The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby

Three weeks postpartum and we’re officially back in the newborn trenches! We’re talking sleepless nights, breastfeeding, postpartum recovery, mom guilt, adjusting to life with three kids, and the new rules keeping our marriage intact through it all. Plus, we share what’s been different about the newborn stage the third time around.

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Chapters:
01:58 - Postpartum
03:13 - Placenta Pills
03:44 - Hemorrhage
08:00 - Community
09:53 - Newborn sleep
22:04 - Paw Patrol Movie
24:00 - Toddlers regressing
25:26 - Mom guilt
29:44 - Pretzel
32:54 - Legoland
36:53 - Birthdays
38:30 - Pirate party
43:43 - Postpartum rules
46:41 - Nursing
50:15 - Parents in town
56:07 - Night feedings
59:41 - Loading 3 kids in a car
01:02:57 - 1st postpartum date
01:05:18 - working out
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This episode has been sitting in the vault for two years, and we’re finally getting to share it with you.

We’re so grateful to The Bucket List Family for joining us and for allowing us to share this never-before-seen conversation while Abby is taking time to heal and enjoy maternity leave. We talk about raising fearless kids, traveling the world as a family, their unconventional parenting philosophy, close calls with crocodiles and great white sharks, and what they’ve learned from nearly a decade of adventure together.

We hope you enjoy this special episode as much as we loved recording it. ❤️

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Chapters:
04:42 - Traveling with babies
06:23 - Meeting on Mormon missions
20:57 - Becoming the Bucket List Fam
30:35 - Where we find joy
34:53 - Kid friendly travel
37:03 - Frugal travel
40:42 - What to pack
42:35 - Language barriers
43:44 - Safety when traveling
45:31 - Finding community while traveling
46:48 - letting our kids swim with sharks
54:39 - Teaching our kids to be adventurous
01:05:52 - Being of service
01:14:09 - Surfing with my kids
01:18:08 - Working with National Geographic
01:23:03 - Hidden gems
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Matt and Abby introduce their newest addition to the family and share the full story of his whirlwind arrival! From Abby’s doctor accidentally breaking her water and an unexpectedly fast labor to getting the VBAC she hoped for, they open up about welcoming their rainbow baby after loss. Plus, they share the realities of postpartum life, breastfeeding, baby blues, and why Matt is turning Abby’s placenta into pills.

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Chapters:
00:31 - Baby and name reveal!
02:54 - Going into labor
11:26 - Contractions
14:52 - Epidural
24:26 - VBAC
28:23 - Redemptive birth after loss
35:54 - Introducing new baby to the family
40:36 - Postpartum plan
42:08 - Getting released from the hospital
49:33 - Breastfeeding
52:11 - Doula
58:02 - Mental health postpartum
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Kaydee Church, better known online as “the steak girl,” and her fiancé Tyson join us to talk about unexpectedly getting pregnant at 20, becoming parents before marriage, and navigating their new life in the public eye. They open up about their daughter’s scary trip to the NICU, losing $12,000 in a TikTok scam, dealing with judgment online, and how viral fame has changed their lives.

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Chapters:
00:53 - Carnivore diet
04:02 - Starting a family young
05:38 - Meet cute
07:10 - Living with family
08:12 - Going viral
16:35 - Finding out we were pregnant
25:42 - My first pregnancy
36:18 - Getting engaged
38:20 - Planning our wedding
46:00 - Online backlash
48:00 - Finding out the gender of my baby
49:00 - Postpartum
48:53 - Breastfeeding
01:00:35 - Making content together
01:04:30 - Brant Rivera Collab
01:08:13 - Audience questions
01:20:17 - Who's More Likely
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Kail Lowry is back! We catch up on everything that’s changed since her last visit—from raising seven kids and watching her oldest reach the age she was when she became a mom, to her plans for law school, the pressure of supporting a huge family, and what life looks like with her new boyfriend, Isaac. Plus, Isaac joins us to talk relationships, money, marriage, and what it’s really like stepping into Kail’s very public world.

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Chapters:
02:02 - Catch up
02:42 - Therapy
04:29 - Breaking off my engagement
08:21 - Cheating
11:38 - Turning pain into profit
13:46 - Cost of custody
22:15 - Having more kids
25:31 - Moving to NC
26:25 - Legal reform
28:08 - Law school
32:09 - Being the breadwinner
36:58 - Cosmetic surgery
39:30 - My Team
44:39 - Losing my father
48:00 - How I'm raising my kids differently
51:15 - Tour
51:54 - Dating with 7 kids
1:09:35 - Audience questions
1:18:00 - Agree or Disagree
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