The Audaci-Tea

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign confront one of the loudest cultural talking points of the moment, the so called male loneliness epidemic. They break down why women are increasingly being asked to care, nurture, rehabilitate, and emotionally support men who refuse to evolve. The conversation examines how patriarchy created male dependency on women for emotional regulation, social connection, and purpose, and why women are no longer willing to sacrifice themselves to fix it. Together, they explore the difference between compassion and responsibility, why men struggle with emotional intelligence and vulnerability, and why loneliness rooted in entitlement is not a crisis women are obligated to solve.

But first, in Tea Time, Lisa and Sovereign react to Bad Bunny’s Super Bowl halftime performance, the Cardi B and Stefon Diggs breakup speculation, a viral voicemail from a cheating husband begging for another chance, concerns over a controversial Ring Super Bowl ad, and Ballerina Farm recalling raw milk after bacteria concerns. Later, in Mailbag, they respond to a listener navigating dating as a highly accomplished professional woman.

 

🎧 This episode makes one thing clear. Women are not rehabilitation centers for emotionally unavailable men.

 

🎙️ Topics Discussed:

The male loneliness epidemic and emotional dependency on women

Why women are not responsible for fixing men

Patriarchy and male emotional immaturity

Emotional intelligence and male vulnerability

Women prioritizing independence over male validation

Dating as a successful, high achieving woman

 

✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:
Cardi B and Stefon Diggs Spark Split After Super Bowl
https://people.com/cardi-b-stefon-diggs-spark-split-speculation-with-mutual-instagram-unfollows-after-super-bowl-11903181

Social Media Users Vow Never To Buy Ring Cameras After Viewing ‘Creepy’ Super Bowl Ad
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/ring-super-bowl-ad-search-party_n_698a78f4e4b09f934ad34210

Hannah Neeleman’s Ballerina Farm Halts Sale of Raw Milk Due to Bacteria Concerns
https://people.com/ballerina-farm-halts-sale-of-raw-milk-after-failed-health-test-report-11897521

8,000 Years Ago, 17 Women Reproduced for Every One Man
https://psmag.com/environment/17-to-1-reproductive-success/

 

📚 This Week’s Recommendation:
The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz
https://a.co/d/0he3z46A

Check Out Lisa’s Free Blog About This Episode
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🕰️ Episode Chapters:
00:00 Welcome and Tea Time
02:55 Bad Bunny Super Bowl
03:51 Cardi B and Stefon Diggs
08:55 Ring Super Bowl Ad Backlash
16:46 Cheating Husband Voicemail
22:41 Ballerina Farm Raw Milk Recall
29:32 Why Women Don’t Care About Male Loneliness
50:55 Men Expect Women To Fix Them
01:04:24 Male Emotional Immaturity
01:09:49 The Need For Male Growth
01:22:50 Mailbag: Dating As A High Achiever
01:41:45 Poll Results

 

🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio, video, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.

 

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In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign tackle a question many women quietly wrestle with their entire lives. Are you over invested in men?

This discussion will break down how women are socialized to pour time, energy, emotional labor, and identity into men and relationships at the expense of their own safety, growth, and fulfillment. The discussion also explores how over investment shows up emotionally, financially, sexually, and psychologically, and why so many women are taught that self abandonment is love.

 

But first, in Tea Time, Lisa and Sovereign announce our brand new shop where you can get your own Audaci-Tea merch! We also introduce you to Nadia, who is the artist that created all these great designs. Afterwards, they react to a viral arm wrestling video that perfectly captures patriarchal entitlement, unpack new Epstein related revelations including Bill Gates, and break down leaked Zoom meeting audio from Erika Kirk seemingly giddy at all the money coming in a few days after her husband was assassinated. Later, in the “This You?” segment, they break down a Reddit post from a woman who’s boyfriend says “using soap is optional”. 

 

🎧 This episode challenges women to step back, reassess where their energy is going, and ask whether their investment is being reciprocated or quietly exploited by men.

