Habits and Hustle

Modern relationship advice is everywhere, and most of it is making your relationships harder, not better. These are the buzzwords that we see spread all over the internet like the misused attachment labels, the "be more vulnerable" coaching, the body count debate, and the love bombing warnings. Sadia has spent years working with couples one-on-one, and almost none of it holds up in real practice. Sadia Khan is a psychotherapist and the author of The Red Flags:The Truth About Love, Trauma, and the Lies Your Therapist Didn't Warn You About, a book built around the 10 questions every therapist should be asking their clients and every partner should be asking each other. She has worked with hundreds of men and women to fix what conventional therapy keeps missing, and her approach has built her one of the largest relationship audiences online.

In this episode of Habits and Hustle, Sadia breaks down why your therapist's advice may be quietly hurting your relationship, the real reason high body count damages men more than women, why people pleasers suffer more in relationships than narcissists do, and the four green flags that actually predict whether a couple makes it.

This is one of those conversations that will make you rethink every "diagnosis" you have ever given an ex or a friend who’s “avoidant”.

What's Discussed:

(5:36) Why love languages and attachment theory keep failing real couples.

(6:51) The therapy advice that is quietly making men less attractive to their partners.

(8:38) Why people pleasers suffer more in relationships than narcissists do.

(12:43) How honesty, not niceness, is what builds real intimacy.

(21:14) The narcissist label and what insisting on it actually says about you.

(31:16) The four green flags every healthy relationship is built on.

(1:21:14) Why high body count damages men more than women.

(1:45:50) The pattern most men fall into when they cannot be alone.

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Find more from Jen Cohen: 

Website: jennifercohen.com

Instagram: @therealjencohen

Books: jennifercohen.com/books

Speaking: jennifercohen.com/speaking-engagements

Find more from Sadia Khan: 

Website: sadiapsychology.com 

Instagram: @thesadiapsychology 

YouTube: @sadiapsychology 

TikTok: @sadiapsychology 

The Red Flags Book: permutedpress.com/book/the-red-flags

The most powerful longevity tool you have is not in a bottle or a needle. It’s in the quality of your relationships. There’s a body of data that’s been saying this for decades. Yet, the wellness industry kept focusing on the other direction of wellness.

Shawn knows this not only because he read it in a study but because he lived the opposite of what healthy relationships look like first and paid for it with his health.

Shawn Stevenson is the host of The Model Health Show, the no.1 nutrition and fitness podcast in the United States, and the bestselling author of Sleep Smarter and Eat Smarter. He grew up in poverty in St. Louis, was told at 20 he had the spine of an 80-year-old, and rebuilt his health from scratch with no money, no access, and no roadmap for any of it.

In this episode of Habits and Hustle, Shawn makes the case that we have been optimizing the wrong thing all along. Your culture, your community, and the quality of your relationships are what the largest longevity studies keep pointing to, and almost nobody in wellness is talking about it. He also gets into why GLP-1s and peptides are a shortcut to the wrong destination, what circadian medicine is about to change, and why the healthiest thing you can do today has nothing to do with your supplement stack. If you have ever felt like your circumstances were too far gone for health to even be possible, this episode was made for you.

What's Discussed:

04:12 The hidden impact of sleep on metabolism and energy

09:35 Common habits that undermine long-term health

15:48 Practical strategies to improve recovery and resilience

20:55 Final thoughts on building sustainable daily habits

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Find more from Jen Cohen: 

Website: jennifercohen.com

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Books: jennifercohen.com/books

Speaking: jennifercohen.com/speaking-engagements

Find more from Shawn Stevenson: 

Website: themodelhealthshow.com  

Instagram: @shawnmodel 

YouTube: Shawn Stevenson 

X: @ShawnModel 

Podcast: The Model Health Show

Book: eatsmartercookbook.com

Your subconscious mind is running 95% of your decisions. Your conscious mind, the part that’s setting goals, making resolutions, and telling itself to do better, is only working with the remaining 5%. That gap is why knowing what you should do is never enough.

Thais Gibson has spent over a decade building a framework that actually closes that gap. She is a counselor, founder of the Gibson Integrated Attachment Theory™, and has worked with over 60,000 people through The Personal Development School. In this episode of Habits and Hustle, she breaks down why self-sabotage is not what we all think it is, how your attachment style is quietly running your relationships, and the exact process to rewire patterns you have been carrying since childhood.

This is one of those conversations that will make you look at your own behavior completely differently.

What's Discussed:


(00:05) The real reason your conscious goals keep losing to your subconscious programming.


