60. Parker Patterson: What We Learn About Life by Being Close to Death
Are we truly making the most of the days we’re given? In this episode, I sit down with Parker Patterson, entrepreneur, caregiver, and co-owner of Silverleaf Elder Care, to explore the profound wisdom that comes from serving people at the end of their lives.
We talk about:
💛 The reality of aging in America
🏠 How boutique-style elder care preserves dignity and belonging
🧠 Memory care, emotional needs, and the importance of continuity
🌿 What peaceful death looks like, and what regretful death teaches us
👨👩👧 How Parker’s upbringing in a family of 12 (with 7 special needs siblings) shaped his worldview
🔥 Leadership, purpose, and building a mission-driven life
💫 Preparing for death, legacy, and living intentionally before it’s too late
If you’re curious about life, meaning, purpose, aging, death, or how to build a legacy you’re proud of, this conversation will move you deeply.
Connect with Parker Patterson
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theparkerpatterson
Website: https://www.silverleafeldercare.com
About Meg Tuohey
📕 HeartPrint by Megan Tuohey is now available for pre-order!https://bit.ly/4qTGXbc
✨ Meg Tuohey is a renowned expert in relationships, leadership, and personal growth. Learn more about her mission and how she is changing lives here:
https://bit.ly/3NtUF24
🎓 Shatter emotional barriers and reclaim your power with The Wisdom Lab—designed for women seeking profound breakthroughs in personal growth and emotional healing:
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LinkedIn: https://bit.ly/4hbXJOb
🎙️ Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3Yp2vjP
🎙️ Listen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/4f8xTsj
⏰ Timestamps (Chapters)
00:00 – The beauty of multigenerational care
00:33 – Welcome to Wisdom Stripes
00:47 – Meet Parker Patterson
01:01 – Parker’s upbringing & family of 12
03:12 – How adoption shaped his worldview
09:04 – The state of elder care in America
10:23 – Why Parker built boutique-style communities
11:44 – Eastern vs Western aging philosophies
13:18 – Creating a home-like environment
14:14 – Launching home care to help seniors age in place
16:03 – Blending family values into elder care
17:26 – Supporting caregivers through grief
23:06 – Leadership with heart: co-leading with his wife
25:07 – The sacred difficulty of end-of-life care
27:44 – Wisdom from witnessing death
32:10 – The “door between worlds”: birth & death
33:11 – Signs of peaceful transition
35:24 – The beauty of crossing over
36:05 – Parker’s vision for life, purpose & legacy
40:00 – The hardest thing Parker is working on
42:01 – Overcoming shiny object syndrome
46:02 – How his wife keeps him grounded
48:56 – Parker’s final wisdom
49:21 – Preparing for death responsibly
54:00 – Where to find Parker & closing remarks
🚨 DISCLAIMER
The Wisdom Stripes podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. The host, Meg Tuohey, shares personal stories, experiences, and knowledge aimed at helping listeners gain new insights for personal growth. However, the content is not a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Listeners should not use the information as a replacement for consultations with qualified mental health, medical, or other professionals. If you are seeking professional help, please consult with a licensed specialist.
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59. Gina Burt: Why Your Soulmate Might Not Be Who You Think
Your unexpressed rage is slowly poisoning your body, your relationships, and your life, and neither stuffing it down nor dumping it on others will ever set you free. Gina Burt, a personal development coach who broke bats and chairs during her own rage release therapy, has become one of the most-sought-after guides for people ready to finally move through their deepest anger without destroying themselves or those they love. What if the emotion you’ve been most afraid of becomes your doorway to freedom?