 

🎙️ Topics Discussed:

What over investing in men actually looks like

Emotional labor and unequal relationship dynamics

How patriarchy conditions women to self abandon

Red flags that signal unhealthy attachment

Re centering your life, goals, and identity

Choosing self investment over male validation

 

✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:
Bill Gates caught an STD from ‘Russian girls’, Epstein claimed in files

https://www.thetimes.com/us/news-today/article/bill-gates-epstein-files-std-russian-girls-skz9hdf3t?gaa_at=eafs&gaa_n=AWEtsqen2SESuGKKMJkmHELHOlFIpuIZOPmQh-w96PQC36AWhjC0JEse-gaAgXgJBfg%3D&gaa_ts=6981497b&gaa_sig=Gae35PD-80-LK804DNEJ0icyUB9LypDYjYjU327SW2SFNhgPwX4RpVyK3PxlRtVJxLPu0B_h3ku6t-Jfa1eZtw%3D%3D

‘Betrayed’ Melinda Gates addresses ex Bill’s ‘deeply disturbing’ Jeffrey Epstein link in candid memoir

https://pagesix.com/2025/04/15/celebrity-news/melinda-gates-addresses-ex-bills-deeply-disturbing-jeffrey-epstein-link/

Elon Musk Asked Jeffrey Epstein About Visiting His Infamous Island on More Than One Occasion, Emails Show

https://people.com/emails-reveal-that-elon-musk-asked-jeffrey-epstein-about-visiting-his-island-11896842

 

📚 This Week’s Recommendation:

Check Out Nadia Lougin!

Website: https://www.nadialougin.com

IG: https://www.instagram.com/wtfunknadia

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@wtfunknadia

Check Out Lisa’s Free Blog About This Episode!

https://www.patreon.com/collection/960341

 

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🕰️ Episode Chapters:
00:00 Welcome and Tea Time

02:50 Our Merch Store Is Live!

07:16 Woman Defeats Man Arm Wrestling

11:52 Bill Gates In Epstein files

19:03 Erika Kirk Leaked Audio

28:16 Are You Over Invested In Men?

31:42 Signs You’re Over Invested 

41:10 Match His Energy

52:32 How women are conditioned to over give

01:04:15 Have Healthy Detachment

01:07:50 Be Careful Who You Have Kids With

01:24:10 Boyfriend Says “Using Soap Is Optional”?!

01:46:41 Poll Results: Will Women’s Rights Endure?

 

🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio, video, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.

 

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In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign invite listeners into a provocative thought experiment. What if women treated men the way men currently treat women?

By flipping gendered power dynamics on their head, the hosts explore how normalized violence, entitlement, sexual double standards, and media narratives suddenly become absurd when the roles are reversed. The episode exposes how deeply ingrained misogyny shapes public reactions to harm, accountability, sexuality, labor, and autonomy, and why these dynamics remain invisible until women imagine wielding the same social power.

 

But first, in Tea Time, Lisa and Sovereign discuss the killing of Alex Pretti by federal ICE agents, marking the second fatal incident involving ICE in three weeks. They also break down growing concerns around TikTok censorship following new U.S. ownership, react to Alex Honnold’s high risk skyscraper climb, and watch a viral moment of instant karma when a man flips off a woman moments before crashing his truck. Later, the hosts open the mailbag to help a listener navigating unexpected sex dream drama.

 

🎧 This episode uses a thought experiment to reveal the everyday realities women are expected to tolerate, and asks listeners to confront what society excuses, minimizes, or ignores when harm is gendered.

 

🎙️ Topics Discussed:

Gender role reversal as a tool to expose double standards

How violence against women is normalized and minimized

Media narratives and unequal accountability for harm

Patriarchy and the false sense of purpose it creates for men

Sexual double standards and women’s bodily autonomy

Why imagining reversed power reveals societal absurdities

 

✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:
A minute by minute timeline of the fatal shooting of Alex Pretti involving federal agents
https://abcnews.go.com/Politics/minute-minute-timeline-fatal-shooting-alex-pretti-federal/story?id=129547199

TikTok explodes with complaints of anti ICE censorship
https://thehill.com/opinion/lindseys-lens/5708656-tiktok-silencing-ice-videos/

TikTok users say they can’t upload anti ICE videos. The company blames tech issues
https://www.cnn.com/2026/01/26/tech/tiktok-ice-censorship-glitch-cec

People say they’re deleting TikTok after White House deal
https://www.newsweek.com/users-deleting-tiktok-protest-new-us-ownership-11406525

