What We Said

Would you rather tune in to this week’s episode of What We Said… or—actually, that’s your only option. Jaci and Chelsey are reading through some of the most impossible questions from the classic two-option game, and things get tricky fast. Some start easy, like flying private alone or first class with your friends (What good is first class if my sistas can't sit? - J. Cole I think), but then it escalates to dilemmas like choosing one permanent vacation spot forever or traveling the world in luxury but never returning to the same place twice. Some questions require real thought, most lead to overthinking, and every single one is likely something we’ll never have to deal with. Yay for fake scenarios!!

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WOULD YOU RATHER: 36:39

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This week’s topic is dating nightmares — and it might be the most relatable episode yet for women. You know those moments that immediately make you rethink dating entirely? Like showing your date a picture of your best friend and him casually responding with “she’s hot.” How about waiting until ~ spicy ~ time for a confession that he maybe should’ve cleaned up a little better… And of course, it wouldn’t be an episode about men being horrifying without one casually reminding you on the drive home that he could, in fact, unalive you — just a completely normal thing to say, right? If there’s one thing about boys, it’s that they truly cannot keep thoughts to themselves, and this episode is full of the kind of stories that make you question why we ever give them a chance in the first place.

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DATING NIGHTMARES: 26:13

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This week Jaci and Chelsey are joined by special guest Dr. Suzy Welch, creator of The Values Bridge, to dive into what really drives us at our core. The girls both took the assessment (you should too!) and break down their results with Suzy’s help — from the values they naturally prioritize to the ones they wish they were living out more fully. The test goes beyond surface-level personality traits, giving a deeper look at how your values show up in real life, where you might feel out of alignment, and how that impacts your decisions, relationships, and overall sense of fulfillment. It even highlights where your values work together — or clash — and why that tension can feel so confusing. Whether you’re feeling stuck, curious about your patterns, or just love a good self-discovery moment, this episode is packed with insights you can actually apply.

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What could possibly be more chic than listening to the What We Said Podcast? Nothing obv, but Jaci and Chelsey are breaking down a few things that might come close. From analog baskets and paperback books to customized jewelry and… being ugly? The girls explore what “chic” actually means right now. One thing’s for sure: no one’s getting torn down for their preferences. Just because something isn’t your vibe doesn’t make it not chic. If you’re looking for your lifestyle choices to be judged, maybe go read a Substack.

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CATCH UP: 0:08
TOPIC: 38:17

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Jaci and Chelsey have returned from some very fun trips and have some insane stories to share, with some high highs and very low lows. After recapping their travels and touching on the awe inspiring Artemis II mission, they jump right into this month’s advice column, breaking down submissions from What We Said listeners. Valley Girls are struggling across the world with inconsiderate friends asking fertility questions, navigating birth trauma, admitting to lighthearted therapist lies, and more!

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CATCH UP: 0:08
ADVICE: 37:16

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