(15:30) What your attachment style is actually telling you about your childhood.


(29:00) The attachment combination most likely to end in a vicious cycle.


(45:00) Why dating a secure person does not fix an insecure attachment.


(58:00) That one belief that’s quietly destroying your ability to connect.


(1:05:00) What limerence is and why people mistake it for love.


(1:15:00) The five pillars to rewire your attachment style at a subconscious level.


(1:20:00) Why affirmations do not work and what to do instead.

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Find more from Jen Cohen: 

Website: jennifercohen.com

Instagram: @therealjencohen

Books: jennifercohen.com/books

Speaking: jennifercohen.com/speaking-engagements

Find more from Thais Gibson: 

Instagram: @thepersonaldevelopmentschool

YouTube: @thepersonaldevelopmentschool

Podcast: The Thais Gibson Podcast

Facebook: The Personal Development School

TikTok: @thaisgibson  

Book: The New Attachment Theory

Attachment Style Quiz: attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/

The habits that actually optimize your health are not the hard ones. They are the small, low-effort ones you can do without rearranging your whole life.

We get sold protocols and programs and things that can feel too complicated or demand time you do not have, so the simple hacks get passed over because it feels too obvious to matter.

But the simplest and obvious healthy habits are obvious because they work. When you stack a few of them together, they compound into something that changes your life in the long run.

In this episode of Habits and Hustle, I walk through the easy, low-effort habits I do every day that have optimized my life tenfold, even on the busiest days, from how I start my morning to how I trick myself into staying hydrated.

Let's dive in!

What's Discussed:

(1:56) Why start every morning with 32 ounces of lemon water and how that can set up your whole day.

(3:33) Why three short walks beat one long walk for your body.

(5:19) Why working out first thing makes me sharper and more productive all day.

(5:48) The impact of hot and cold therapy and how to do it without a sauna or cold plunge.

(7:06) Why weight training is non-negotiable, especially after 40.

(8:04) Why having healthy food on hand saves you from your own worst decisions.

(8:42) The healthy habit nobody calls a habit: laughing every day.

(9:51) The elastic band trick that forces you to actually drink enough water.

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When you want to understand someone's success, you look at what they built. The company, the exit, the valuation. But James Beshara says you are looking at the wrong thing. You are studying the fruit when the real story is in the roots.

James has built three separate companies to nine-figure valuations before 40, ranks as the top #2 angel investor on AngelList, and has made over 100 startup bets. He is also the founder of Magic Mind and after 14 years of investing and 18 years of building companies, he has learned that the founders who get funded are not the ones with the best pitch deck.

In this episode of Habits and Hustle, James shares why he backs the founder and not the business, what he looks for in the first 7 minutes of meeting someone, and why a product that is merely liked will always lose to one that is loved. He also breaks down the science behind Magic Mind, why your coffee habit may be working against you, and the morning philosophy practice that shapes how he makes every decision. If you have ever wondered what investors are really evaluating when they decide to bet on you, this conversation gives you the answer, and it starts with looking at the roots.

What's Discussed:

(02:53) The roots versus fruits reframe and why copying success usually backfires.

(10:14) The 7-minute window that tells James whether he wants to work with a founder.

(16:41) Why investors back the founder, not the business, and the 40% likability edge.

(25:33) Magic Mind: Why caffeine shuts off your fatigue signal instead of giving you energy.

(45:30) The Bezos rule: innovators must be willing to be misunderstood.

(1:07:51) What selling a company for less than he raised actually taught him.

(1:17:59) Why a product that people buy when it is “ugly” is the only kind worth scaling.

(1:28:55) Why running toward failure is how you avoid the failure that ends you.

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Find more from Jen Cohen: 

Website: jennifercohen.com

Instagram: @therealjencohen

Books: jennifercohen.com/books

Speaking: jennifercohen.com/speaking-engagements

Find more from James Beshara:

Website: jjbeshara.com  

Instagram: @jamesjbeshara

Linkedin: James Beshara

X: @jamesbeshara 

Find more from James’s Yoga For Your Intellect Podcast: 

Website: yfyi.co Instagram: @yogaforyourintellect 

YouTube: Yoga For Your Intellect Podcast 

Spotify: YFYI - Yoga For Your Intellect  

Find more from Magic Mind:

Website: magicmind.com YouTube: Magic Mind 

Instagram: @magicmind

Podcast: Magic Minds

Find more from APT AI Career Test:

Website: tryapt.ai  

Instagram: @apt_ai

Find more from James’s Passions: 

Open State Music: @openstate_   

Daily Vedantic: @the_daily_vedantic