Alex Honnold on his record breaking live Netflix skyscraper climb
https://variety.com/2026/tv/news/alex-honnold-skyscraper-climb-netflix-live-interview-1236640217/

The Cult Behind the Killer: The Andrea Yates Story
https://www.imdb.com/title/tt39151060/

 

📚 This Week’s Recommendation:
Check out Lisa’s free blog about this episode
https://www.patreon.com/collection/960341

 

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🕰️ Episode Chapters:
00:00 Welcome and Tea Time
03:08 ICE Kills Another Protestor
15:50 Is TikTok cooked?
23:23 Alex Honnold skyscraper climb
31:18 Instant karma viral video
35:01 What if women acted like men?
42:05 Gender double standards
56:39 Violence and media narratives
01:15:15 Women’s vulnerability and power
01:21:24 Mailbag: Sex dream drama
01:41:50 Poll results: Why Do Women Have To Do Everything?

 

🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio, video, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.

 

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In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign welcome special guest BurbnBougie for a clear eyed conversation about the future of women’s rights and whether they are built to endure. Through the lens of Gen Z culture, shifting political divides between young men and women, declining birth rates, and emerging social trends, the discussion explores how younger generations are reshaping power, labor, relationships, and resistance.

 

Together, they examine how trad wife culture, child free choices, financial independence, and feminist infighting reflect deeper anxieties about gender roles and control. The conversation also unpacks how purity tests within feminism can become divisive, why opting out of traditional life paths is becoming more common, and what it actually takes for women to remain protected, autonomous, and unbothered in an increasingly hostile cultural climate.

 

But first, in Tea Time, Lisa and Sovereign react to the debate between journalist Ana Kasparian and right wing anti feminist influencer Hannah Pearl Davis, a viral video of a man promising his friend’s ex wife the “soft life,” an SNL joke equating women’s genitalia to a Demogorgon, a disturbing study on male attitudes toward child sexual abuse, and comedian Ryan Davis’ comments about his young daughter being a “gold digger.” Later, in Tea Or Trash, the hosts break down feminist trends to decide which are actually serving women and which should be left behind.

 

🎧 This episode cuts through culture war noise to ask a serious question. As politics shift and gender divides deepen, are women’s rights secure, or are we being asked to give them back quietly?

 

🎙️ Topics Discussed:

Gen Z gender politics and the growing divide between young men and women

Declining birth rates and women opting out of traditional life paths

Trad wife culture and the long term risks for women

Feminist purity tests and internal division

Financial independence as protection and power

Media misogyny and cultural backlash against women

 

✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:
Anti Feminist Wrecked In Debate
https://www.rawstory.com/i-could-body-you-right-wing-influencer-melts-down-after-embarrassing-debate-gaffe/

Millions of men ‘would sexually abuse children if secrecy was assured’
https://www.thetimes.com/uk/law/article/millions-of-men-would-sexually-abuse-children-if-secrecy-was-sure-ncf9lx5v7?gaa_at=eafs&gaa_n=AWEtsqePPS1QG1njYPl4XjNTj3B9WLV_mHC5cbcsc6uwV8L8nbRmq5fT9t1bsVhKcLE%3D&gaa_ts=696fd01a&gaa_sig=_wBWaCxlZnZ6-v8wbquc74mT67wjXaiTwRBwPnUVS1JmlI3demsk7twN-dG-tG3nf0UCv-X0LjUzgNi05TsbAw%3D%3D

Ryan Davis’ former partner replies after he called their 10 year old daughter a ‘Gold digger’
https://face2faceafrica.com/article/ryan-davis-former-partner-replies-after-he-called-their-10-year-old-daughter-a-gold-digger

Gen Z Don’t Want To Have Kids
https://www.cbsnews.com/news/millennials-gen-z-childless-money-finances-massmutual/

Young men and women are taking the gender gap to staggering new levels
https://www.nbcnews.com/politics/elections/young-men-women-are-taking-poll-gender-gap-staggering-new-levels-rcna202672

‘Lying flat’ Why some Chinese are putting work second
https://www.bbc.com/news/business-60353916

 

📚 This Week’s Recommendation:
Follow BurbnBougie
https://www.youtube.com/@BurbNBougie

