Bonus Episode: From Disorganized Attachment to Secure Love: Carlina’s Powerful Healing Journey (Real Client Transformation)
Today’s episode is such a special one. I’m sitting down with one of our incredible ESL graduates, Carlina, whose story of healing, sobriety, self-discovery, and stepping into secure, emotionally available love will move you to your core. If you’ve ever struggled with repeating relationship patterns, feeling “too much,” navigating disorganized attachment, or doubting whether secure love is possible for you… this conversation will give you so much hope. Carlina gets incredibly vulnerable about breaking cycles, building belief in herself, healing family relationships, and attracting a securely attached partner who meets her with patience, consistency, and kindness. You won’t want to miss this one.Inside the episode, we cover:How disorganized attachment, numbing, and girl-bossing into avoidance kept Carlina stuck in the same cycles and the moment she decided she couldn’t do it anymore.The exact beliefs she rewired inside the program (including “I’m too much” and “I’ll always be left behind”) and how that opened the door to healthy, secure partnership.What it feels like to date someone emotionally available, patient, consistent—and how secure love allowed her to soften, receive, and be her authentic self.If Carlina’s journey spoke to you and you’re feeling that pull… this is your sign. The Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program is closing applications THIS YEAR, and once doors close, they are closed. If you’re ready to stop repeating patterns, heal at the root, and finally step into the love and life you deserve, now is the time to apply.👉 Apply now using the link in the show notes spots are filling and this is your last chance before doors close.You are so worthy of secure love.You are so worthy of healing.And your future self will thank you for taking this step. 💛🔗 Additional Episode Links:Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz → https://drmorgancoaching.com/quizFollow me on IG → @drmorgancoachingGrab my book: Grab my best selling book Love Magnet
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EP 602: Attachment Styles Are Shifting in 2025: What the Latest Research Really Means for Your Healing
Oh my gosh… this episode is SUCH an important one. I’m breaking down the brand-new research on attachment trends for 2025, and I’m giving you a full masterclass on the four attachment styles: anxious, avoidant, disorganized (fearful avoidant), and secure.Whether you’re brand new here or you’ve been with me since the early days, this is a must-listen episode for anyone who cares about their emotional health, their relationships, and their growth in 2025 and beyond.Inside the Episode:Why our hyper-digital, overstimulated, exhausted world is fueling a major spike in avoidant attachment.The three non-negotiables you must understand if you want to change your attachment style—plus the four intentional steps to actually rewire your brain for secure love.A deep dive into the “functional avoidant”—how to spot it, how it develops, and how to heal if this is your pattern.If you’re tired of repeating the same relational cycles… if you’re done feeling disconnected or shut down… if you’re ready to move out of insecurity (or being a functional avoidant) and into true emotional availability and safety—this episode is your blueprint.And here’s the truth I need you to hear:Your past does not determine your future relationships. You get to choose secure love.If you know you need a clear, proven framework to help you make that shift, the Empowered. Secure. Loved. Program is where that transformation happens. We have very limited spots left and applications are closing soon. If this is on your heart… trust that.👉 Apply to Empowered.Secure.Loved™ now — applications close soon!🔗 Additional Episode Links:Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz → https://drmorgancoaching.com/quizFollow me on IG → @drmorgancoachingGrab my book: Grab my best selling book Love Magnet
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EP 601: Feeling Stuck? Your Essential Guide to “Should I Stay or Should I Go?”
