Healthy Aligned Action Takers

You know what to do. You've read the books, saved the reels, made the plan. So why are you still standing in the same spot?
In this episode of Healthy Aligned Action Takers, Dr LJ, Doctor of Educational and Child Psychology, unpacks the gap between where you are and where you want to be, and why it has far less to do with willpower than you've been told.
Psychologists call it the intention-behaviour gap, and the research is humbling. A meta-analysis of experimental studies found that even a medium-to-large shift in someone's intentions produces only a small-to-medium change in what they actually do (Webb & Sheeran, 2006). Good intentions, it turns out, are mostly a down payment.
The good news? The gap is predictable, which means it's workable. We explore:
Why your brain treats "knowing" as if it were "doing"
The simple if-then planning technique shown to significantly boost follow-through (Gollwitzer & Sheeran, 2006)
Why new habits take longer than 21 days, and why missing a day doesn't wreck your progress (Lally et al., 2010)
How identity, not motivation, drives lasting action (Oyserman, 2009)
Real psychology, a decent amount of humour, and the action you actually need to take. Let's go.
References
Gollwitzer, P. M., & Sheeran, P. (2006). Implementation intentions and goal achievement: A meta-analysis of effects and processes. Advances in Experimental Social Psychology, 38, 69–119.
Lally, P., van Jaarsveld, C. H. M., Potts, H. W. W., & Wardle, J. (2010). How are habits formed: Modelling habit formation in the real world. European Journal of Social Psychology, 40(6), 998–1009.
Oyserman, D. (2009). Identity-based motivation: Implications for action-readiness, procedural-readiness, and consumer behavior. Journal of Consumer Psychology, 19(3), 250–260.
Pfeffer, J., & Sutton, R. I. (2000). The Knowing-Doing Gap: How Smart Companies Turn Knowledge into Action.Harvard Business School Press.
Sheeran, P., & Webb, T. L. (2016). The intention-behavior gap. Social and Personality Psychology Compass, 10(9), 503–518.
Webb, T. L., & Sheeran, P. (2006). Does changing behavioral intentions engender behavior change? A meta-analysis of the experimental evidence. Psychological Bulletin, 132(2), 249–268.
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