Orgasmic Enlightenment with Kim Anami

It's always their fault. 

Everyone’s got a narcissist story these days. IT’S ALWAYS THE FAULT OF THE NARCISSIST! 

Someone said to me a few years ago that a narcissist is essentially someone who hasn’t healed their trauma. And they aren’t interested in healing it. 

But what if this isn’t about how evil and awful the narcissist is? What if it’s about you and the 8000 red flags and signs you ignored, telling you this wasn’t right? 

In fact, that’s the only thing it’s about: How you chose wrong and how blaming someone else is keeping you stuck in a cycle of victimhood and re-traumatization. 

In this episode: 
The price for being a victim and not taking radical self-responsibility 
Scorpions gonna sting. Narcs gonna narc. Do you play with them anyway? 
Why is there “chemistry” with a narcissist or someone who may not be good for you? 
Does that mean that all “chemistry” now can’t be trusted? 
99.9% of relationships have this flaw 
The most important juncture in any relationship 
The reasons why people stay where they know it’s not good for them 
How to break free and choose better: and choose YOU. 
COME TO ANAMI LAND! 

We’ll be opening our private, exclusive Anami Land membership community in the coming weeks. 

This will be a place for people who’ve taken our salons to keep going in there work. And for those of you who’ve been hovering on the outskirts of Anami Land, it’s open to you too. 

People have been asking—begging—us to create a dating site for ages. 

This will function as that, a community for like-minded Anami enthusiasts—singles, couples, men and women—everyone looking to take their lives, growth and relationships to the next level. 

Go to kimanami.com/anamiland to signup on the waitlist and be notified of when we open the doors.

In a conscious, Anami-style relationship, the only acceptable answer to any invitation from your partner is: F*CK YES!!!
Would you like to learn how to have better sex? F*ck yes!
Do you want life-changing G-Spot, cervical and squirting orgasms? F*ck yes!
Would you like to be able to become a multi-orgasmic man, fuck for three hours straight and learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation? F*ck yes!
Most relationships are held together by their collective—and TACIT—that is, unspoken—agreement to stagnate together.
In Anami Land, we have a pact to GROW together.  The kinds of things I talk about—what BECOMES the NORM around here—is the stuff of legends.
Women having a hundred orgasms in a row
Couples having 72-hour sex dates
Men being multi-orgasmic and able to orgasm without ejaculation 
Couples having sex from across the room and across the planet (my specialty, haha) 
These things ONLY happen when both people are ALL IN.
It’s f*ck yes! or bust. 
In this episode:
How to change a stagnant relationship from “maybe later” and “we’re too busy” to “fuck yes!” 
Starting a relationship with “fuck yes!” ​​​​​​​
How I train myself for “fuck yes!” moments 
The day I caught 35 waves surfing 
Living in Anami Land means a perpetual “fuck yes!” 
“Bare minimums” in Anami Land: HINT: transcendental, multi-million-dollar-deal-generating blow jobs 
Coming Together: Registration closes tonight at midnight PST!

My quintessential mind/body/spirit Tantric and creative genius spiritually orgasmic portal for couples to come together emotionally and sexually. 
You'll learn: 
How to create a conscious relationship that elevates you into the highest, most evolved versions of yourselves 
And generates the most quantum, life-changing orgasms: G-Spot, cervical, squirting for her and orgasms without ejaculation for men. And anal for both of you. Because don't you know? You can find God up your ass. 
Learn how to use your sexual energy to pro-creatively build your lives with 
Lifelong passionate intimacy becomes your daily reality: the stuff of Well-F**ked All Star legend 
My step-by-step techniques for cathartic and blissful yoni and lingam massages
How to clear space, communicate openly and have the tough conversations in your relationship that remove blockages and clothing. Instantaneously. 
The ins-and-outs of sexual reflexology.  The ultimate therapeutic healing every time you have sex and touch each other. 
How to use different sex acts to make more cash. Eh, not that way. But through activating your energy channels and learning how to shape matter, space and time. Yes, that's what we do here in Anami Land, mf. 
Why most women don’t achieve the "I saw God" vaginal orgasms and how they can. 
Super stamina techniques for men. 
And much more 
Fuck yes, we're in!
https://kimanami.com/lovers

In today’s episode we interview a couple who have had the most dramatic—and fastest—turnaround I’ve ever seen. 

They were in a *beyond* sexless marriage. 

They were intimate 2 or 3 times—a year.

In the span of a few hours they did a massive 180 and they’ve been full speed ahead ever since. 

 It’s never too late. If it’s possible for them, it’s possible for you too.