✨ The HeartPrint by Megan Tuohey is now available for pre-order! https://bit.ly/4prmTf5
📕Meg Tuohey is a renown expert in relationships, leadership and personal growth. Learn more about her mission and how she is changing lives here: https://bit.ly/3NtUF24
🎓Shatter emotional barriers and reclaim your power with The Wisdom Lab, designed for women seeking profound breakthroughs in personal growth and emotional healing.: https://bit.ly/4eI8S7N
📰 For more information on Wisdom Stripes with Meg Tuohey visit: https://bit.ly/3U9V5OZ
📺Watch the "Wisdom Stripes" podcast every Thursday at 5AM EST on YouTube: https://bit.ly/3BO3Mbk
📱Connect with Meg Tuohey
Instagram: https://bit.ly/4f6B0AW
Facebook: https://bit.ly/3BILKXU
TikTok: https://bit.ly/4f7M8he
LinkedIn: https://bit.ly/4hbXJOb
🎙️Download “Wisdom Stripes” podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3Yp2vjP
🎙️Download “Wisdom Stripes” podcast on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/4f8xTsj
⏰Timestamps
00:00 Intro of Show
01:45 Wisdom from Gina Burt
02:45 Overcoming Severe Pain: Gina’s Healing Journey
10:18 Discovering A Person’s Story
17:05 Where to Find Gina Burt? (Without Digital Media Presence)
19:21 Gina Burt’s Mission
23:09 Most Common Secrets of People
25:59 Recognising Patterns of Chaos (and Its Consequences)
30:27 Having a Relationship with the “Isness” (Inner Knowing)
34:03 People Always Have a Choice
40:29 Rage Release Process
46:45 What Happens After Rage Release and Healing?
49:44 Wisdom as the Knowingness
52:46 Wisdom on Grief and Guilt
59:26 Perspective on Death
1:01:14 Life Mates vs. Soul Mates
1:05:35 Gina’s Next Frontier
1:07:52 Last Piece of Wisdom from Gina
🚨DISCLAIMER: The Wisdom Stripes podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. The host Meg Tuohey shares personal stories, experiences, and knowledge aimed at helping listeners gain new insights for personal growth. However, the content is not a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Listeners should not use the information as a replacement for consultations with qualified mental health, medical, or other professionals. If you are seeking professional help, please consult with a licensed specialist.
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58. Abby Shepard: How to Align Your Life with Your Core Values
Can ancient Buddhist wisdom guide us through modern collapse? Abby Shepard bridges 2,600-year-old teachings with contemporary challenges, explaining how meditation cultivates compassion and clarity essential for effective activism. For anyone curious about Buddhism teachings, this episode reveals how embodied practice transforms both personal suffering and systemic harm, offering grounded hope during times of extreme uncertainty.
✨ The HeartPrint by Megan Tuohey is now available for pre-order! https://bit.ly/4prmTf5
📱Connect with Abby Shepard
Website: https://bit.ly/4p0rNiY
Instagram: https://bit.ly/48bxvaP
📕Meg Tuohey is a renown expert in relationships, leadership and personal growth. Learn more about her mission and how she is changing lives here: https://bit.ly/3NtUF24
🎓Shatter emotional barriers and reclaim your power with The Wisdom Lab, designed for women seeking profound breakthroughs in personal growth and emotional healing.: https://bit.ly/4eI8S7N
📰 For more information on Wisdom Stripes with Meg Tuohey visit: https://bit.ly/3U9V5OZ
📺Watch the "Wisdom Stripes" podcast every Thursday at 5AM EST on YouTube: https://bit.ly/3BO3Mbk
📱Connect with Meg Tuohey
Instagram: https://bit.ly/4f6B0AW
Facebook: https://bit.ly/3BILKXU
TikTok: https://bit.ly/4f7M8he
LinkedIn: https://bit.ly/4hbXJOb
🎙️Download “Wisdom Stripes” podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3Yp2vjP
🎙️Download “Wisdom Stripes” podcast on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/4f8xTsj
⏰Timestamps
00:00 Intro of Show
02:02 Wisdom from Abby Shepard
10:07 Interconnection of Abby’s Family Legacy into Pursuing Her Mission
18:27 Buddhist Philosophy and Its Impact to Social Justice
24:31 Alignment of Buddhist Teachings to Her Activism
29:52 How to Intertwine One’s Core Values to Your Life
33:59 Importance of Finding Your Own Community
38:15 Last Piece of Wisdom from Abby
🚨DISCLAIMER: The Wisdom Stripes podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. The host Meg Tuohey shares personal stories, experiences, and knowledge aimed at helping listeners gain new insights for personal growth. However, the content is not a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Listeners should not use the information as a replacement for consultations with qualified mental health, medical, or other professionals. If you are seeking professional help, please consult with a licensed specialist.
