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- Does your neurodivergent child push back every time you try to help with big emotions?
You’ve probably tried therapy, books, rewards, sticker charts, bribery, and maybe even bigger rewards…but somehow, you still end up in a power struggle.
What if they just need a different approach?
In this episode, Emily explains why typical control-based approaches can create more resistance, and what you can try instead.
What you need to know is that nothing you’ve tried has been wasted. You’re learning what works for your child. And when you become partners instead of opponents, you can start moving toward fewer power struggles, more connection, and more peace at home.
In this episode, you'll learn:
- Why so many approaches to emotional regulation don't work for neurodivergent kids.
- Why autonomy matters so much to neurodivergent kids. - The difference between collaboration and having no boundaries.
- Simple steps to hear your child's side and solve problems together.
Doors are Open for The Brain Body Emotional Regulation Class for Neurodivergent https://www.emotionallyhealthyfamilies.com/go
Connect with Emily on Instagram: https://instagram.com/emilyhamblincoaching - Grab your FREE ticket to the Raising Emotionally Healthy Neurodivergent Families Summit September 1-4, 2006
💛 https://www.emotionallyhealthyfamilies.com
Have you ever been surprised by a small act of kindness that meant more to you than you expected?
When life feels stressful or frustrating, it can be easy to fixate on everything going wrong in our lives. But there is still a lot of goodness in the world. Sometimes, we just need to train our brains to look for it.
In this episode, Emily shares a personal story from a recent family road trip. An unexpected visit with one of her husband’s former students led to an incredible reminder about kindness, service, and the gift of full-circle moments.
We may never see the results of the kindness we give. But every kind act can make a difference.
What you'll take away:
How doing good can make a positive impact, even when we do not see the results
How to help your brain notice the good around you
Why choosing to be kind can make a difference in your family and community
Grab your FREE ticket to the Raising Emotionally Healthy Neurodivergent Families Summit
September 1-4, 2006
💛 https://www.emotionallyhealthyfamilies.com
Connect with Emily on Instagram: https://instagram.com/emilyhamblincoaching - Back to school is full of excitement and nerves. And when routines change, so does the predictability our kids depend on.
In this episode, Emily shares her own family's transition as her youngest three children began a new school. She walks through what helped, what didn't, and the setback that's still unfolding in real time.
What you'll take away:
A simple first step to stop your own anxiety spiral before it starts
Why getting outside help to process your concerns changes everything
A collaborative approach for getting resistant kids on board
How small, visual systems reduce morning and after-school friction
Grab your FREE ticket to the Raising Emotionally Healthy Neurodivergent Families Summit September 1-4th.
Connect with Emily on Instagram: https://instagram.com/emilyhamblincoaching When Your Partner Isn't on the Same Parenting Page (For Neurodivergent Families)
2026-08-03 | 15 mins.Have you ever felt frustrated because your partner parents differently than you do? When you have a husband, wife, or partner who’s making different parenting choices than you do, it can be incredibly challenging. That is, until you have a healthy perspective.
What you'll take away:
Why it's easy to feel like your partner is on the "other team."
How to work together, even when you don't agree.
Why one parent can still make a huge difference.
How staying calm helps your child feel safe and learn to manage their emotions.
Your kid doesn't need perfect parents. But they DO need parents who are willing to keep learning, keep growing, and keep showing up with love.
Join the FREE class for parents: Emotional Regulation for Neurodivergent Kids https://emily-hamblin.com/class
Connect with Emily on Instagram: https://instagram.com/emilyhamblincoaching- Do you ever catch yourself thinking, "If my child could just [insert the daily task that often ends in a meltdown], I'd feel like I won the lottery"? It can feel silly to celebrate those moments when they finally happen, but they're actually signs of something much bigger.
In this episode, Emily gets real and shares part of her own story growing up in a home with emotional chaos. She promised herself that when she was a mom, her family would be different. (Sound familiar?) Then one day, she was faced with the reality that her kids were scared of how she reacted when they really just needed her support. That's when she had to make a choice.
What you'll take away:
Why those "small" emotional regulation wins are actually monumental and what they're really evidence of
Why willpower alone doesn't work for neurodivergent brains
How to keep going when therapy, OT, or past approaches have only "helped some"
Why emotional regulation is a lifelong journey, not a finish line
Join the FREE class for parents: Emotional Regulation for Neurodivergent Kids https://emily-hamblin.com/class
Connect with Emily on Instagram: https://instagram.com/emilyhamblincoaching
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About Enlightening Motherhood
As a mom, raising a child with big emotions can be overwhelming, frustrating, and stressful. The Enlightening Motherhood Podcast, hosted by two friends who are currently in the thick of raising kids with big feelings (Emily Hamblin and Ashley Schultz) offers a compassionate community where you can learn practical tips to help make your motherhood lighter.
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