The demands of puppy ownership are weighing on Jordana and Dr. Naomi offers her some “advice” on ways to not only work with the new dog but to work on her feelings around it all. But the work this week begins when one listener opens up about a recent breakup she endured via text after a seemingly good few months together. Our Overshare this week comes from a Betch who is anticipating the loss of her job after a very eerie letter was delivered to her at work and Jordana and Dr. Naomi offer up empathy and tactile tools for getting through the anxiety of it all. The Betchicist of the week presents the question if “is it okay to tell someone that you won't refer them for a job?” after a listener is approached by a former employee they know won't be the right fit for a role at their new company. And the episode closes out with some Triggered submissions from two listeners who feel like their family members could have chosen different words for their comments.
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1:11:28
Did I Ruin My Relationship? I Read My Partner’s Journal
Jordana and Dr. Naomi discuss parenting styles when it comes to a child’s extracurricular activities and reflect on their own experiences from growing up. Things get juicy when the Overshare reveals that a listener has invaded her partner’s privacy by reading his journal and now she needs help deciding how to feel and what to do next. Should she tell him? Should she let it be? The hosts discuss and Dr. Naomi brings her couples therapy experience to the situation. The Betchicst this week poses the question of whether or not “outsourcing” help with parenting means you are not maternal enough and explores the many styles in which we can choose to raise our kids (should we choose to have them). Dr. Naomi helps a listener set an intention around her dating anxieties and helps remind us all that self love and direct communication can be the keys to finding inner relationship peace. The Episode closes out with the Triggered segment with a gossiping therapist and a listener who needs some perspective on how to manage her long distance friendship better.
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1:13:40
Am I Outgrowing My Friend Group?
In this episode, Jordana and Dr. Naomi Bernstein reflect on their recent Passover experiences and delve into the controversial topic of the telepathy tapes after many listeners wrote in with comments. The Overshare this week brings up the challenges of maintaining friendships as adults, particularly when it comes to feeling disconnected with them as we age. They explore the dynamics of friend groups from the perspective of then and now and discuss ways in which we can push to get what we want out of those relationships that seem the most tedious. This week’s Betchisit continues the friendship theme when one listener asks how to address the elephant…erm… baby in the room that is causing distress in her circle of close pals. But anxieties with our friends aren’t the only thing keeping us up at night so Dr. Naomi helps set an intention for a woman who sends in a voicemail about her guilt around buying things she doesn’t need. Closing out the episode the hosts review some Triggered submissions around cancelled international weddings and the management of guests when you have a newborn baby.
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1:12:32
Is My Sister-In-Law Jealous of Me?
Tick Tick Tick…Bug! Jordana starts this week's conversation off in search of an intention that can help her cope with her anxiety after finding a tick on her dog, gasp! They talk about how practical tools, some good old research, and boundaries; both physical and metaphorical, can also help quell the fears of the uncontrollable. In their newest segment, CRAFT MY TEXT, Dr. Naomi and Jordana review submissions from listeners to help them re-draft their messages and discuss the reason behind their proposed edits. Tackling issues like breast feeding in public and vaccine requirements from expecting mothers for friends and family, our two hosts find a throughline of how being vulnerable about one's feelings can help facilitate more clear communication amongst friends and family. They also dive into the question of when it is your job to get involved with someone else’s affair and how to approach the topic. Lastly, listeners write in their triggering moments like how a therapist has lied about her cat ownership and how a friend reopened a healing relationship scab.
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1:03:41
How Do Small Moments Define Our Days?
L’Chaim! In this episode Jordan and Dr. Naomi Bernstein reflect on a recent Bat Mitzvah celebration for Dr. Naomi’s daughter while discussing the joys and challenges of hosting, especially family. They reflect on the need for more mindfulness in all our days and leave us with some practical tools to remain more present in our daily lives. The conversation explores the need for open communication and accountability in all types of relationships after one Betch shares how her partner dropped the ball on an important anniversary and another shares a wedding snafu that has been gnawing at her since the day. Dr. Naomi provides listeners with an intention for helping set the tone for the moment. Finally, in their “Sweet Release” segment sponsored by Angry Orchard, they discuss the existential conundrum of who has priority on the bathroom line and an annoying friendship moment.
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Oversharing from Betches Media is all about the challenges we face in all kinds of relationships; from friendships to family, long term partnerships or even dealing with the customer service rep that makes you want to scream into a pillow. Betches co-founder and relationship enthusiast Jordana Abraham has teamed up with her big sister, licensed clinical therapist Dr. Naomi Bernstein, to answer your questions and try to get to the bottom of the things that bother us most. Think of Jordana and Dr. Naomi as your BFF and your therapist, sitting side-by-side at the brunch table trying to help you get through your problems. Each week they’re responding to listener emails, tackling difficult ethical questions, playing games, and so much more. Because sometimes we really need advice from people with no skin in the game. And let’s face it, your friends can’t stand to hear that story one more time.
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