Girls Gone Deep

This week, Vee and Elle go deep with Catherine Drysdale — a dating and intimacy expert who accidentally stepped into her power as a mommy dom and never looked back. She breaks down the truth behind dominance that no one talks about: it’s not about pain, it’s about presence, boundaries, and knowing exactly what you want. We get into service subs, pleasure-first dynamics, and why she refuses to center men’s pleasure in her sex life. From making men clean her apartment to teaching women how to access confidence through their own bodies, this episode is a full permission slip to be selfish in the bedroom. If you’ve ever wondered what it looks like to own your desire unapologetically, this is it.

Chapters 
Meet The Woman With 72 Orgasms And Zero Tolerance For Bullshit (00:00)
What Is Mommy Domming And First Sub Who Showed Up And Started Cleaning Her Apartment (2:33)
Why Boundaries Make Kink Safer And Hotter (07:56)
When Dominance Turns Into Abuse And How To Spot The Difference (10:58)
Maybe You Are Already a Mommy Dom And How Confidence Is The Real Kink No One Talks About (18:51)
Where To Start: Follow Along With NLP Technique For Rewiring Your Brain For Confidence And Desire (28:01)
Follow Along With EFT Tapping (34:41)
Constructing A Scene: Blindfolds Tip And Working On Asking For What You Want (42:09)
Praise Vs Humiliation (47:53)
The Kink BDSM Test That Will Change Your Sex Life (52:07)
I’m Too Nice To Be A Dom… Or Am I? Tips To Get Started (55:40)
Soft Limit Vs Hard Limits (01:02:15)
Overidentifying With A Role Can Limit Exploration (01:07:15)
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Guest Info Catherine Drysdale
Dating & Intimacy Expert | Columbia-trained Clinical Psychology Graduate Student
Instagram: @iamcatherinedrysdale
TikTok: @iamcatherinedrysdale

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This week, Elle and Vee sit down with Suriya Nikko to dive into the world of yoni massage, internal orgasms, and what your body might be holding onto beneath the surface. They unpack how pelvic tension, stress, and even subtle trauma can block pleasure.  This is for women who already orgasm and want more pleasure, and for partners who want to learn how to slow down, tune in, and unlock deeper layers of pleasure. From internal hotspots to breath, rhythm, and presence, this episode is about expanding what your body is actually capable of feeling.
 How to deepen pleasure beyond “just” orgasming 
 Internal pleasure zones (G, P, A spots and cervix) and how to explore them 
 The before, during and after of yoni massage
What is the yoni, and what is a yoni massage really? (00:00)
Creating safety in the body before a yoni massage. Massage and the release of tension. (17:48) 
Tight pussies vs toned pussies. Toning your vaginal muscles with kegels vs yoni eggs vs yoni massage. (25:33)
Yoni egg questions answered. (31.28)
Can you do a yoni massage while pregnant? When shouldn't you do a yoni massage? (35:04)
Spots Decoded: K Spot aka Perineal Sponge; P Spot aka Posterior Fornix; Cervix; A Spot aka Anterior Fornix. (40:04)
Breath, sound & movement. (45:17)
Squirting through A-Spot stimulation. (49:17)
Emotional release & orgasm. (53:38)
Reclaiming sexuality through daily tips to stay open. (58:58)
Finding a practitioner.  (01:00:31)
Lingam massage for men. (01:02:46)
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Suriya Nikko links:
Website: mysacredyonimassage.com
Instagram: @suriya_nikko
Yoni Massage Practitioners: suhai.world
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This week, in this wildly honest and unexpectedly human episode, Vee and Elle sit down with adult film star Aaron Thompson, better known as Small Hands, to pull back the curtain on what really goes down behind the scenes of porn. 
Elle, Vee and Small Hands get into kink, consent, gang bang dynamics, emotional intelligence, erectile dysfunction, and what it actually means to be a good Dom. This episode is raw, hilarious, deeply insightful—and might completely change the way you see porn, sex, and connection.
Meet Small Hands: How He Accidentally Became A Porn Actor  (00:00)
First Scenes, Nerves, And Barely Getting Through It (05:34)
Why Porn Sex Is Completely Different From Real Sex (7:08)
The Truth About Female Pleasure On Camera (11:06)
The Ridiculous Origin Of “Small Hands” (14:08)
Having An Experience With Two Or More Men? Aarons Reveals Secret To Successful Scene (17:19)
Objectification And Why Porn Is More Collaborative Than You Think (20:45)
Ethical Porn Vs Toxic Porn: What’s Real (28:02)
Sex Skills: Learning From Women (Not Porn) (31:27)
What Makes You Good In Bed ()35:55)
Romantically And Emotionally Monogamous And Sexually Non Monogamous (40:22)
Dating After Porn And Emotional Availability (46:13)
The Wildest Scenes He’s Ever Filmed, Waterboarding, Breath Play (51:27)
Safe Words And Safe Signals In The Adult Film Industry (54:07)
Dog Clickers In Kink  (56:42)
Dom Energy Explained And Why It’s Service (58:37)
Erectile Dysfunction And Real Talk About The Mental Game Of Being A Porn Star (01:02:57)
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🔥 Guest: Aaron (“Small Hands”)
Instagram: @thesmallhands_
Twitter/X: @thesmallhands_
OnlyFans: Small Hands
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This week Elle and Vee chat with Ian Kerner, a licensed psychotherapist and bestselling author of She Comes First who helps individuals and couples build deeper desire, connection, and sexual confidence. Together, they unpack how everything from your early sexual experiences to the “sex scripts” you’ve internalized may be quietly shaping your turn-ons, your relationships, and your struggles with desire, ED, and communication. From de-centering intercourse and exploring coreplay to navigating fantasies, non-monogamy, and the psychological runway of arousal, this episode is a raw, eye-opening look at what it really takes to create a sex life that actually feels good.
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— support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials.
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This week, Elle and Vee chat with Tash Doherty about all the random sexy, kinky things that come up during a game of WHOREible Life (think: never have I ever, but unhinged). Playing Would You Rather with WHOREible Life cards opens the door to a wildly honest, funny, and surprisingly deep conversation about fantasies, exhibitionism, impact play, submission, and the psychology behind what turns us on. From sex toys to self-awareness to craving attention in all the right (and wrong) ways, nothing is off-limits. 
Would You Rather: be a webcam girl or have a celebrity hookup? (02:51) 
Tash’s real-life celebrity crush and the allure of high-brow intelligence in sex appeal. (03:20) 
Fantasies, crush archetypes, and exploring sexual desires through imagination. (08:46) 
The debate on camming, authenticity, and the appeal of virtual intimacy. (10:36) 
Would You Rather: orgasm from impact play or receive a massage with a happy ending? (14:16) 
How slowing down and self-touch rituals can lead to more intense pleasure. (16:17) 
Would You Rather: fuck a sex doll or wear a vibrating butt plug? (24:14) 
Exploring different toys: vibrators, butt plugs, and the importance of size and comfort. (29:21) 
Would You Rather: crawl on a leash or use sex toy beads? (33:12) 
Submission Fantasies: crawling, collars, and the dynamic of brat versus obedient roles. (34:52) 
Brat Behavior: Power dynamics, role-playing, and the push-pull of domination and submission. (37:08)
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Substack: Misseducated
Instagram: @tashdoherty_
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