If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in that uncomfortable “in-between” space, wondering whether to stay or walk away from your relationship, this episode is for you. I’m giving you the clearest framework I’ve ever taught to help you regulate your emotions, reconnect with your self-trust, and make decisions from a grounded place instead of fear or overwhelm. This is your roadmap back to clarity, healing, and aligned action.Inside the Episode:Am I Regulated or Dysregulated?– Check your emotional state before deciding.Am I Growing or Shrinking?– Ask if this relationship helps you grow or makes you smaller. Compatibility or Trauma Familiarity?– Learn if your connection is true alignment or old patterns repeating.This is your reminder: even if you’re unsure about your relationship, your healing is the thing that changes everything. Whether you stay or go, the version of you who got stuck here isn’t the version who will lead you into secure, healthy love. You deserve clarity. You deserve peace. You deserve a relationship that feels like a refuge not a rollercoaster.The Empowered.Secure.Loved program is where deep healing and transformation happen, and applications are closing for the rest of the year. We have just a few spots left.You are worthy of secure, aligned, deeply fulfilling love and healing is how you get there. 👉 Apply to Empowered.Secure.Loved™ now — applications close soon!🔗 Additional Episode Links:Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz → https://drmorgancoaching.com/quizFollow me on IG → @drmorgancoachingGrab my book: Grab my best selling book Love Magnet
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EP 600: How to Open Your Heart Again with Morgan Huelsman: Healing, Secure Love & Becoming the Version of You Who Attracts Healthy Relationships
In today’s episode, I sat down with my dear friend Morgan Huelsman, you know her on instagram asWeb Girl Morgan, for an honest, vulnerable conversation about healing after toxic relationships, rebuilding self-trust, and opening yourself up to emotionally available, secure love. We dive into what it really takes to become ready for the kind of relationship that meets you with empathy, consistency, and effort and the beautiful (and sometimes uncomfortable) adjustments that come with receiving a healthy partner after years of unhealthy dynamics.Inside the Episode, We Cover:Why “not meeting your person yet” is rarely about luck or timing and how inner readiness and emotional availability set the stage for secure love.What dating someone emotionally available actually feels like, including learning how to receive support, communicate needs, and soften into safety.How to thrive in your single season by building a life you genuinely love now instead of waiting for a relationship to “finally feel happy.”If this conversation sparks something in you, if you’re thinking, I want this kind of love, but I don’t know how to get there, I want you to know it’s absolutely possible for you. This is exactly the work we do inside Empowered.Secure.Loved.✨ Applications for the ESL Program are closing for the year. If your heart is nudging you, trust yourself and apply now. Don’t wait. Your secure, healthy relationship is too important to put off.You deserve high self-worth and great relationships and you don’t have to figure it out alone.👉 Apply to Empowered.Secure.Loved™ now — applications close soon!🔗 Additional Episode Links:Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz → https://drmorgancoaching.com/quizFollow me on IG → @drmorgancoachingGrab my book: Grab my best selling book Love Magnet
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EP 599: The Truth About Disorganized Attachment (And How to Finally Heal for Good)
You absolutely can heal from disorganized attachment and I’m living proof of it. For over a decade, I was stuck in chaos, emotional highs and lows, and constant self-doubt. My relationships were a reflection of the deep wounds I hadn’t yet faced. In this episode, I’m opening up about my own journey with disorganized attachment, the rock-bottom moments, the painful patterns, and the neuroscience-backed healing process that helped me finally become secure and build the peaceful, healthy love I once thought was impossible.Inside the Episode:How disorganized attachment forms and the unpredictable caregiving patterns that create it.Why you keep attracting chaos in love (and how to stop recreating your childhood pain in adult relationships).The exact process I used to rewire my attachment style and finally experience secure, emotionally regulated love.Healing disorganized attachment is so possible but it starts with saying yes to yourself. Inside the Empowered.Secure.Loved Program, I walk you through my proven neuroscience-based framework that has helped over 1,000 women become securely attached and attract the kind of love they once thought didn’t exist.✨ Applications are closing soon for this year. Don’t wait! This is your moment to heal, to rewire, and to step into the peaceful love you deserve.👉 Apply to Empowered.Secure.Loved™ now — applications close soon!🔗 Additional Episode Links:Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz → https://drmorgancoaching.com/quizFollow me on IG → @drmorgancoachingGrab my book: Grab my best selling book Love Magnet
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