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Welcome back to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast! In this compelling episode, your hosts Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists, dive into the pervasive issue of "survival mode," a state many people unknowingly live in due to past trauma or chronic stress. Discover how survival mode manifests in daily life, leaving individuals emotionally and physically drained even with ample rest.
Tim and Ruth utilize their expertise in trauma therapy to break down the mechanics of a nervous system stuck on high alert, detailing its impact on your mental, physical, and emotional health. They illuminate common behaviors stemming from survival mode, such as chronic fatigue, persistent guilt for resting, and an inability to relax.
The episode isn't just about identifying the problem but offers transformative strategies to help listeners shift out of survival mode. From grounding techniques and the importance of intentional rest to resetting false alarms and establishing healing rituals, Tim and Ruth provide actionable advice. They emphasize the significance of teaching your nervous system new patterns of safety and the role of therapy, especially EMDR, in aiding this transformation.
Join the conversation on finding peacefulness amidst life's chaos, and learn how to reclaim your energy and mental peace one nourishing step at a time. Whether you're battling lingering childhood trauma or the pressures of adult responsibilities, this episode offers hope and practical tools to guide you back to a state of calm and control.
[Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at [email protected], and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]
{Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
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Ep 267 - Unmasking Relationship Conflicts: Surface vs. Story
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Welcome back to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, the podcast that delves into turning life's challenges into avenues for growth and healthier connections. In this episode, your hosts, licensed marriage and family therapists Tim and Ruth Olson, delve into the dynamics of communication within relationships, particularly focusing on recurring conflicts.
Are you and your partner repeatedly arguing over seemingly trivial issues like chores or phone usage? Tim and Ruth unravel the true nature of these conflicts, revealing that beneath the surface lies a deeper story or unmet emotional need. Together, they guide listeners through recognizing when they're arguing over the 'surface' and how to identify the underlying 'story' that fuels these debates.
The episode provides practical steps to pause, reflect, and communicate effectively, transforming potential arguments into opportunities for understanding and connection. By examining real-life examples and offering strategies to reframe conversations, Tim and Ruth empower couples to explore and address the emotional narratives that impact their relationships.
Whether you're winding down from a long day or navigating through emotional storytelling, join the conversation that encourages healing, empathy, and lasting love.
[Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at [email protected], and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]
{Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
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Ep 266 - "Walking the Tightrope: Balancing Adventure and Stability in Relationships"
Welcome to another insightful episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where hosts Tim and Ruth Olson explore the intricate dynamics between partners with differing desires for stability and unpredictability. With their combined expertise in marriage, family therapy, and trauma, they delve into how couples can thrive despite having contrasting needs.
This episode uses a beloved song from The Greatest Showman to illustrate these dynamics, sparking a discussion about the challenges and opportunities present in relationships where one partner craves adventure and the other seeks stability. Tim and Ruth share personal anecdotes about how they navigate their differing approaches: Ruth's tendency towards spontaneity and Tim's preference for planning.
Listeners are guided through understanding the core emotional needs that drive each partner’s behavior, such as security, predictability, freedom, and growth. The Olsons offer practical strategies for meeting these needs respectfully while maintaining a balance between stability and adventure.
The episode emphasizes the importance of mutual respect and communication, highlighting how couples can transform potential conflicts into opportunities for deeper connection. By exploring topics like compromise, micro-adventures, anchor days, and the celebration of differences, this conversation provides a comprehensive roadmap for couples to appreciate and leverage their unique traits for a more harmonious relationship.
Whether you’re the adventurer or the planner in your relationship, this episode offers valuable insights into appreciating and complementing each other’s strengths, ultimately creating a fulfilling partnership that thrives on diversity.
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Ep 265 - From Strikeouts to Strength: Mastering Resilience with Self-Talk
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In this episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, hosts Tim and Ruth Olson guide listeners on a transformative journey through the concepts of resilience and emotional strength, inspired by Kenny Rogers' song "The Greatest." As experienced marriage and family therapists, they delve deep into how perspective shapes our view of the world, highlighting the unique lens of a young boy in the song who reframes his failures into a narrative of success.
Listeners are invited to explore the importance of healthy self-talk as Tim and Ruth emphasize its role in building emotional strength. Through personal anecdotes and practical tips, they show how nurturing positive internal dialogues can counteract the tendency to internalize failure and shame.
