Why Smart People Still Lose Deals — And How to Stop It
Most deals don’t fail on price — they fail on people.
In this episode, Kwame sits down with Michiel Koopman, former Dutch soldier and current Head of Trading at Google, to break down why deals collapse even when everything looks good on paper. You’ll learn how ego, weak relationships, and a lack of empathy quietly sabotage negotiations — and what to do instead.
Packed with real stories and powerful insights, this conversation will make you rethink how you approach every deal.
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How to Control Your Hormones Before You Ruin the Negotiation — with David JP Phillips
Your hormones might be sabotaging your negotiations.
In this episode, global speaking icon David JP Phillips reveals how to hack your internal chemistry—on demand—to show up with confidence, presence, and power when it matters most. Drawing from his best-selling book High on Life, David breaks down the six key neurochemicals that control your behavior (dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin, endorphin, testosterone, and cortisol), and shows you how to intentionally trigger the right “emotional cocktail” before a high-stakes conversation.
You’ll learn how to:
• Boost testosterone without acting aggressive
• Use oxytocin to build trust—without going soft
• Prime your brain for creativity, calm, and clarity
• Change your state and even influence theirs
If you've ever felt anxious, frozen, or off your game in tough conversations, this episode is your playbook for taking back control—physiologically and psychologically.
Stick around for the end—we even talk about how to prep the other person’s mindset without them noticing.
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What Losing Everything Taught Me About Negotiation - L. Scott Ferguson
In this raw and revealing episode, Scott shares how his early abandonment shaped the way he saw himself — and others — and how it nearly destroyed everything he built. From his time in the military to leading a multimillion-dollar company, Scott opens up about the real cost of ego-driven success.
🔥 You’ll learn:
— Why confidence without humility can backfire
— The moment Scott realized he needed to change — and how he did it
— How physical presence and emotional awareness impact negotiations
— What real redemption looks like when you’ve hurt others
This isn’t just a story of loss — it’s a masterclass in personal transformation, emotional intelligence, and how the most powerful negotiations are often the ones we have with ourselves.
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You’re Not Missing Skills — You’re Missing Status. Here’s How to Get It, with Alison Fragale
You might be doing everything right — and still not getting the respect you deserve.
In this episode, Kwame sits down with psychologist, professor, and author Alison Fragale to expose one of the most overlooked forces in negotiation and career advancement: status. Not money. Not power. Not charisma. But how others perceive your value — and how you can influence that perception.
You’ll learn:
What “status” really is (and why it’s more powerful than any tactic)
Why competence isn’t enough if people don’t respect you
How to increase your status before the negotiation even starts
The two traits people use to judge you instantly — and how to show both
How to build a network that promotes you when you’re not in the room
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Feel Guilty Saying No? The Science Behind Why — And How to Break Free - with Psychologist Guy Winch, TED Speaker & Author
Do you feel selfish, anxious, or even guilty just for saying “no”? You’re not alone — and it’s not your fault.
In this eye-opening conversation, Kwame sits down with psychologist, author, and TED speaker Guy Winch to unpack the deep psychological roots behind our fear of rejection, the guilt of boundary-setting, and the hidden emotional costs of people-pleasing.
You’ll learn:
Why rejection hurts like physical pain (yes, literally)
How to reframe fear and rewrite the labels you give yourself
The secret to setting boundaries without ruining relationships
Why most people fail at boundaries — and how to do it right
The one question that will completely change how you approach tough conversations
This episode is a must-listen for anyone who struggles with speaking up, saying no, or putting themselves first without shame.
Plus, Guy gives a sneak peek into his upcoming book Mind Over Grind — and why burnout at work is hitting harder than ever.
The Ultimate Guide to Mastering Negotiation and Communication
#1 Negotiation Podcast Worldwide
With over 10 million downloads and hundreds of 5-star reviews, Negotiate Anything is the world’s leading podcast on negotiation, reaching a global audience in more than 180 countries.
Why Listen?
Negotiation isn’t just about closing deals—it’s about building better relationships and solving problems. Whether you’re in business, navigating personal relationships, or tackling everyday challenges, negotiation is a key skill that can set you apart. Negotiate Anything dives deep into the art and science of negotiation, providing actionable insights to enhance your negotiation prowess in any situation.
What You’ll Learn:
• Expert Strategies: Hosted by Kwame Christian, Esq., M.A., a renowned lawyer, bestselling author, and CEO of the American Negotiation Institute, each episode features top negotiation and communication experts from around the globe.
• Practical Techniques: Master the balance of assertiveness and empathy, learn how to set boundaries, manage emotions, and build trust in both personal and professional interactions.
• Real-World Applications: From business negotiations to personal discussions, discover how exceptional negotiation skills can elevate your career and life.
About the Host: Kwame Christian, Esq., M.A.
Kwame Christian is a top global negotiation expert, celebrated for his viral TEDx Talk, “Finding Confidence in Conflict,” and as a bestselling author of two significant books:
• How to Have Difficult Conversations About Race (2022)
• Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life (2020)
With a background in law, psychology, and public policy from The Ohio State University, Kwame brings a wealth of knowledge to every episode. He’s also a LinkedIn instructor with over 600,000 learners, making complex negotiation concepts accessible to everyone.
Why This Podcast?
At the American Negotiation Institute, we believe that the best things in life are on the other side of difficult conversations. Our mission is to empower you to negotiate anything, anywhere. Whether you’re a seasoned negotiator or just starting, our podcast equips you with the tools and confidence to navigate any conversation.
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