133. Stealing Their Self-Esteem To Build Your Own | What Do You Want To Change?
The transition for 3-4 kids was hands down the hardest for me. I realized it was hardest because I had failed to equip my kids with the self-esteem to be independent and responsible in the ways I really needed them to show up while I recovered postpartum. May is our Declutter Your Heart and Home 28 Day challenge in the MOMSET Membership. This is a fantastic time to create a home that serves you and your family so everyone can build their self-esteem and thrive harmoniously. Join here today! Then I realized that I was stealing their self-esteem to build my own. I did just about everything for them everyday and I LOVED doing it. I felt GREAT, but at what cost? How did they get to feel when I took the opportunities from them?I'm sharing the practical changes I have made to build my own self-esteem AND provided endless opportunities for my kids to build their own, too.
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132. Declutter Your Home and Heart with Julia Ubbenga
Did you know the AVERAGE home has over 300,000 items in it!? Moms have way too much STUFF to manage. Today we have Julia Ubbenga, author of "Declutter Your Heart and Your Home" as well as minimalist living coach, here to encourage us ALL to start making changes. If you're feeling overwhelmed in your home and like you spend your day managing "stuff" and find it impossible to keep up- you'll love this episode. After Julia was diagnosed with PPD and had recently left her job to become a SAHM... she knew she needed to make a change, too. Julis is partnering with the MOMSET Membership to bring a whole home decluttering challenge to us through May. We will have an daily realistic declutter task and will be reading her new book together! This challenge will focus on decluttering your mind, heart and home as Julia and I team up together! All MOMSET Members get to join!Connect with Julia Ubbenga
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131. Ask Questions: Part Two Parenting Tools
Listen to episode 130 for Part One "Be Quiet" before you jump into asking great questions! "To answer before listening—that is folly and shame." Proverbs 18:13Get better at seeing the real problem because behavior is a symptom of a problem. When you’re quiet and ask a few good questions, you can let the problem reveal itself to you. This episode gets into WHY we are asking questions, WHAT the benefit is and HOW to do it- the words to avoid and use! Buckle up buttercup and let's dig in! :) Click here to get personal coaching from me and my team inside of our fantastic membership full of moms ready for skills, tools, healing and ownership.
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130. The First Tool To Strengthen Your Parenting and Mindset: BE QUIET
Podcast Episode 130: Be Quiet - A Mindset Tool to Improve CommunicationJoin my coaching membership for personalized coaching through your circumstances. You CAN have a positive mindset during this time and it IS the way through whatever it is you're going through. Let us help! ✨In this episode of Be Quiet, I’m teaching you a mindset tool that’s too easy not to implement, and I encourage you to use it in your marriage too! This tool—simply being quiet—can quickly reshape your mindset and communication skills, especially when dealing with challenging situations.I’ll break down why, when, and how to “be quiet” and show you how Scripture supports this approach. We’ll dive into the power of pausing, listening, and thinking before responding. Plus, I’ll answer questions from listeners about how to effectively use this tool with kids and loved ones, address emotional triggers, and handle situations where silence feels uncomfortable.If you’ve ever found yourself reacting before thinking or struggling with emotional responses, this episode is for you. Join me as I teach you how being quiet can help you build emotional maturity, strengthen your communication, and model healthy behaviors for your family.Stay tuned for next week’s episode, where we’ll talk about asking effective questions after being quiet.For more support, check out the MOMSET membership !
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129. When What You Have is Different Than What You Want
Do you ever think that things are just going different than what you would choose for yourself?! Of course you do because we are humans living a big LIFE. This episode is expanding your mentality to be able to have a greater capacity to accept what you are given, even when it is different than what you want or would choose for yourself. This is YOUR life. YOU get to decide what you think about it. Is it happening for you, to you or just happening and has nothing to do with you? Let's get your mindset serving you. I'll coach you in my membership. You can see my free content here.
Welcome to the Momset Podcast where you can learn how to Raise Your Words and become the mommy you want to be in todays motherhood. We love to talk all things mindset and share good stories that apply the tools and skills being discussed on the show.
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