Honoring Koby Falks: A Legacy of Authenticity, Pleasure & Pride | Sexuality
In this special Friday bonus episode of Please Me, Eve honors the life, courage, and authenticity of Koby Falks — an incredible creator, advocate, and member of the LGBTQ+ community. Koby’s bold presence, from his OnlyFans success to his unapologetic journey of self-love, left an undeniable mark on the world.
Eve reflects on the powerful conversations shared with Koby on the show, his unique role within the queer community, and the courage it took for him to live his truth. Though gone too soon, Koby’s legacy of embracing authenticity, sexual honesty, and community continues to inspire.
This episode is also a heartfelt reminder of the importance of mental health awareness, especially within the LGBTQ+ community, and a call to reach out to loved ones, check in, and offer support.
What You’ll Hear: Koby Falks' inspiring journey to living authentically The courage to come out later in life and break stereotypes Mental health struggles in the LGBTQ+ community How to support your queer friends and chosen family Suicide prevention resources and why they matter Eve’s personal tribute and reflections on Koby's impact
Resources Mentioned:
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (US): Dial 988
The Trevor Project: www.thetrevorproject.org
Trans Lifeline: 877-565-8860
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Koby Falks' Previous Episode Links:part onehttps://open.spotify.com/episode/3MyipeXUyYTOrgpPmcr7W2?si=fNvoZmB4Sa-x4NtF5BvFrApart twohttps://open.spotify.com/episode/4qJTc1s4cNtjGbAjpyjYF1?si=qy-s0m55SSqwpCYhhQlN-A
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Fantasy, Fetishes & Feeling Seen: What Porn Teaches Us About Desire | Sexuality
What if your porn preferences could teach you more about your deepest desires? In this episode, I welcome back Kels and Tess, the brilliant and bold duo behind Porn Nerds and Get Squirmy, for a juicy, candid continuation of our conversation around porn, pleasure, and those 'squirmy' moments that make us human.
We dive headfirst into the complexities of fantasy, the power of fetishes, and how exploring our curiosities — even the ones we might never act on — can help us better understand ourselves and our relationships.
Here’s what we get into: How porn can be a healthy tool for exploring curiosity and desire The difference between fantasy and real-life sexual experiences What your porn preferences might reveal about your needs in bed Tips for turning vulnerable sex talks into empowering connections Breaking down the shame and stigma around watching and talking about porn How to use fantasy as a bridge to better communication and deeper intimacy
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Where to Find Kels & Tess:Website: https://getsquirmy.comInstagram: @squirm
Plus, we share laughs, real talk, and actionable advice on navigating the sometimes awkward, often empowering conversations that can bring partners closer — including how to handle dirty talk in a new relationship (throuple vibes included ).
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LGBTQ+ Pride: Honoring Our Marginalized Trans & Non-Binary Family in a Shifting World | Sexuality
Together, let’s be voices for the silenced, lights for the hidden, and strength for the vulnerable—because Pride is about more than celebration. It’s about presence, protection, and power.
In this episode, we cover: Eve’s own journey of sexual identity and becoming part of the LGBTQ+ community Honoring trans and non-binary resilience in the face of harmful policies The role of allies, veterans, and newcomers in building an empowered LGBTQ+ community Why coming out is a personal choice—and how self-love evolves over time Resources and organizations fighting for trans rights and healthcare access A tribute to the powerful LGBTQ+ voices who’ve shared their stories on Please Me
Resources Mentioned: * Trans Lifeline – Peer support hotline & microgrant nonprofit run by and for trans people: https://www.translifeline.org/ reddit.comthetrevorproject.org+15translifeline.org+15translifeline.org+15
Point of Pride – Please confirm the exact organization name or provide context; there are several groups with this title (e.g., a community center in . . .). Let me know and I can track down the correct link.
