The Thais Gibson Podcast

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Free Black Friday Trial: 14 Days of All-Access to personal growth & relationship courses! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/black-friday?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=black-friday&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-11-12-24&el=podcast Become a certified relationship coach to secure your financial future with our IAT™ Program. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/iat?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=iat-live&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-11-12-24&el=podcast When a partner starts focusing on flaws and pulling away, it can feel confusing and hurtful. In this episode, Thais Gibson explores how a securely attached person would handle an avoidant partner’s flaw-finding behavior. Learn the key steps—like not personalizing criticism, addressing the pattern directly, and maintaining healthy boundaries—that foster open communication and prevent misunderstandings. Thais also shares strategies to build secure attachment and resilience in relationships. Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ #TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Free Black Friday Trial: 14 Days of All-Access to personal growth & relationship courses! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/black-friday?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=black-friday&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-11-12-24&el=podcast Become a certified relationship coach to secure your financial future with our IAT™ Program. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/iat?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=iat-live&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-11-12-24&el=podcast Are you feeling the ups and downs of a relationship that seems like an emotional rollercoaster? In this episode, Thais Gibson, founder of the Personal Development School, dives into the root of this instability by exploring the fearful avoidant attachment style and its common triggers. Learn how unresolved core wounds, like fear of betrayal or rejection, resurface in relationships, creating intense, often overwhelming emotions. Thais shares actionable steps for rewiring these subconscious patterns to foster secure, healthy attachments. Tune in to discover transformative exercises that help you break free from the cycle of fear and instability, leading to more fulfilling relationships and inner peace. Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ #TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover the keys to overcoming pain, apply post-traumatic growth principles, and reprogram your subconscious with the "How to Heal From a Breakup" course. Free Black Friday Trial: 14 Days of All-Access to personal growth & relationship courses! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/black-friday?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=black-friday&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=yt-11-11-24&el=podcast Become a certified relationship coach to secure your financial future with our IAT™ Program. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/iat?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=iat-live&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=yt-11-11-24&el=podcast In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, we dive into the complex dynamics of ghosting, focusing on the behavior patterns of dismissive avoidant and fearful avoidant attachment styles. Join Thais and her co-host, Mike, as they unpack why dismissive avoidants often ghost during dating and relationships, shedding light on common misconceptions and the deeper fears that drive this behavior. They discuss the role of online dating culture in normalizing ghosting and how attachment wounds play a part in avoiding confrontation or difficult conversations. The episode explores ghosting across different relationship stages, from early dating to long-term commitments, and the unique reasons why avoidant types may disengage without explanation. Thais shares personal stories and offers compassionate advice on how to handle being ghosted, focusing on self-worth and emotional healing. Listeners will learn actionable steps to heal from the pain of ghosting, including how to reframe the experience, understand the attachment patterns at play, and build resilience. This episode is a must-listen for anyone who has faced ghosting or wants to deepen their understanding of attachment theory in modern relationships. Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Intro 00:00:30 - Welcome & Introduction of Guest and Topic 00:01:18 - Overview of Avoidant Attachment Styles and Ghosting 00:02:50 - Online Dating Culture and Ghosting 00:05:18 - The Stages of Relationships and Ghosting at Each Stage 00:10:08 - Communication Challenges: Why People Ghost 00:13:09 - Handling the Emotional Impact of Being Ghosted 00:18:02 - Personal Story: The Experience of Being Ghosted 00:24:45 - Ghosting in Long-Term Relationships and the Consequences 00:28:46 - 14-Day Free Trial Mention for Healing Resources 00:30:18 - Ghosting by Fearful Avoidants: Personal Experiences 00:39:05 - Healing Strategies for the Anxious Attachment Style 00:44:08 - Balancing Reciprocity in Relationships 00:54:44 - Understanding Self-Worth in the Context of Ghosting 00:55:00 - Outro & Final Thoughts Get Your Question Answered by Thais and Mike: https://www.reddit.com/r/CanThisBeFixed/ Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ Find Mike Online: https://www.instagram.com/dareal_mikedee #TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices