Practicing Harp Happiness

• The Surprising Power of Just One More - PHH 225

  Imagine you’re looking at a box of chocolates, knowing you’ve already had at least three too many. Your hostess is holding out the box to you, saying, “Have just one more. It couldn’t hurt.” It’s hard to actually know what one more would do. That “one more” candy might be the one that pulls out your filling. That “one more” episode of your favorite Netflix show might turn into an hours-long binge watch. That “one more” task before you leave the house might be the one that makes you miss your train. But there’s the other side of “one more” too. The extra rep in the gym that builds muscle and stamina. The extra pinch of spice that makes a dish delectable. That extra touch to anything handmade that makes it unique and treasured. Those are just a few examples of the beneficial power of “one more.” There are lots of opportunities for “one mores” in our harp playing, both helpful and distinctly unhelpful. When you know which of those extras you should avoid, you can stay out of some of the most problematic pitfalls for any harpist. When you know which ones have the power to move your playing ahead, that’s almost like magic. But there’s no magic to it, just a little information, and that’s what I’m going to give you today. I’ll give you the do’s and dont’s of the extra step, when it’s worth it and when you’d be better off having stayed in bed. In fact, I’ll share three things that you absolutely must avoid, and I’ll tell you why. And we’ll counter those with seven “one more” things that will multiply your efforts in ways you might not expect. There’s a lot to talk about, so let’s get started.. Links to things I think you might be interested in that were mentioned in the podcast episode:  Join us at Back to School Night Are you ready to work with a Harp Mastery® Certified Coach? Click and find out. Work with a Harp Mastery®  Accredited Teacher. Harpmastery.com  Get involved in the show! Send your questions and suggestions for future podcast episodes to me at [email protected] Looking for a transcript for this episode? Did you know that if you subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts you will have access to their transcripts of each episode? LINKS NOT WORKING FOR YOU? FInd all the show resources here: https://www.harpmastery.com/blog/Episode-225  

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• Teacher to Student: If I Knew Then What I Know Now - PHH 224

  How often do we say, “If I only knew then, what I know now”? Sometimes it’s about life experience, like surviving teenage drama. Sometimes it’s about turning down an opportunity, like not buying stock in Facebook before the company went big.  Obviously, we aren’t able to go back in time and really have a “do over.”  I imagine that if we could, It’s more than possible that the result wouldn’t be what we expect. We can never know how our world would have been altered, if we’d taken the other fork in the road. We can only guess.  Here’s my “if I only knew then” statement for today: If I only knew as a young harp student what I know now as a harp teacher. The fact behind this is key. The fact is that everything I learned about being a good student, I learned from trying to be a good teacher. If I had known as a student even half of what I’ve learned through my teaching, my harp life might have been so much easier.  Most teachers of any subject will tell you how much they learn from their students. One of the most powerful things I have learned is how many different paths there are to being a harpist. Discovering how to craft a course designed with each student’s strengths, needs, goals and desires in mind is not easy. But I have found it indescribably rewarding. I have such deep respect for my students - for their efforts, for their achievements, for their trust in me, for the incredible people they are.  But we aren’t talking about me or my students today, at least not exactly. What I want to share with you are the four most important aspects of being a harp student or a harp teacher. They have nothing to do with repertoire or technique. They are applicable to every student/teacher relationship, and they apply equally, but differently, for both students and teachers. I’m offering them to you today in the hope that they inspire you to bring a different mindset or intention to your study or your teaching or both. Links to things I think you might be interested in that were mentioned in the podcast episode:  Teachers Retreat registration closing this week. Register here. Level up! Work with one of our Harp Mastery® Certified Coaches.   Harpmastery.com  Get involved in the show! Send your questions and suggestions for future podcast episodes to me at [email protected] Looking for a transcript for this episode? Did you know that if you subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts you will have access to their transcripts of each episode? LINKS NOT WORKING FOR YOU? FInd all the show resources here: https://www.harpmastery.com/blog/Episode-224  

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• Banish Your Practice Blindspots - PHH 223

