The Feminine Rebellion: Pleasure, Power + Unapologetic Living for Midlife Women

The cultural story about midlife women and sexuality is one of loss. Declining hormones, declining libido, declining desirability. Carly Mountain, somatic therapist with twenty years of experience working with women’s bodies, voices, and desires, is telling a completely different story.

In this episode, we go deep into what a tamed woman actually looks like in the everyday details of her life. We talk about the Inanna myth and the heroine’s descent into the underworld, what “untaming” really means beyond the idea of wild rebellion, the concept of penetrative energy in women and why reclaiming it matters, and what actually becomes available erotically in your 40s and 50s that was simply not there before.

Carly has spent two decades sitting with women in their descents and witnessing their risings. When a woman reclaims her erotic aliveness, her voice changes. Her relationship with her own body changes. Her female friendships deepen. Her creativity returns.

What you’ll hear in this episode:
🔥 What a tamed woman actually looks like in the everyday details of her life🔥 The Inanna myth and how it maps the heroine’s journey through descent and rising🔥 What “untaming” really means, beyond wild rebellion
🔥 Why penetrative energy belongs to all of us and what it feels like to reclaim it🔥 The erotic upsurge women are reporting in their 40s and 50s, and why midlife might be the first time you truly meet your erotic self🔥 Why you cannot untame at the pace you are currently moving

About Carly Mountain:
Carly Mountain is a somatic therapist and author whose work goes straight to what women have been trained to forget: that the erotic is sacred, that rebellion is natural, and that untaming is not a one-time act but a way of life. Over twenty years in private practice, she has sat with women in the depths of their descents and witnessed the extraordinary things that become possible on the other side. Her first book, Descent and Rise, mapped the heroine’s journey through the ancient Inanna myth. Her new book, Untamed Pleasure: Unleash Your True Erotic Nature (launching June 2026), goes deeper into penetrative energy, erotic aliveness, and the specific gifts midlife brings to a woman’s sexuality. This summer she is running the Untamed Pleasure Sanctuary, a course starting July 7th with four guest teachers including Sherry Winston.

Links mentioned:
•  Pre-order Untamed Pleasure: Unleash Your True Erotic Nature → [Grab A Copy]
•  The Untamed Pleasure Sanctuary Course → [Visit Carly’s Website]
•  Find Carly on Instagram → [@carly_mountain]

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Most women hit midlife with decades of diagnoses, symptoms they can't explain, and a libido that seems to have packed up and left — and nobody ever taught them how their own bodies actually work. In this episode, Natty sits down with midwife Morgan Miller and sex therapist Laura Federico, co-authors of The Cycle Book, to talk about cycle literacy, hormones, perimenopause, desire, and what it really means to reclaim your body when the medical system has kept you in the dark.
 
What You'll Hear in This Episode
🔥 Why ovulation changes everything — not just for fertility, but for your cognition, mood, sexuality, and sense of self
🔥 What perimenopause actually looks like (brain fog and anxiety in your late 30s can be early signs — years before anything irregular)
🔥 The real reason libido drops in midlife — and why it's almost never "just hormones"
🔥 Why your cycle tracking app is only 21% accurate and what to use instead
🔥 The question Laura asks every client whose libido has gone quiet — and how the answer changes everything
 
Guest Bios
Morgan Miller is a certified nurse-midwife with a deep clinical specialty in hormones, cycle health, and women's bodies across every phase of life — not just fertility. She is the co-author of The Cycle Book, a practical guide to understanding your hormonal landscape that includes a year's worth of tracking charts designed for real women who want real answers.
 
Laura Federico, LCSW, is a sex therapist whose practice centres on desire, libido, relationships, and the ways hormonal shifts — including PMDD and perimenopause — intersect with a woman's sense of self. She is the co-author of The Cycle Book and has spent years bridging the gap between the clinical world and women who are trying to understand what's happening inside their own bodies.
 
Links Mentioned
 ✨ The Cycle Book by Morgan Miller and Laura Federico — [Grab Your Copy]
 ✨ Follow Morgan and Laura on Instagram — [@itslauraandmorgan]

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If you have ever been told your pain is in your head — that you are being dramatic, anxious, or just aging naturally — this episode is for you. Writer, activist, and host of The Pain Gap podcast Anushay Hossain joins The Feminine Rebellion to talk about why women, especially midlife women and women over 40, are being systematically dismissed, disbelieved, and in too many cases dying — because the medical system was never built to believe us.

What you’ll hear in this episode:
🔥 What the pain gap actually is — and the documented, devastating gap between how doctors treat women’s pain versus men’s🔥 Anushay’s near-death birth experience at a top Washington DC hospital — and why she kept it to herself for years🔥 The legacy of hysteria and how it still lives in every medical dismissal of women in their 40s and 50s🔥 Why Black women with college degrees are dying in childbirth at higher rates than white women without one🔥 What women in midlife can actually do — with their anger, their money, and their community — right now

About Anushay Hossain:
Anushay Hossain is a Bangladeshi-American writer, feminist activist, and host of The Pain Gap podcast — currently ranked in the top 10% of podcasts worldwide. She grew up in Bangladesh watching women die from preventable causes, came to America expecting the best healthcare in the world, and nearly died giving birth in Washington DC while actively lobbying for global women’s health legislation. That experience cracked open her book, The Pain Gap, which exposes the documented, systemic gap in how the medical system diagnoses, treats, and believes women.

Links mentioned:
⁠The Pain Gap podcast ⁠— available everywhere you stream podcasts

⁠Anushay’s Point ⁠ — Substack about women’s health, power, and the politics of who gets believed.

Buy her book ⁠“The Pain Gap”⁠ —  Explore real women’s tales of healthcare trauma and medical misogyny.

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What happens when a midlife woman stops editing herself?
Molly Roden Winter — author of the New York Times bestselling memoir More: A Memoir of Open Marriage — joins The Feminine Rebellion to talk about the hunger that lives underneath a picture-perfect life. This episode is for every woman over 40 who has ever whispered “is this all there is?” and immediately felt guilty for wanting more.

What you’ll hear in this episode:
Why the suffocation so many women in midlife feel is not a character flaw — it’s a symptom of a life built for everyone else

What Molly’s open marriage taught her about desire, jealousy, and the one rule that has kept her and Stuart together for 26 years

Why “I’ve never seen pretty growth” — and what that means for any woman trying to change her life without burning it down

The unexpected insight inside Molly’s story for women who have zero interest in non-monogamy

What it means to be an embodied, sovereign woman in your 50s — and why no 30-year-old has what you’ve got

About Molly Roden Winter:
Molly Roden Winter is the author of the New York Times bestselling memoir More: A Memoir of Open Marriage, the story of a Brooklyn mom who decided she was done disappearing. A former English teacher and mother of two, Molly writes and speaks about desire, authenticity, and what it looks like to become the main character of your own life. She lives in Brooklyn with her husband Stuart — and has been in an open marriage for 18 years.

Links mentioned:
More: A Memoir of Open Marriage by Molly Roden Winter — [Get your copy here!]

Listen on Spotify audiobook (no nightstand required!) — [Listen Here]

Follow Molly on Instagram — [@mollyrwinter]

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I found her on Instagram, scrolling at night like we all do. She opened her pantry and started pulling out mason jars of black lentils and seeds and I thought: I want my kitchen to look like that. I want to know what’s actually nourishing me. I want to stop guessing.

So I had her on the podcast. And the conversation went places I did not expect.

Dr. Erika Siegel is a functional medicine physician, acupuncturist, and author of The Nourish Me Kitchen. She blends 20 years of Western science with Eastern wisdom to help midlife women stop outsourcing their health to the latest trend, supplement stack, or 5 a.m. protocol they found on the internet. Her philosophy is one I’m fully here for: you deserve to create a life you don’t need to detox from.

This episode gets into everything. The nervous system science behind why high-performing women in their 40s and 50s are walking around chronically braced. Why pleasure is not a reward you earn after the work is done but a gateway to your wholeness. What’s actually happening to your hormones, your libido, and your body in midlife, and what integrity medicine looks like when a doctor treats you as a partner, not a problem to solve.

I also got really personal. For the first time on this show, I talked about sex that hurt at 50, what that meant for me, and what Dr. Siegel said every woman needs to know about it.

In this episode, we go deep on:
🔥 Why midlife women have been outsourcing their health to experts, protocols, and trends instead of trusting their body’s innate wisdom, and how to come back to yourself
🔥 The nervous system science behind chronic fight-or-flight: what’s happening physiologically when high-performing women over 40 live braced for decades
🔥 Why pleasure is not what you get when all the work is done. It’s the fuel. It’s the gateway to wholeness. And it changes your cortisol, your sleep, and your hormones
🔥 "You deserve to create a life you don’t need to detox from": what that actually means for women in their 40s and 50s who are drowning in wellness noise
🔥 Libido in midlife: what’s actually happening to your body, why sex might suddenly hurt, and the one thing Dr. Siegel recommends to almost every woman she sees
🔥Integrity medicine: what it looks like when a doctor asks "what do you love to do?" on page one of your intake form and orients your entire treatment around that answer
🔥Spring herbs for your liver, your mood, and your energy: lemon balm, milk thistle, nettles, and the simplest morning ritual that changes everything
🔥 "Figure out the next right step": why the low-hanging fruit approach to health works better than any 90-day overhaul

Links mentioned:
⭐ The Nourish Me Kitchen by Dr. Erika Siegel → [Grab the books]
⭐ Follow Dr. Erika Siegel → [@dreriksiegel]
⭐ Dr. Siegel’s October Retreat in the Pacific Northwest → [www.nourishme.com]
⭐ Join The Feminine Rebellion Community → [thefemininerebellion.com/community]

If this episode made you put your phone down and take a breath, send it to the midlife woman in your life who’s been Huberman-ing her way through every morning and still feels like shit. She doesn’t need another protocol. She needs this conversation.

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