Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice

For years I bought into a script I didn't even write, play hard to get, shrink yourself, don't be "too much," wait for love to just happen to you. I lived by these rules and they kept me stuck on repeat, dating the wrong people and wondering why nothing changed. In this episode, part three of my 37 Unfiltered birthday series, I'm getting brutally honest about the 10 (plus a bonus) lies dating culture sold me, and exactly what I had to unlearn to finally build the secure, easy relationship I have today.
Inside the Episode:
The lie about playing it cool that actually trains you to attract emotionally unavailable people, and what securely attached dating looks like instead
Why "you just haven't met the right person yet" is one of the most dangerous things dating culture ever told you (and what it's really protecting you from facing)
The dream partner list I made in my 20s, why it made me feel icky, and the new list I want you to build instead

I'm unpacking all 10 lies, the ones about your body, your success, your emotions, your timeline, plus a bonus one that might sting a little. This episode is your permission slip to stop performing for love and start becoming the kind of secure that attracts it.
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Continuing the birthday series, I'm getting real unfiltered about the seven relationship non-negotiables I didn't even know to ask for at 30 and now, five+ years into my relationship, I will not budge on. Some of these took me years of healing (and a lot of self-abandoning relationships) to even recognize as options. If you've never had someone model healthy conflict, financial transparency, or an apology that didn't feel like pulling teeth, this episode is going to give you language for things you've felt but couldn't name. This might be the one you send to every woman in your group chat.
Inside the Episode:
Interdependence over codependence (or hyper-independence). I break down the real definitions not "I don't need anyone" and not "I dissolve into you" but two whole people choosing to rely on each other while keeping their own identity intact.
Conflict that builds the relationship instead of eroding it and accountability without extraction. Healthy conflict isn't the absence of fights, it's learning to protect the secure attachment bank account even in disagreement. And I talk about the difference between an apology you have to drag out of someone and one that's freely given.
Total ownership of your own well-being, full transparency about money, a shared vision for the future, and emotional processing as a couple. The non-negotiables that took me the longest to learn including why I still keep my own bank account even with full financial transparency in my marriage.

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It's my birthday, y'all and I'm turning 37 with 10 confessions.
To kick off my new series, 37 Unfiltered, I'm sharing the 10 things I stopped doing that changed my life — from alcohol to people-pleasing to paying for people's love. This is the real stuff. Not the highlight reel — the years of small decisions that actually moved me toward secure attachment.
Inside the Episode:
Why I stopped numbing with alcohol and what it forced me to finally feel
How I caught (and started breaking) my fawn response, and what "preferences vs. needs" actually means for healing
Why I closed down my group coaching program to get back to alignment over growth in business and in relationships

This one is vulnerable. I talk about faith, grief, and the lowest point of my life and how I found my way back to secure attachment, not just in theory, but in my marriage, my friendships, and my relationship with myself.
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Girl, we've made it to part four of The Disorganized Diaries, and this is the episode I've been waiting to give you. We've talked about what disorganized attachment is, where it comes from, and how ADHD and neurodivergence can pour gasoline on the fire. Today we're finally talking about the way out. And I need you to hear this: knowing something logically does not turn off the internal alarm system your nervous system built to protect you. Only embodied safety does that. So let's talk about how you actually get there.
Inside the episode:
The four-part framework for building secure attachment, starting with gaining awareness of your past relational trauma and creating a crystal-clear, empowering vision for who you're becoming (not the "safe" vision you think you're supposed to want).
Why you can't outbehave a belief, we go deep into rewiring your subconscious belief system and doing the repetition compulsion work most people avoid (and the work that changes everything when you finally do it all the way).
The secure relationship skills that actually get tested in real life, pacing, emotional investment, navigating conflict, and learning to self-soothe so you can pause between being activated and taking action, instead of blowing up or shutting down.

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You're not "too much" and you're not broken — your nervous system just learned to survive in chaos, and now it's time to teach it something new.
Y'all, this one is personal. Disorganized attachment (aka fearful avoidant) is the attachment style I lived in for a huge chunk of my life before I did the work to become securely attached and it's also the one that gets talked about the least. In this episode of the Disorganized Diaries, I'm breaking down why this attachment style has such a high overlap with ADHD, anxiety, and depression, why it so often gets misdiagnosed, and exactly what it takes to move from that pull-you-in-push-you-away pattern into real, embodied security. If you've ever felt like your emotions are a tsunami one minute and you're completely shut down the next, this episode is for you.
Inside the Episode:
Why disorganized attachment develops from inconsistent or unpredictable caregiving, and how it shows up as "clingy one moment, cold the next" in your adult relationships
The surprising overlap between disorganized attachment, ADHD, and anxiety, and why so many women get misdiagnosed before they ever hear the word "attachment"
The real growth areas that move you toward secure attachment: emotional regulation, releasing fear of abandonment, and building trust in yourself first

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