Check Out Lisa’s Free Blog About This Episode
https://www.patreon.com/collection/960341

 

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🕰️ Episode Chapters:
00:00 Welcome and Tea Time!
02:58 Ana Kasparian vs Pearl Debate
05:20 Man Promises Freind's Ex-Wife the "Soft Life"
12:30 SNL Demogorgon Joke
20:19 Child Abuse Study
24:27 Comedian Calls Daughter a Gold Digger
31:52 Welcome BurbnBougie!
37:16 Gen Z Trends and Shifting Perspectives
46:42 The Impact of Women’s Choices on Society
55:06 The Role of Women in Social Movements
01:09:55 Feminism and the Generational Divide
01:17:48 Navigating the Purity Test in Feminism
01:24:39 Tea or Trash?
01:50:54 Poll Results: Can Women Be Christian and Feminist?

 

🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.

 

📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries:
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In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign welcome special guest Abby Eckel for a deep dive into why women are still expected to do everything. From domestic labor to emotional labor to the invisible mental load, the conversation unpacks how women, especially mothers, are systematically conditioned to carry responsibilities men routinely avoid. Together, they explore how this imbalance impacts women’s health, relationships, financial security, and sense of self, and why recognizing your worth and maintaining independence is not optional but necessary.

But first, in Tea Time, Lisa and Sovereign discuss ongoing ICE atrocities in the U.S., including the killing of Renee Good, Kristi Noem delivering a speech while standing at a podium bearing a Nazi slogan, a Christian woman claiming Christianity gave women rights instead of feminism, and react to a viral video of a woman who drove eight hours just to sleep in a prison parking lot to be close to her man. Later, in Mailbag, they respond to a listener struggling with trust after discovering a photo of a naked model on her partner’s phone.

 

🎧 This episode takes a hard look at the emotional, mental, and logistical labor women shoulder every day, and why men’s refusal to carry their weight has real consequences for women’s well being.

 

🎙️ Topics Discussed:

The mental load and invisible labor women carry

Emotional labor and gendered expectations in relationships

Why women undervalue their own contributions

Financial independence and power dynamics in marriage

The toll of unequal labor on women’s health and motherhood

Trust, intuition, and knowing when something is wrong

 

✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:
ICE and the Nazi History of “One of Ours, All of Yours”
https://jamesfell.substack.com/p/ice-and-the-nazi-history-of-one-of

Is Charlie Kirk’s Shooter a Democrat?
https://www.nbcphiladelphia.com/news/politics/fact-focus-assassination-of-charlie-kirk-prompts-flood-of-false-and-misleading-claims-online/4268659/

Influencer Kristy Scott Files for Divorce from Husband Desmond Scott After 12 Years of Marriage
https://people.com/influencer-kristy-scott-files-for-divorce-from-husband-desmond-scott-11883063

 

📚 This Week’s Recommendation:
Follow Abby Eckel
https://linktr.ee/abbyeckel

This American Ex-Wife by Liz Lenz
https://a.co/d/2auTF5C

What Happened to My Sex Life? by Dr. Kate Balestieri
https://a.co/d/gN87eJ0

Check Out Lisa’s Free Blog About This Episode
https://www.patreon.com/collection/960341

 

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🕰️ Episode Chapters:
00:00 Welcome and Tea Time
02:49 ICE and the Murder of Renee Good
11:57 Influencer Divorce: Kristy and Desmond Scott
16:00 Christianity Gives Women Rights?
19:32 Woman Sleeps in Jail Parking Lot
23:07 Welcome Abby Eckel
29:27 Understanding the Mental Load and Domestic Labor
38:42 Navigating Unequal Domestic Responsibilities
47:20 Financial Independence and Relationship Power
57:12 Emotional Labor and Gender Expectations
01:05:30 The Cost of Staying in Unhealthy Marriages
01:21:33 Mailbag: Trust and Intuition
01:45:21 Poll Results: Womanhood on Your Own Terms

 

🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr and The Sovereign Woman. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.

 

📩 For advertising, business, or general inquiries:
[email protected]

 

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The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the hosts and guests and do not necessarily reflect the views of Siren Sound or its affiliates. This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.