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57. Adonis Bjornson: How to Develop an Unstoppable Mindset By Becoming Delusionally Confident
Society tells you to be realistic, humble, and accept your limitations, which is exactly why most people never achieve extraordinary results. Mindset Coach Adonis Bjornson flips conventional wisdom on its head with his breakthrough philosophy, “Delulu is the solulu,” the solution is becoming delusional about your potential. Through his transformation from off-grid homesteader to successful entrepreneur, Adonis shares how training your brain’s filtration system to seek abundance rather than scarcity creates unstoppable momentum. What version of yourself exists when you stop accepting society’s definition of realistic?
✨ Pre-order HeartPrint by Meg Tuohey here: https://bit.ly/4prmTf5
HeartPrint is Meg Tuohey’s story-driven exploration of wisdom, resilience, and rediscovery. It’s a reminder that the deepest transformation doesn’t come from self-improvement but from self-understanding
Get Adonis Bjornson’s book, “The Villain Method Workbook“ here:
https://amzn.to/4paFU5e
📱Connect with Adonis Bjornson
YouTube: https://bit.ly/3JwHTSl
Instagram: https://bit.ly/48a6SUO
TikTok: https://bit.ly/4paF34w
Facebook: https://bit.ly/47SOZIW
X.com: https://bit.ly/49aGg78
LinkedIn: https://bit.ly/4nVKVxB
📕Meg Tuohey is a renown expert in relationships, leadership and personal growth. Learn more about her mission and how she is changing lives here: https://bit.ly/3NtUF24
🎓Shatter emotional barriers and reclaim your power with The Wisdom Lab, designed for women seeking profound breakthroughs in personal growth and emotional healing.: https://bit.ly/4eI8S7N
📰 For more information on Wisdom Stripes with Meg Tuohey visit: https://bit.ly/3U9V5OZ
📺Watch the "Wisdom Stripes" podcast every Thursday at 5AM EST on YouTube: https://bit.ly/3BO3Mbk
📱Connect with Meg Tuohey
Instagram: https://bit.ly/4f6B0AW
Facebook: https://bit.ly/3BILKXU
TikTok: https://bit.ly/4f7M8he
LinkedIn: https://bit.ly/4hbXJOb
🎙️Download “Wisdom Stripes” podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3Yp2vjP
🎙️Download “Wisdom Stripes” podcast on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/4f8xTsj
⏰Timestamps
00:00 Intro of Show
04:07 Wisdom from Adonis Bjornson
06:33 Self-Delusion is a Superpower
09:25 “Yeah, but…”
15:59 The Toughest Times are the Greatest Blessings
17:59 Impact of Having an Abundance Mindset
22:35 “Love Many, Trust Few”
31:57 Paddling Your Own Canoe
41:12 Adonis’ Life Then vs. Now
46:04 Recognising Your Soul’s Purpose
50:47 Adonis’ Next Frontier
57:48 Sitting in the Discomfort of Just Being
1:05:36 Last Piece of Wisdom from Adonis
🚨DISCLAIMER: The Wisdom Stripes podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. The host Meg Tuohey shares personal stories, experiences, and knowledge aimed at helping listeners gain new insights for personal growth. However, the content is not a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Listeners should not use the information as a replacement for consultations with qualified mental health, medical, or other professionals. If you are seeking professional help, please consult with a licensed specialist.
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56. Dr. Darnyelle Harmon: How I Learned I Was Lovable After Years of Rejection
Stop waiting for permission to claim the life you deserve. Dr. Darnyelle Harmon shares the hard-earned wisdom from building her success brick by brick, creating the internal infrastructure that was missing from her challenging upbringing. This conversation will remind you that you already possess everything you need for your next breakthrough!
Get Dr. Darnyelle Harmon’s book, “Move to Millions“ here: https://bit.ly/3Xkbnpr
Listen to "Move to Millions Podcast with Dr. Darnyelle Jervey Harmon" on all your favorite platforms!
