the other person. --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
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289: How To Overcome Your Biggest Dating Insecurities
In this episode, we dive deep into the biggest challenges people face in dating — from rejection and insecurity to feeling like the odds are stacked against you. Whether you feel stuck due to age, lack of experience, body image, or financial worries, this episode is packed with reframes, real-life listener questions, and practical mindset shifts to help you get out of your own way and start moving forward with confidence. PLUS: A special interview with Lewis Howes on handling overwhelm, emotional regulation, and why taking imperfect action is the key to growth in both life and love. ✨ Main topics covered: How to reframe limiting stories that are holding you back in dating Dating with insecurities around age, experience, weight, or finances Listener questions answered with real advice for building confidence How to stop pre-rejecting yourself and “take yes for an answer” Lewis Howes on emotional regulation, handling pressure, and showing up without perfection Fun “Instant Reframe” segment to turn common dating obstacles into positives 👉 Want help reframing what’s holding you back? Ask Matthew AI here: Askmh.com 🎟️ Grab your early bird tickets for the MH Retreat here: MHRetreat.com ——— 📩 Got a question or feedback? Email us at: podcast@matthewhussey.com 🎧 Subscribe for more weekly episodes and practical dating advice!
Relationships are for heroes.
Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself.
In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.
About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.
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