The episode also tackles the significance of viewing failure as a stepping stone rather than a final verdict. Drawing parallels between childhood innocence and adult self-perception, the Olsons discuss how maintaining a hopeful perspective can lead to personal growth and healing from past trauma.
Join Tim and Ruth as they share invaluable insights on fostering resilience in relationships and self-identity, encouraging listeners to redefine their narratives and embrace a mindset of curiosity and kindness towards oneself. Whether navigating personal hardships or supporting loved ones, this episode offers a beacon of hope and practical strategies to turn life's challenges into opportunities for growth.
[Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at [email protected], and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]
{Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
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Ep 264 - Overcoming the Fear of Success: Five Powerful Steps
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Welcome to this enlightening episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where licensed marriage and family therapists Tim and Ruth Olson dive into the intricacies of personal growth and overcoming the fear of success. In this second part of a compelling series, they explore the root causes of why success can be intimidating and offer practical solutions to help you move past guilt, burnout, and self-sabotage.
The Olsons discuss five transformative steps you can take to enjoy success on your own terms without fear or guilt. They start by helping you redefine success based on your current values and personal needs, separate from societal expectations. Exploring questions like "What do I want success to feel like?" can help clarify your personal path.
You'll also learn how to identify and challenge the underlying fear stories that hold you back, and how to release the guilt associated with personal growth. Tim and Ruth emphasize the importance of focusing on your identity rather than your achievements to ensure a grounded and fulfilling success journey.
Finally, they encourage you to take purposeful action, recognizing that the process might be messy, but it's essential for progress. By following these steps, you'll be equipped to handle the anxieties and uncertainties of pursuing your goals.
Join Mr. and Mrs. Therapy as they empower you with the tools to transform your fear of success into a gateway for healing, wisdom, and deeper connection. If this episode resonates with you, don't hesitate to share it with someone who might benefit. Remember, your mind is a powerful thing, and you're allowed to succeed joyfully and peacefully.
[Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at [email protected], and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]
{Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
About Mr and Mrs Therapy | EMDR Therapy, Trauma, PTSD, Healing Trauma, Communication, Anxiety, Depression, Relationship
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Is your trauma consuming you?
Are you tired of constantly having anxiety or depression?
Are you struggling to stop negative self talk?
Do you have past hurts that still haunts you?
Are you fighting about the same things over and over again in your relationship?
Do you have past hurts that still haunts you?
In this podcast, you will find tools and resources to help you better understand yourself and your relationships. You’ll learn how to manage or even eliminate the constant anxiety, negative self talk, and feelings of overwhelm that you’ve been experiencing. Our mission is to equip you to be healthy mentally and relationally and to bring healing to past trauma that might be still affecting you today. If you’re ready to say yes to being the best version of yourself, have fulfilling and healthy relationships, and have a better life, - then you are in the right place!
Hey, we’re Tim and Ruth! We’re licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts with over 30 years of combined experience. We’ve seen time and time again how people have tried to will themselves to be happy, muscle through it, and have ended up even worse off than when they began. We’ve noticed that people have experienced deep pain, whether it’s others who have hurt them or situations and the world just beating them down, and often they have turned that into an internal dialogue where they are mean...like really cruel in how they talk to themselves. They have anxiety, feel depressed and overwhelmed, all the while their self talk is telling them ”I’m not good enough, I’m a failure, I’m worthless, I’m not loveable, I cannot trust anyone, I am powerless, I’m not in control.” How emotionally exhausting! We’ve realized that people want to get out of that place, they just don’t know how. They feel lost, alone, and without hope. Mental health & recurring toxic relationships can feel like an uphill battle, but you are not alone in this, that’s where we come in! We offer specific steps, practical tools, strategies, and insights that will help you to overcome these ongoing battles and help you win the war! There is hope, and there certainly is healing! We can’t wait to share it with you!
If you are ready to finally find ways to overcome your anxiety, stop your negative self talk, stop feeling like a burden, break free from co-dependency and toxic relationships, and stop letting your past run the show... and if you’re looking for changes that can transform your life, like improved mood, increased confidence, healthier relationships, and healing from the past that has kept you stuck for too long - this podcast is for you!
Bring your drama and your trauma and lets get healing!
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