  Mirror, mirror on the wall. If only my mirror could show me all. We humans love our mirrors. At some deep-rooted level, we love to see ourselves. Maybe you remember the famous scene in the movie Lawrence of Arabia when Peter O’Toole playing Lawrence first puts on the white Arab robes and headdress. He is for the moment all by himself in the desert, so there is no dialogue. According to the film’s director, David Lean, the only instruction he gave O’Toole was to improvise what this young man Lawrence might have done in this situation. O’Toole experiments with the sweep of his robes by running and spinning, feeling the gleaming white cloth swirl about him. Then he stops, and with no mirror to hand in the desert, takes out his shiny silver dagger from his belt and tries to use it as a mirror to see how he looks. David Lean remembers remarking under his breath during the filming, “Clever boy!”  Looking into a mirror, though, only gives us a limited perspective. We can only see what is in front of us. It takes multiple mirrors for us to be able to see our backs. Frankly, we have blindspots, spots that are difficult or nearly impossible to see. I always rely on a friend who can tell me if my hair looks okay in the back or if the tag on my shirt is sticking out. From time to time it’s a good idea to check your harp blindspots too. These blindspots are usually related to inefficiencies in our practice or skills we need to develop. They may be hampering or slowing down our progress. And the good news is that once you see the blindspot, just like the tag that is sticking out, you can fix it. So in today’s show, we’ll review 7 common blindspots. If none of them are yours, at least not right now, that’s great. You’ll have some additional knowledge you can use to keep them in check. But if you think your harp playing should be moving faster than it is, perhaps one or more of these blindspots will show you what you haven’t seen before, and you can get started removing that spot right away. Links to things I think you might be interested in that were mentioned in the podcast episode:  New blindspot courses in the Harp Mastery® app! Want to take the Blindspot Quiz? Click here.  Harpmastery.com Get involved in the show! Send your questions and suggestions for future podcast episodes to me at [email protected] Looking for a transcript for this episode? Did you know that if you subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts you will have access to their transcripts of each episode? LINKS NOT WORKING FOR YOU? FInd all the show resources here: https://www.harpmastery.com/blog/Episode-223  

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• Susann McDonald: A Legacy of Connection - PHH 222

  There’s a moment — sometimes only after someone is gone — when we finally see the full measure of their influence. We may have known they mattered, but loss has a way of sharpening our perspective, of showing us just how much they shaped our world. Some people use the word legendary too easily. For harpist Susann McDonald, it’s no exaggeration. Susann McDonald, who passed away this past May at the age of 90, left an indelible mark on the harp world. She was an acclaimed performer, a respected author, an extraordinary teacher, and a passionate advocate for our instrument. She co-founded the World Harp Congress and nurtured a global community of harpists, uniting people across continents through music. But her story is more than a list of titles and accomplishments. It’s about the way she created a sense of belonging — for every harpist, no matter your style or skill level. Whether you play concert halls or in your living room, her influence has touched you. And today, we’ll celebrate that — her life, her music, her lasting legacy — and consider what it asks of us as harpists now. This isn’t just a biographical podcast, though. I want to explore the idea of legacy, of the connections we have to our harpist forebears that empower and guide our playing  every day. Legacy isn’t just about what’s left to us; it’s our springboard to the future.  Links to things I think you might be interested in that were mentioned in the podcast episode:  Watch our video series specially for harp teachers. Our Teacher Retreat registration is still open. Harpmastery.com Get involved in the show! Send your questions and suggestions for future podcast episodes to me at [email protected] Looking for a transcript for this episode? Did you know that if you subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts you will have access to their transcripts of each episode? LINKS NOT WORKING FOR YOU? FInd all the show resources here: https://www.harpmastery.com/blog/Episode-222  

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• Mistakes as Milestones: A New Mindset for Growth - PHH 221

  Not all mistakes are created equal. Sure, some need to be addressed and fixed. But others? They’re signs of progress. They tell you that your ears are sharper, your awareness is expanding, and your technique is evolving. Let’s put it in context. We live in a world that’s constantly trying to correct us. Type an email, and autocorrect will instantly jump in. Google will underline a word in red, and we assume it's wrong—just because it looks unfamiliar. But autocorrect doesn’t always get it right. And neither does your inner critic. Just because something feels like a mistake doesn’t automatically mean it is. In harp practice, this same principle applies. That little stumble in a piece might not be a sign of backsliding. It could mean you're playing at a higher level and noticing subtleties you didn’t even hear before. Consider this: I was deadheading flowers in the garden the other day. At first, I only saw a few to snip. But as I trimmed those, more and more faded blooms seemed to appear. I hadn’t missed them before—I just hadn’t noticed them. My attention had shifted, and I was seeing more clearly. Not because the garden got worse, but because I was more tuned in. This is exactly what happens in harp practice. The more you refine your skills, the more aware you become of tiny imperfections. And that’s not failure—that’s progress. But here’s the tricky part: this increased awareness can lead you down a rabbit hole of endless correction, and that’s where momentum can stall. If you’re constantly fixing, reworking, and over-analyzing, it can feel like you’re never getting anywhere. In today’s episode, we’ll talk about how to change your outlook so you can recognize the difference between real issues and natural growing pains. We’ll explore how to use mistakes as guideposts, not roadblocks, and how to keep yourself out of the pit of perfectionism. Most importantly, you’ll learn how to keep your progress moving forward—even when your practice feels messy. Just remember: all mistakes are not created equal. Not every mistake is a problem that needs to be addressed. Some mistakes are actually signs of growth and momentum. Links to things I think you might be interested in that were mentioned in the podcast episode:  Finish strong in the final week of our Hub Summer Challenge Check out the new Learn section in the Harp Mastery®  app. Join the group coming to our October Teachers Retreat Harpmastery.com Get involved in the show! Send your questions and suggestions for future podcast episodes to me at [email protected] Looking for a transcript for this episode? Did you know that if you subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts you will have access to their transcripts of each episode? LINKS NOT WORKING FOR YOU? FInd all the show resources here: https://www.harpmastery.com/blog/Episode-221  

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