In this episode we’ll talk about the two most important things they did. Also: 
The power of “all in”
Sex 2-3 times a year for over a decade
From divorce court to 4 hours of sex 
A life-changing Tantric retreat
Tossed the Viagra and Cialis
Healing each other through intercourse
Past issues and resentments evaporating almost instantly
Staying together “for the children”? 
That person really needs a cock up their ass
Surrendering and vulnerability as a man
At age 64, the plan is to “fuck until the day I die” 
COMING TOGETHER FOR COUPLES is now open: 10 weeks to gourmet, life-changing sex!
In my online signature program for creating conscious relationships and quantum sex, you’ll learn:
Sexual reflexology of the yoni and lingam
My prescription guide for different sexual positions to heal various ailments
Tantric and Taoist techniques to harness your sexual energy and use it for healing, rejuvenation and creative genius
How to have multiple, full-body and energy orgasms
Supercock stamina techniques for men
Amplifying masculine and feminine polarity to increase your chemistry attraction: going from buddies to headboard slammers
And all my secrets to coming together
Signup now.

As in, our genitals are oracles. When they speak, they reveal our innermost truths. 
We can have conversations with our own genitals. What’s even more fun, is having them with our partner’s genitals.
In today’s episode I speak with Well-F**ked All Stars and Coming Together Alumni Carla and Pracarsh about their relationships with each other’s cock and pussy:
How they grow and shift and change, depending on how much they open and how well they are loved. And when asked, what they have to say.
In this episode: 
An Anami-inspired marriage 
Only dishonesty can break the relationship
Our genitals size and shape change as we release any stuck energy in them
Blocks malform your body
“His cock keeps growing bigger!”
Conversations with cock
Godly energy in our genitals
Sentient breasts
Genitals demand coherence and honesty. Otherwise they shut down.
Yoni massage and jade egg to unwind a “hard” and closed vagina
Genital curses
Alchemizing past wounds together through sex
“Vibrations of energy come from my yoni all the way up my body and I get transported into different dimensions.”
Says Carla: “Being in a conscious monogamous relationship where the container is sealed between you, has seriously been one of the most healing and beautiful experiences of my life.”
COMING TOGETHER FOR COUPLES SALON
EVERY couple can be having hours of sex, energy sex, multi-orgasmic sex, 20, 30, 40 orgasms in a session sex, and be turned on by each other for decades. 

it's the Anami Guarantee. 

I walk you through how to get there, step-by-step, in the Coming Together for Couples Salon. This is my 10-week online program for couples where you’ll learn everything from: 
How to have wild, 10-hours long Tantric sex 
How to communicate from the heart and genitals to achieve deep vulnerability 
Guided lingam and yoni massage 
Techniques to achieve all the deeper orgasms in women: G-spot, squirting and cervical 
Achieving superstar stamina in men and have full control over when you orgasm 
Or IF you do: I’ll also teach you how to orgasm without ejaculation 
Feminine and masculine polarity to amplify these energies in your life and bed, This is the secret to the hottest—and lifelong—sexual chemistry

One of my absolute most favourite concepts in ALL of my work is the idea of:  Fuck them until you change them. 

Our sex acts have the power to transform us. But only when they hit a certain level of Anami gourmet-style sex. 

The big barometric question I always ask people about their sex lives, and the way you can tell whether you’re having Anami-style gourmet sex or plebeian junk-food sex, is: 

Does sex change your life? Do you feel energized, rejuvenated, euphoric, healed, transformed and like you’ve seen God? 

If not, you’re doing it wrong. 

Anything other than that isn’t hitting the mark. At least in Anami Land. 

In this episode we speak to Well-F**ked All Stars Jared and Vi:
The emotional catharsis of squirting
Healing and alchemizing past trauma through sex
Male G-Spot liberation
Orgasm without ejaculation for him 
SHE LOVES HIS COCK. Can’t get enough of it.
From religious suppression to: “if the entire bed isn’t unusable with wetness after we’re done, then it was a small session.”
3-hour sex date impact lasts for a week 
COMING TOGETHER FOR COUPLES SALON 
EVERY couple can be having hours of sex, energy sex, multi-orgasmic sex, 20, 30, 40 orgasms in a session sex, and be turned on by each other for decades. 

it's the Anami Guarantee. 

I walk you through how to get there, step by step, in my Coming Together Salon. This is my 10-week online program for couples where you’ll learn everything from: 
How to have wild, 10-hours long Tantric sex 
How to communicate from the heart and genitals to achieve deep vulnerability 
Using your sexual energy to alchemise ALL of your relationship and personal issues 
Step by step guided lingam and yoni massage 
Techniques to achieve all the deeper orgasms in women: G-spot, squirting and cervical 
Achieving superstar stamina in men: being able to have full control over when you orgasm 
Or IF you do: I’ll also teach you how to orgasm without ejaculation 
Feminine and masculine polarity to amplify these energies in your life and bed, This is the secret to the hottest—and lifelong—sexual chemistry 
To signup, go to kimanami.com/lovers