Early Puberty: Causes, Endocrine Disruptors, and What’s Actually True
Do you know what a bone age is? If you’ve ever found yourself spiraling over early puberty headlines or wondering if plastic cups and lavender lotion are harming your child’s hormones this episode is for you.
I’m joined by Dr. Sarah Hart Unger, a pediatric endocrinologist, mom of three, and co-host of the Best of Both Worlds and Best Laid Plans podcasts. Together, we cut through the confusion and misinformation around early puberty, endocrine disruptors, and what’s actually backed by science.
We dive into:
What early puberty actually looks like including what’s normal vs. concerning, the difference between true puberty and adrenal changes, and when to seek evaluation.
Real vs. rumored causes like the roles of body fat, genetics, and endocrine disruptors like BPA and lavender without spiraling into fear or guilt.
When medical treatment is needed, when reassurance is enough, and why chasing puberty “delays” can sometimes do more harm than good.
To connect with Sarah Hart-Unger check out all her resources at https://linktr.ee/the_shubox
And enjoy our previous episode: https://pedsdoctalk.com/podcast/i-wish-my-kid-was-a-little-bit-taller-height-and-kids/
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00:00 – Intro: Why earlier puberty headlines are everywhere
01:45 – Meet Dr. Sarah Hart-Unger: Pediatric endocrinologist and mom
04:30 – What is actually considered early puberty?
06:10 – The rise in early puberty: Is it real or just more noticed?
08:00 – Are endocrine disruptors to blame?
10:45 – The role of stress, trauma, and environment
13:10 – What “normal” puberty looks like across ages and genders
15:40 – Should you be worried about lavender lotion and plastic cups?
18:30 – What parents Google vs. what pediatricians actually test for
21:00 – What’s a bone age scan, and when is it helpful?
23:00 – When to worry: True red flags for early puberty
25:40 – The problem with over-testing and over-fearing
28:10 – Why Dr. Hart-Unger prioritizes calm, not panic
30:00 – Navigating puberty in boys vs. girls
32:45 – Language for talking about puberty without shame
35:00 – Helping your child feel confident in a changing body
37:10 – Final thoughts and what Dr. Hart-Unger wants parents to remember
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The Follow-Up: Kindergarten Readiness Is Not What You Think
If the phrase “kindergarten readiness” sends you into a spiral of flashcards and phonics drills, this one’s for you.
In this follow-up episode, I chat with Susie Allison (@busytoddler), former kindergarten teacher and mom of three, to reframe how we think about school prep. Spoiler: it’s not about who can write their name in cursive or recite the alphabet backwards.
We talk about:
Why academic checklists miss the bigger picture
The real skills that help kids thrive in school (like asking for help and taking turns)
Why earlier isn’t always better when it comes to reading
How to raise kind, confident kids without burning yourself out trying to be their full-time teacher
Whether your child is starting kindergarten soon or you’re just feeling the pressure to “keep up,” this episode is your permission slip to focus on what actually matters.
🎧 Download, follow, and share this episode with a friend who needs the reminder.
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The Problem Isn’t Just BMI: How Weight Bias Is Harming Kids in the Exam Room
If you’ve ever felt confused, judged, or overwhelmed by how weight is discussed at your child’s doctor’s visits? Whether your child is in a larger body, a smaller body, or somewhere in between this episode is for anyone who wants to raise healthy kids without harmful messaging.
I’m joined by Dr. Tommy Martin, a physician, educator, and passionate advocate for reframing weight and health conversations with compassion and clarity. Together, we explore why BMI was never meant to guide pediatric care, how weight bias shows up in medical settings, and what parents can do to protect their child’s body confidence without ignoring health.
We dive into:
Why BMI was never meant for individual kids and how outdated growth charts still shape care today
The lasting harm of weight bias in healthcare, from missed diagnoses to internalized shame as early as age 3
How to reframe conversations around health without numbers or labels and practical ways to advocate for your child
To connect with Dr. Tommy Martin follow him on Instagram @dr.tommymartin, check out all his resources at https://link.me/dr.tommymartin
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00:00 – Intro: Why weight conversations in pediatrics matter
02:10 – Meet Dr. Tommy Martin and his backstory
04:50 – Growing up in a larger body and the roots of weight stigma
06:45 – Subtle messages kids absorb at the doctor’s office
09:00 – Hurtful comments from family, peers, and culture
13:45 – Dr. Mona’s story: Smaller body, different pressure
15:30 – The impossible standards of body image
17:00 – Why pediatricians weigh kids and how Dr. Mona reframes it
18:30 – Dr. Tommy’s patient-first approach to weight discussions
21:45 – What BMI gets wrong (and how it still shows up)
25:20 – The harm of casual body comments
27:00 – Genetics, hormones, and the science of food noise
30:00 – The stigma and science behind GLP-1 medications
33:00 – How Dr. Mona talks to families about elevated labs without shame
40:00 – Why she never sets weight goals for kids
43:00 – Helping kids fuel for function, not aesthetics
46:00 – Modeling healthy habits in everyday life
48:00 – Weight bias in healthcare and missed diagnoses
50:00 – Long-term harm of labels like “obese” or “underweight”
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The Follow-Up: My Birth Story Changed Everything
Five and a half years ago, I became a mother.
