239 — You’re Being Brainwashed Every Day—Here’s How to Stay Mentally Strong in a World of Hidden Influence with Professor Rebecca Lemov
Why would someone confess to a crime they didn’t commit? Or why would someone join a cult? Most of us think we’re too mentally strong to fall for brainwashing, but subtle forms of persuasion might already be shaping the way we think, feel, and act—without us even realizing it.
In this episode, I sit down with historian, professor, and author Rebecca Lemov to explore the psychology of brainwashing and how it shows up in modern life. From social media algorithms to toxic relationships, Rebecca explains how small, seemingly insignificant choices can shape the way we see ourselves and the world.
Some of the things we talk about are:
The psychology of brainwashing
The modern day forces that shape our beliefs and emotions (like social media)
How social media algorithms are designed to impact you
The Facebook experiment that manipulated emotions and what that reveals about brainwashing and social media
The privacy paradox: why we give up our data even when we know better
How addiction and trauma make us more vulnerable to coercive tactics
How you might be being brainwashed right now without even realizing it
The role of gut instincts in protecting yourself from manipulation
The signs that you're being brainwashed in everyday life
Practical strategies to stay grounded, self-aware, and mentally strong in a world of hidden influence
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238 — Stuck in a Rut? How to Break Free with DSD
Do you ever feel stuck in a rut or frustrated that you keep falling back into the same old patterns that aren’t working? If so, this episode is for you.
We often go through life on autopilot. We rely on routines that feel comfortable even when they aren't working for us.
The good news is, you have the power to break free and the answer is as simple as DSD — "Do Something Different."
Some of the things I talk about are:
Why our brains love comfort zones — and how they keep us stuck
The science behind psychological flexibility (and why it's so important)
How small, intentional changes can rewire your brain
How to apply DSD to your situation to create change
The two biggest mistakes people make when trying to change — and how to avoid them
Three simple steps to start practicing DSD today
How to identify what's keeping you stuck and brainstorm creative solutions
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237 — The Science of Laughter: How Humor Can Rewire Your Brain and Boost Mental Strength with Dr. Steven Sultanoff
How often do you laugh? If it’s been a while, you’re not alone. But laughter isn’t just enjoying a good joke. It is actually a powerful tool for building mental strength.
I sit down with Dr. Steven Sultanoff, a psychologist and leading humor expert, to explore the science behind humor and why laughter is good for your health.
Some of the things we talk about are:
The difference between humor and laughter — and why it matters for your mental health
How laughing can reduce pain and boost your immune system
Why humor is one of the top qualities people look for in relationships (even more than a good sex life)
How humor reduces depression and anxiety
The science behind why we laugh when we’re nervous — and how it helps us cope
How dark humor can be helpful during tough times
How to use humor to build stronger relationships and reduce loneliness
The surprising ways laughter can rewire your brain for resilience
Why humor is a secret weapon for managing stress
How to find more humor in everyday life — even when you’re feeling down
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236 — 10 Myths About Mental Health That Are Holding You Back
What if most of the self-help advice you’ve been hearing might actually make things worse? Unfortunately, there's a lot of bad advice being shared on social media and in the news that could be downright destructive to your mental health.
So today, I'm busting 10 of the biggest mental health myths and mindset. When you understand the truth about mental health, it's easier to prioritize your mindset and take care of your well-being.
Some of the things I talk about are:
Why your mental health is constantly fluctuating and what that means for you
The difference between mental health and mental strength
Why therapy isn’t just for people with “serious problems”
How technology can both harm and help your mental health
The surprising truth about socializing and solitude
Why not all mental health conversations are helpful—and how to have better ones
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235 — Trust Your Gut: The Science Behind Intuition and Better Decisions with Professor Laura Huang
Do you trust your gut? Have you ever had a gut feeling about something but couldn't really explain why you felt it?
Intuition is often misunderstood and sometimes, we're reluctant to listen to it because it doesn't seem to make sense. But intuition is a science-backed process that can help you make better decisions once you understand how to listen to it.
In this episode, I’m joined by Laura Huang, a professor at Northeastern University, leading researcher on intuition, and author of the book You Already Know. We explore how to better understand your gut feelings so you can make better decisions.
Some of the things we talk about today are:
How to differentiate between your intuition and your feelings.
The “intuiting process” and how to train your intuition like a muscle.
The past experiences that shape your gut instincts.
The practical strategies that will help you recognize your inner voice (including the toothbrush exercise).
How to use intuition for big decisions, like career moves.
How to use intuition for smaller decisions, like first impressions of the people you meet.
Why intuition is a superpower that can make you mentally stronger.
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Growing mentally stronger will change your life and therapist Amy Morin wants to show you how to make it happen.
Whether you want to improve your mental health, boost your resilience, gain emotional intelligence, or gain a competitive edge that will help you reach your greatest potential, this show is for you.
Mentally Stronger provides therapist-approved strategies for tackling the biggest battle we all face--the one in our minds.
Webby Award-Winning Host Amy Morin is a psychotherapist and the bestselling author of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do. Every episode dives into science-backed strategies for building the mental strength you need to handle whatever life throws this way.
No one understands the importance of having mental strength more than Amy. Her personal journey surrounding grief and loss has led to her to take a deep dive into mental strength. And now, she's sharing what she learned along the way.
Her TEDx talk, The Secret of Becoming Mentally Strong, is one of the most viewed talks of all time with 25 million views and she's sold over 1 million books. She's a speaker and a consulted who teaches companies like Google, Under Armour, and NBC how to grow mentally stronger.
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