The Trevor Project – Crisis intervention & suicide prevention for LGBTQ+ youth: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/ reddit.com+7thetrevorproject.org+7en.wikipedia.org+7
Planned Parenthood – Reproductive health care provider: https://www.plannedparenthood.org/ plannedparenthood.org+2plannedparenthood.org+2plannedparenthood.org+2
GLMA: Health Professionals Advancing LGBTQ+ Equality – The world’s largest association of LGBTQ+ health professionals: https://www.glma.org/
LGBTQ+ Guest Episodes:
Koby Falks
https://open.spotify.com/episode/3MyipeXUyYTOrgpPmcr7W2?si=fNvoZmB4Sa-x4NtF5BvFrA
Koby Falks
https://open.spotify.com/episode/4qJTc1s4cNtjGbAjpyjYF1?si=qy-s0m55SSqwpCYhhQlN-A
Danielle Bezalel
https://open.spotify.com/episode/2lBm010QBTjJ44YRCwKEGM?si=LPG_d3s6Rw2nw-RAeDv6-A
Amethysta Herrick
https://open.spotify.com/episode/2vX9iDspDsfYwhTAGj57zR?si=zGa5QJgUSUKY33kOR-4RuA
Dr Zaayin Salaam
https://open.spotify.com/episode/3Dliz2UIyh1NpDtIwkeKNE?si=G0CDJx-iTWef7H9O9YhJww
Jake Didinsky
https://open.spotify.com/episode/0EayYGLTE5hi52lFDUvPOt?si=hApq2pDpQT2Px9ihAdT4Iw
Karen Anne Coccioli
https://open.spotify.com/episode/61BEMgXNP9vy5yw5TEZPAl?si=g34LQNsYT8-ekqmQ0rBv1w
Demi Wylde
https://open.spotify.com/episode/0cuag6sZsec7rq7t38iQZe?si=PvqlN7HQQjetdLXjoM9q5Q
Sara Webb
https://open.spotify.com/episode/6CCwHm2fcGoAfHdd2VLGO5?si=YCu5ErykQBSin93DZmzpAw
Edward Muskie
https://open.spotify.com/episode/49fGjPhav6bQXD74vwTqtO?si=mTIZPx9dT-KQL7W0IjbfbA
Edwin Olivieri
https://open.spotify.com/episode/5zDrS9EA6DeJGF06v7sX5n?si=zFT0ZBiqR6KbfV_kLzSY7w
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Porn Nerds Break It Down: Fantasy vs. Reality in Adult Entertainment | Sexuality
In this candid and thought-provoking episode of Please Me, Eve sits down with Kels and Tess—creators of the Porn Nerds podcast miniseries and founders of Squirm—for a deeply honest conversation about porn, pleasure, and the role of communication in sexual education. Together, they dismantle the myth that porn is an accurate or sufficient source for sex ed and offer practical ways adults can build sexual confidence, curiosity, and connection outside the tube sites.
From navigating shame and stigma to setting boundaries in relationships (and throuples!), this episode explores how porn can be used as a tool for inspiration—but not a manual for real-life intimacy.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
Why porn is not a substitute for sexual education—and what is
How to communicate turn-ons and boundaries without awkwardness
The role of fantasy in enhancing solo and partnered sex
Why watching porn together can actually deepen connection
Ways to use desire as a conversation starter, not a point of conflict
How Kels & Tess built Squirm to destigmatize conversations around sex
Mentioned in This Episode:
Kolby's Episode
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Website: PleaseMe.Online
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Where to Find Kels & Tess:Website: https://getsquirmy.comInstagram: @squirm
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Your Body, Your Choice: Exploring Pregnancy Options Without Judgment | Sex Education
In this powerful bonus episode of Please Me, Eve returns with Part 2 of the abortion conversation—diving deeper into the legal, emotional, and practical realities of pregnancy options in today’s post-Roe world. Whether you’re navigating an unplanned pregnancy or simply want to be more informed, this is a judgment-free, fact-forward conversation every woman deserves to hear.
Eve breaks down the abortion laws by state, discusses gestational limits, and highlights the different access levels across the U.S. She also explores all your options—including abortion, adoption, and parenting—with honesty and empowerment at the center. Plus, she tackles five major abortion myths that need to be debunked.
If you’ve ever felt unsure, unsupported, or uninformed about your reproductive rights, this episode is for you.
Key Takeaway:
No matter your situation, you deserve to know all your options without pressure, judgment, or shame. This episode is a reminder that bodily autonomy is a right—and knowledge is power.
Resources Mentioned:
AbortionFunds.org – National Network of Abortion Funds
Plan C Pills – Info on self-managed abortion options
INEEDA.org – Resource directory
Repro Legal Defense Fund
Search your state + “abortion fund” to find local support
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Abortion Part 1 Episode Link
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