But the day my son was born wasn’t the best day of my life... it was the worst.
In this deeply personal Follow-Up episode, I revisit the story that changed everything for me: my traumatic birth experience with my son Ryaan, the complications that followed, and how it impacted me as a mother, a pediatrician, and a human.
Whether your birth went sideways slowly or spiraled in an instant—this episode is for you.
I share:
The moment I knew something was wrong
What I experienced during 13 painful days in the hospital
How trauma shaped my identity, my anxiety, and my approach to parenting
The invisible grief many parents carry
Why birth trauma deserves to be seen, supported, and spoken about
If you’ve ever felt like your story didn’t “count” because you survived… this one is for you.
💛 You are not alone. Your story matters. And healing is possible.
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Don’t Scroll, Stay Safe: Summer Water Safety Tips Every Parent Needs
If you’ve ever assumed that being near your child at the pool meant they were safe, this episode might just change the way you see water forever.
I’m joined by Lindsay Mondick, Director of Aquatic Safety for the YMCA of the USA and a lifelong advocate for drowning prevention. We talk about what drowning really looks like (spoiler: it’s not like the movies), why so many tragic incidents happen with adults present, and how something as simple as putting your phone down can be the difference between life and death.
She joins me to discuss: • Why drowning is quick, silent, and often missed even with supervision nearby • The “Phones Down, Eyes Up” campaign and what every caregiver needs to know • How to build layers of water safety from swim lessons to life jackets to water watchers
Whether you’re a pool regular, weekend beachgoer, or backyard splash pad fan—this conversation is a must-listen for every parent this summer.
To connect with the YMCA follow them on Instagram @ymca; TikTok @ymcaofficiall; Facebook @TheY and YouTube @ymca. Learn more at Phonesdowneyesup.org
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00:00 – 01:18 Why This Conversation Matters
01:19 – 02:37 Meet Lindsay: A Lifelong Water Safety Advocate
02:38 – 04:35 The Pandemic’s Impact on Drowning Risk
04:36 – 06:14 Why Proximity Isn’t Enough
06:15 – 08:32 Active Supervision: What It Looks Like
08:33 – 10:16 Are Lifeguards Enough?
10:17 – 12:14 Strong Swimmers Still Need Supervision
12:15 – 13:41 The Hidden Dangers of Lakes and Open Water
13:42 – 15:53 What Drowning Really Looks Like
15:54 – 19:55 The Power of Prevention and Real-Life Stories
19:56 – 22:31 Swim Lessons: How Early Is Too Early?
22:32 – 27:14 Teaching Adults to Swim (And Why It Matters)
27:15 – 30:07 Bridging the Gap in Underserved Communities
30:08 – 32:04 One Simple Habit That Can Save a Life
32:05 – 36:15 Minimizing Distraction Without Guilt
36:16 – 39:10 Final Thoughts + Taking Action
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About The PedsDocTalk Podcast: Child Health, Development & Parenting—From a Pediatrician Mom
The PedsDocTalk Podcast is your go-to parenting resource, hosted by Dr. Mona Amin, a trusted pediatrician, parenting expert, and mom of two. As a top 50 Parenting Podcast in the U.S., this show delivers expert-backed guidance on child development, health, illness, behavior, feeding, and sleep—giving parents the confidence to navigate every stage from baby to teen.
Each episode dives into real-life parenting challenges, featuring conversations with specialists in pediatrics, child psychology, nutrition, and parental well-being. From potty training and sleep training to tackling tantrums, picky eating, discipline, screen time, postpartum recovery, and developmental milestones, Dr. Mona provides practical, science-backed advice that actually works.
Tune in on Mondays and Wednesdays for actionable insights, mindset shifts, and expert interviews that empower you to raise healthy, resilient, and happy kids—while thriving as a parent yourself!
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