Small Habits, Big Change with Eric Zimmer author of "How A Little Becomes A Lot"
2026-04-05 | 1h 5 mins.
We set big goals, inevitably fail, then conclude something's wrong with us, which makes change even harder next time. Eric Zimmer, author of "How A Little Becomes A Lot," and host of "The One You Feed" Podcast, breaks down why all or nothing thinking keeps us stuck and how small manageable actions build belief in ourselves. Self-doubt isn't the problem; it's baked into growth. We don't need to eliminate it, just turn it down enough to start making and keeping promises to ourselves, becoming the author of our own life.
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PART 2: The Sneaky Bastard of Perfectionism: 9 Phrases You Think Are Helping (They're Not) PART 2
2026-03-30 | 27 mins.
Your healthiest-sounding self-talk might actually be perfectionism in disguise. HSPs tell themselves "I'm working on myself" or "I don't want to make excuses" thinking it's wisdom, but the critical voice underneath can end up kicking your peace down the road. I translate what these phrases actually mean in your psychology and show you how to practice good enough maturity instead of chasing an impossible standard.
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- Work with Me 1:1: https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/coaching
- 30 Days to Peace Course: https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/peace CODE: BADASS for 30% Off
- The Book by Book Club: https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/bookclub
- Intro To Boundaries https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/intro
- The Yearly Boundaries Intensive https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/Boundaries
- Mapping your Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse Workshop https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/workshops CODE: BADASS for 30% Off - Get the Patternscapes Wellness Deck https://www.getpatternscapes.com
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The Sneaky Bastard of Perfectionism: 9 Phrases You Think Are Helping (They're Not) PART 1
2026-03-29 | 28 mins.
We're examining nine healthy-sounding phrases that are actually perfectionism in disguise. Many of these phrases get praised socially, but they bypass self-compassion while appearing to be self-respo. We can't strive for perfectionism constantly without it backfiring. Learning a "good enough" maturity is what we're after here, not unattainable perfection.
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- 30 Days to Peace Course: https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/peace CODE: BADASS for 30% Off
- The Book by Book Club: https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/bookclub
- Intro To Boundaries https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/intro
- The Yearly Boundaries Intensive https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/Boundaries
- Mapping your Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse Workshop https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/workshops CODE: BADASS for 30% Off - Get the Patternscapes Wellness Deck https://www.getpatternscapes.com
- Join the Patreon Community: https://www.patreon.com/emotionalbadass
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Protecting Your Peace & Focus With Books - HSP Gentle Living
2026-03-22 | 25 mins.
Protecting Your Peace & Focus With Books . Gentle Living for HSPs. Books helped me survive my chaotic childhood. They let me disappear when everything was overwhelming - no performing, no people-pleasing. Just time with characters who couldn't judge or hurt me. College killed my reading joy for years. Now I'm reclaiming it. For HSPs, reading is nervous system regulation, focus training, and refuge from scrolling culture. Maybe it's time to crack open that book you've been avoiding.
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30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE
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INTRO TO BOUNDARIES
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BOOK CLUB
NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP
THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE
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THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK
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PART 2: Learning Assertive Communication Styles That Work For HSPs
2026-03-15 | 34 mins.
Part two of the assertiveness series for my Highly Sensitive Tribe. We break down passive, aggressive, passive-aggressive, and assertive communication through one workplace scenario with Julie and her micromanaging boss Molly. Same situation, four completely different outcomes depending on how Julie handles it. Assertiveness isn't just nicer communication - it gathers the real data you need to figure out if this job can actually meet your needs or if it's time to move on.
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WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1
30 DAYS TO PEACE COURSE
PATREON COMMUNITY
INTRO TO BOUNDARIES
THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE
BOOK CLUB
NARCISSIST ABUSE RECOVERY WORKSHOP
THE FREE MORNING ROUTINE
WEEKLY NEWSLETTER SIGNUP
THE PATTERNSCAPES WELLNESS DECK
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Hosted by psychotherapist Nikki Eisenhauer, M.Ed. LPC, LCDC. This show provides essential emotional education on Mental Health, HSP (Highly Sensitive People), Narcissists & Manipulative personalities, healing from Trauma and PTSD, calming your nervous system, inner child work, and setting healthy boundaries. Emotional Badasses are survivors, thrivers, seekers, and healers! Expand and awaken to your higher purpose, be more present and authentic, find strength in spirituality, quiet the monkey mind of modern society with meditation, and connect deeply with yourself and safe others. We let go of what doesn't serve us to heal old wounds, find our voice guilt-free, and learn to be the hero in our own story. Embrace guerrilla self care, and laugh with lightness on the self development path. Nikki Eisenhauer is an International Life Coach, Licensed Professional Counselor, Yoga and Meditation Teacher. This show is designed to mindfully be the emotional education so many of us crave; Emotional Badass is where we learn to love ourselves without apology. Emotional Badass is where Moxie Meets Mindful.
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