YouTube: https://bit.ly/4qLhgJY
Spotify: https://bit.ly/47Jrz8K
Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/43VoVeN
Connect with Dr. Darnyelle Harmon
Website: https://bit.ly/4hKsuKs
YouTube: https://bit.ly/4hIkAkR
Instagram: https://bit.ly/4nGqCUC
TikTok: https://bit.ly/43hqOCq
Facebook: https://bit.ly/47twwUc
X.com: https://bit.ly/4nDZq8U
LinkedIn: https://bit.ly/4nHyzsH
📕Meg Tuohey is a renown expert in relationships, leadership and personal growth. Learn more about her mission and how she is changing lives here: https://bit.ly/3NtUF24
🎓Shatter emotional barriers and reclaim your power with The Wisdom Lab, designed for women seeking profound breakthroughs in personal growth and emotional healing.: https://bit.ly/4eI8S7N
📰 For more information on Wisdom Stripes with Meg Tuohey visit: https://bit.ly/3U9V5OZ
📺Watch the "Wisdom Stripes" podcast every Thursday at 5AM EST on YouTube: https://bit.ly/3BO3Mbk
📱Connect with Meg Tuohey
Instagram: https://bit.ly/4f6B0AW
Facebook: https://bit.ly/3BILKXU
TikTok: https://bit.ly/4f7M8he
LinkedIn: https://bit.ly/4hbXJOb
🎙️Download “Wisdom Stripes” podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3Yp2vjP
🎙️Download “Wisdom Stripes” podcast on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/4f8xTsj
⏰Timestamps
00:00 Intro of Show
01:49 Wisdom from Dr. Darnyelle Harmon
07:06 The Hardest Brick to Build
12:49 Worthiness, Lovability, and Belongingness
14:15 What is the Point?
17:13 The Power of Decision
21:38 “Yeah, but…”
27:56 Being the Change-Maker in the Family
31:42 The Greatest Gift (And How It Has Served You?)
36:11 There is No Wrong Turn
37:23 The Realness of Being in a Human Body
41:43 Tuning Into Your Past
47:13 Community of Superheroes
55:24 Last Piece of Wisdom from Dr. Harmon
🚨DISCLAIMER: The Wisdom Stripes podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. The host Meg Tuohey shares personal stories, experiences, and knowledge aimed at helping listeners gain new insights for personal growth. However, the content is not a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Listeners should not use the information as a replacement for consultations with qualified mental health, medical, or other professionals. If you are seeking professional help, please consult with a licensed specialist.
Wisdom Stripes with Meg Tuohey: Transforming Relationships, Empowering Leadership
Hosted by relationship expert and coach Meg Tuohey, Wisdom Stripes is where transformative insights meet actionable wisdom. Meg has dedicated her career to helping women reignite their relationships, build stronger families, and step boldly into leadership roles in their lives. By translating complex emotions and experiences into a clear, teachable framework, she empowers others with practical tools to navigate life’s most challenging moments.
Each episode of Wisdom Stripes features unfiltered conversations with some of the world’s most insightful thought leaders, experts, and seekers. Together, they dive into the unique “stripes” of wisdom—those defining moments that shape us. From navigating personal and professional challenges to uncovering deep emotional truths, these interviews are packed with tangible takeaways, real-life stories, and actionable steps you can immediately apply to your own journey.
Meg’s approach draws out the most profound lessons by asking her guests key questions like:
What pivotal moments caused the most confusion and pain in your life?
What lessons have you gained through those experiences that you wouldn’t have learned otherwise?
What do you want others to understand to help them avoid the ‘long way round’?
Listeners will explore different categories of wisdom—whether experiential, intellectual, emotional, practical, or spiritual—delving into the stories that shape personal growth and transformation. Meg wraps each conversation into a practical framework, teaching the key lessons learned and how to apply them to everyday life.
Tune in every Thursday to discover how these wisdom stripes weave together to form the rich tapestry of life. Whether you’re seeking inspiration, a new perspective, or powerful strategies for personal growth, Wisdom Stripes is your go-to source for heartfelt, impactful insights.