Curiosity Chronicle

I'm often asked for advice from people just starting out in life.
When I respond, I imagine I'm speaking to my 22-year-old self. Young. Energetic. Highly ambitious. But with little direction. Feeling lost.
There are a handful of things I find myself consistently repeating in these responses, so I thought it would be worthwhile to collect them into a single piece.
But to be clear, in writing (and re-reading it), it's obvious to me that this advice applies to all of us. At any age. On any life path.
So, strap in and buckle up.
Here's my brutally honest advice to my 22-year-old self...
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In an apocryphal story, legendary painter Pablo Picasso was walking through the market when a woman approached him and asked for a drawing.
Picasso quickly drew a small, but beautiful piece of art and handed it back to her.
"That'll be one million dollars," he smiled.
"But Mr. Picasso, it only took you thirty seconds!"
"On the contrary," he replied. "It took me thirty years to draw that masterpiece in thirty seconds."
This story is a perfect example of a modern crisis I'm starting to see in the AI era.
It's called the Locksmith Paradox: We have a tendency to undervalue something because of the low visible input required to create it, despite the output being exactly what we requested.
In this piece, I talk about the science behind this phenomenon, why it penalizes efficiency and rewards general incompetence, and how to fight back as individuals, leaders, and organizations...
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A six week stretch of travel had already reduced my output. Then, I got caught in an earthquake in Panama. And finally, upon returning home on little sleep, I was laid out by a bug my son brought home from school.
This weekend, as I started to think about the week ahead, I noticed a familiar, building sensation. A clenching tension in my jaw and neck. A heavy drop in my shoulders. An elevated heart rate.
It got me thinking about how to find your way out of the land of overwhelm when the pile of work and life debt feels too heavy to even start on.
The body and the mind are intimately connected. Every random object is effectively an open loop. I build momentum on the small and then leverage that momentum to knock out the big.
In this piece, I talk about my five-step Overwhelm Protocol: move the body, clean your room, make a Weekly Win Card, create a snowball, and knock down a wall...
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Last Wednesday, I flew to Panama to deliver two keynotes. I was excited for the trip. I’d been once before as a kid and remembered the beautiful country.

I completed the first talk on Thursday evening and the second on Friday morning. I left feeling energized and headed back to the hotel to take a few calls before heading to the airport.
At 12:56pm local time, I was on the top floor of my hotel when I started to feel a light rumbling sensation in my chair.

But then, chaos. The floor started to shake. The entire building started to sway. Things started falling off the counters and onto the floor.

I would shortly find out that a 7.7 magnitude earthquake was underway. Over the next 30 hours as I tried to find my way home, there were 161 aftershocks, including several 6.0+ magnitude tremors.

In this piece, I share my stream-of-consciousness perspectives from going through a massive earthquake.
How everything got smaller. How I was reminded that shared struggle builds bonds. Why awareness is so very perishable.
And why bad luck may not be so bad...

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Confession: I’ve never been someone who was a natural in social settings.
As something of an introvert, I struggled to build new adult relationships. I often felt others weren’t responding to my social signals. In most cases, I just assumed they didn’t like me and moved on.
But it turns out I was actually falling victim to a damning collision of two psychological phenomena:
Signal Amplification Bias: Our fear of rejection in social situations tempers our ability to convey social signals, and blinds our ability to recognize that tempering effect.
The Liking Gap: We assume others like us less than they actually do.
In effect, you send less than you think, and you hear less than they send.
Two people who like each other leave an interaction convinced the other one doesn’t.
In this piece, I share a simple solution that has completely transformed my experience with adult friendships:
Like people out loud...
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